pedro27: the lurkers log on to thumbs-down posts explain this in one word........ .....
Untrue.
I can't speak for everybody, nor will I presume to. However, in my case, I come here for one reason, and one reason only: to find a wife.
However, as often is the case, there aren't enough ladies talking at any particular time. I then seek things that are edifying to the mind. But is that what I find? In a few cases, but rarely. What I find, instead, is foul-mouthed, low-brow, self-important twits. Is it worth spending my own personal time trying to enlighten such individuals? No. Would it do any good, if I did? No. See my post #14 here:
If you bother with truth, then you'll see exactly what I mean. These blogs are filled with garbage. On that particular post, I got 5 thumbs up, 3 down, and a strong denial of my truthful statement.
So, the OP, in my opinion, is way off base, and I gave him a thumbs down for it. To call people lurkers, presumes you are more important than them, that their time isn't well spent. However, the truth of the matter is often the opposite. I often don't like the OP's views. They are often trite and contrary. Most days if a thread is foul or wrong, I just indicate it with a thumbs up or down, rather than spending precious time wasting it on some opinionated guy. I'm not here for that. But sometimes, the statements are glaringly wrong, but not so offensive that they need to be reported. This is once such instance.
I look for Truth and Justice. It is my way. The OP may be be correct for a few individuals, but I think that if the truth were known, we'd find that many, many more are people like me, that don't a rat about most of the stuff here, but they do search for something that will perhaps enlighten their day, or even the current moment. I find those moments here, but they are rare. Most people won't read this post and many will be bothered that I have spoken this much. But I'm not speaking to them. I'm speaking to those few rare individuals, that know and seek truth, as I do. Again, I don't give a rat about the rest. They will continue to get my thumb up or down, when I feel it is worth my time. And on rare occasions, I will try to elucidate my view, when a blog seems to be way off base, or that I feel my view is pertinent to the topic (as the one I quoted above).
So, Mr. OP. If you wish to get more thumbs up, quit saying things that are untrue, or a waste of people's time. And don't look down on other people's opinion! They have every right to disagree with you. That is all that should ever be gleaned from a thumb up or down. People either agree or disagree. That is all. If you can't handle that. Please quit blogging. I, for one, would likely be happy with that. But alternatively, if you wish to continue blogging, please do so, but put more thought into what you say, before you say it. You would likely see an instant change in the number of thumbs up, if that is a concern for you.
I can't speak for everybody, nor will I presume to. However, in my case, I come here for one reason, and one reason only: to find a wife.
However, as often is the case, there aren't enough ladies talking at any particular time. I then seek things that are edifying to the mind. But is that what I find? In a few cases, but rarely. What I find, instead, is foul-mouthed, low-brow, self-important twits. Is it worth spending my own personal time trying to enlighten such individuals? No. Would it do any good, if I did? No. See my post #14 here:
If you bother with truth, then you'll see exactly what I mean. These blogs are filled with garbage. On that particular post, I got 5 thumbs up, 3 down, and a strong denial of my truthful statement.
So, the OP, in my opinion, is way off base, and I gave him a thumbs down for it. To call people lurkers, presumes you are more important than them, that their time isn't well spent. However, the truth of the matter is often the opposite. I often don't like the OP's views. They are often trite and contrary. Most days if a thread is foul or wrong, I just indicate it with a thumbs up or down, rather than spending precious time wasting it on some opinionated guy. I'm not here for that. But sometimes, the statements are glaringly wrong, but not so offensive that they need to be reported. This is once such instance.
I look for Truth and Justice. It is my way. The OP may be be correct for a few individuals, but I think that if the truth were known, we'd find that many, many more are people like me, that don't a rat about most of the stuff here, but they do search for something that will perhaps enlighten their day, or even the current moment. I find those moments here, but they are rare. Most people won't read this post and many will be bothered that I have spoken this much. But I'm not speaking to them. I'm speaking to those few rare individuals, that know and seek truth, as I do. Again, I don't give a rat about the rest. They will continue to get my thumb up or down, when I feel it is worth my time. And on rare occasions, I will try to elucidate my view, when a blog seems to be way off base, or that I feel my view is pertinent to the topic (as the one I quoted above).
So, Mr. OP. If you wish to get more thumbs up, quit saying things that are untrue, or a waste of people's time. And don't look down on other people's opinion! They have every right to disagree with you. That is all that should ever be gleaned from a thumb up or down. People either agree or disagree. That is all. If you can't handle that. Please quit blogging. I, for one, would likely be happy with that. But alternatively, if you wish to continue blogging, please do so, but put more thought into what you say, before you say it. You would likely see an instant change in the number of thumbs up, if that is a concern for you.
These views are my own.
Shalom, Iyyov
Ok dude mr. How does anyone reading a post know whether previous thumbs (up or down) are for another poster or the previous thumbs are for the content posted?. Bloviate on that for a while bubba?
galrads: Ok dude mr. How does anyone reading a post know whether previous thumbs (up or down) are for another poster or the previous thumbs are for the content posted?. Bloviate on that for a while bubba?
Iyyov: ...The OP may be be correct for a few individuals, but I think that if the truth were known, we'd find that many, many more are people like me.....
Thank goodness this is on the internet. It can't do much harm as face to face. It should seek professional help for that mental illness.
It's got nothing to do with mental illness, and this is not the first time that you made comments like this, maybe some people give us the because they don't like us ,
Jeannineanne101: It's got nothing to do with mental illness, and this is not the first time that you made comments like this, maybe some people give us the because they don't like us ,
Jeannineanne101: It's got nothing to do with mental illness, and this is not the first time that you made comments like this, maybe some people give us the because they don't like us ,
Yea that prolly it Jeannie. But do they have to tell us so dearly? Seems a tad extreme at times, when you KNOW darn well thay have an ongoing campaign against you. That is what she has in mind. Buuutt you wont know till it happens to you. Pedro experienced it too. It's the irrasionale we're talking about- a clear effort to bully you hopefully into silence or leaving. Trust me it exsists. That is the sick part u see Jeannie.
Explained. Throw it in the bin if u wanna, bit atleast I tried to show what it looks like.
Grandsiozzie: Yea that prolly it Jeannie. But do they have to tell us so dearly? Seems a tad extreme at times, when you KNOW darn well thay have an ongoing campaign against you. That is what she has in mind. Buuutt you wont know till it happens to you. Pedro experienced it too. It's the irrasionale we're talking about- a clear effort to bully you hopefully into silence or leaving. Trust me it exsists. That is the sick part u see Jeannie.
Explained. Throw it in the bin if u wanna, bit atleast I tried to show what it looks like.
I know damn well what it's like to be bullied on here, and it is wrong very wrong, but that doesn't mean it's right to blame mental illness for it,
Jeannineanne101: I know damn well what it's like to be bullied on here, and it is wrong very wrong, but that doesn't mean it's right to blame mental illness for it,
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explain this in one word........
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