Excepting a few women living in the USA, If they do engage in the International forum it is usually infrequently. For the longest time this was a dating site.
The International forum used to be a fun place with a lot of great people from numerous places besides those folks living in the UK and Europe in general.
The CS International forum is now dominated mostly by Europeans and there are a couple people living there who can not stand some People on this side of the pond.
So, does anyone have non biased opinions why the International forum has gone to the dogs and how things can turn around?
galrads: So, does anyone have non biased opinions why the International forum has gone to the dogs and how things can turn around?
It appears all of CS is a social gathering of people. This is not a dating site. Most people don't make the effort to know another. The few that make contact wants to talk anywhere but here on CS. There is something fishy about giving a stranger on CS private information to contact. Naaaaa, I'll pass.
Friendship4ever: It appears all of CS is a social gathering of people. This is not a dating site. Most people don't make the effort to know another. The few that make contact wants to talk anywhere but here on CS. There is something fishy about giving a stranger on CS private information to contact. Naaaaa, I'll pass.
Do you have any idea for anything that you want to share with others in this community?
Anyways, cs will tell you: "ConnectingSingles is all about you
First off, the site is exactly as advertised, totally 100% free to use, with loads of free features and high quality, easy to use design. Our goal is to make our members look their best and give them all the features they need and all the opportunities possible to get acquainted and connect. We all have the dream of joining up, immediately finding 'The One', and living happily ever after. But realistically it takes time and patience to find that someone who is perfect for you. In the meantime, we would also like to help you meet new friends and enjoy your search. Besides searching for that special person, there are lots of things to do here and lots of ways to get to know others."
galrads: Do you have any idea for anything that you want to share with others in this community?
Anyways, cs will tell you: "ConnectingSingles is all about you
First off, the site is exactly as advertised, totally 100% free to use, with loads of free features and high quality, easy to use design. Our goal is to make our members look their best and give them all the features they need and all the opportunities possible to get acquainted and connect. Weall have the dream of joining up, immediately finding 'The One', and living happily ever after. But realistically it takes time and patience to find that someone who is perfect for you. In the meantime, we would also like to help you meet new friends and enjoy your search. Besides searching for that special person, there are lots of things to do here and lots of ways to get to know others."
Using words like "we" and "our" makes it sound like you are part owner of CS.
To say that "we all have the dream blah blah blah" I doubt is true. Not everyone on CS is looking for a partner. That is partially why CS has become a social site for people to gather and discuss various subjects.
CS changed along with world events and new dating sites. I joined a very long time ago and from what I see there are less than a dozen people still on here from when I joined. People move on with their lives. I am rarely here and if I was still working I would be here less than I am now. I'm not looking for a partner because I don't want a partner. I've had my share of love and intimacy.
Keep searching Gal. Don't let CS be your only source to find "the one".
secretagent09: Using words like "we" and "our" makes it sound like you are part owner of CS.
To say that "we all have the dream blah blah blah" I doubt is true. Not everyone on CS is looking for a partner. That is partially why CS has become a social site for people to gather and discuss various subjects.
CS changed along with world events and new dating sites. I joined a very long time ago and from what I see there are less than a dozen people still on here from when I joined. People move on with their lives. I am rarely here and if I was still working I would be here less than I am now. I'm not looking for a partner because I don't want a partner. I've had my share of love and intimacy.
Keep searching Gal. Don't let CS be your only source to find "the one".
I am not searching for love or intimacy sa and that fact is noted in my profile and past posts. And whomsaid cs is my only source for online amusement? thank you for your opinion though.
galrads: Uh, I guess you are unjustly blaming me. if you could describe me in one word, what would it be?
Funny, I don't see you inn a negative light at all Gals. I think you're a very nice bloke(dude).
I suppose the fact that most at forumers are NOT LOOKING is, sorry to say part of the problem. I am looking for a partner, as I was last time around. Now who am I gonna flirt with here? And... the ones who actually are single and maybe partly looking... if not admitting it... most of them I have tried on already....hahaha.
Yesterday I spoke with a new woman (to me) from Germany. Cs but not forums/blogs. She's just damn lovely and fun too. 50+ not a scammer garanteed. I will speak to her again soon. Not a dating site ha....lol. Maybe not a dating stie at forums, and yes that IS ok. But some of the joy is out as a result of it. jmo
galrads: Excepting a few women living in the USA, If they do engage in the International forum it is usually infrequently. For the longest time this was a dating site.
The International forum used to be a fun place with a lot of great people from numerous places besides those folks living in the UK and Europe in general.
The CS International forum is now dominated mostly by Europeans and there are a couple people living there who can not stand some People on this side of the pond.
So, does anyone have non biased opinions why the International forum has gone to the dogs and how things can turn around?
Pay some interesting members to join the forums. More of a fun type of person who keeps the excitement going like a fluffer
Grandsiozzie: Funny, I don't see you inn a negative light at all Gals. I think you're a very nice bloke(dude).
I suppose the fact that most at forumers are NOT LOOKING is, sorry to say part of the problem. I am looking for a partner, as I was last time around. Now who am I gonna flirt with here? And... the ones who actually are single and maybe partly looking... if not admitting it... most of them I have tried on already....hahaha.
Yesterday I spoke with a new woman (to me) from Germany. Cs but not forums/blogs. She's just damn lovely and fun too. 50+ not a scammer garanteed. I will speak to her again soon. Not a dating site ha....lol. Maybe not a dating stie at forums, and yes that IS ok. But some of the joy is out as a result of it. jmo
Dang, you earned a thumb-down on your post! Now i may not be looking but i would not ignore it if something clicks. Btw i have met several women from cs already and some are friends with me on fb and other websites. They know the real Jekyll and Hyde in me.
i don't think any of the forums or blogs have gone to the dogs much. there's an awful lot we don't see unless we go look for it.
it would seem there are many people that might prefer this environment to potential others online. there are many more topics than the ones we see most. more parts to the site that many of us may not use.
as for people not participating in forums OR blogs, who are we to say good things aren't happening here for them? we can't see what they're typing.
maybe there's much more "dating" going on than we know. maybe some matches already made by at least the dozens over the years.
then there's always the other option. don't like something, then change it. no matter what, it's going to take a persons' own personal actions to change something, or, to something else, if they don't like things now.
galrads: Excepting a few women living in the USA, If they do engage in the International forum it is usually infrequently. For the longest time this was a dating site.
The International forum used to be a fun place with a lot of great people from numerous places besides those folks living in the UK and Europe in general.
The CS International forum is now dominated mostly by Europeans and there are a couple people living there who can not stand some People on this side of the pond.
So, does anyone have non biased opinions why the International forum has gone to the dogs and how things can turn around?
interesting read. Scholars say he who controls the women control the people those women represent.
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The International forum used to be a fun place with a lot of great people from numerous places besides those folks living in the UK and Europe in general.
The CS International forum is now dominated mostly by Europeans and there are a couple people living there who can not stand some People on this side of the pond.
So, does anyone have non biased opinions why the International forum has gone to the dogs and how things can turn around?