Your character feature you don’t like yourself (42)

Jun 28, 2023 11:26 AM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
There’s a lot – and then another lot – of features, that we don’t like in others. But is there a your own feature, that you don’t like yourself?

And if yes, what do you do with it?

You call it a personality trait and expect others to accept it? Kinda part of the package?


Or you try to overcome it? And it's a self-bettering project in progress?
Jun 28, 2023 11:30 AM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
we all envolve with decades passin

i am different now form decades past
Jun 28, 2023 11:33 AM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
pedro27: we all envolve with decades passin

i am different now form decades past
Sure. Physically, if not anything else. And that wasn't the question.
Jun 28, 2023 11:35 AM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Tulefell: Sure. Physically, if not anything else. And that wasn't the question.
one can mature in the mind to the hilt


just like megift
Jun 28, 2023 11:43 AM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
pedro27: one can mature in the mind to the hilt


just like me
And have your mind maturity moved from counting "dislikes" to... counting "likes" or somewhere further?

If so, would you share the method?
Aug 8, 2023 5:25 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Dakarai
DakaraiDakaraiMálaga, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 103 Posts
I fart and follow through
Aug 8, 2023 7:13 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Having short legs having to use a step ladder when using the toilet...........
Nov 14, 2023 8:35 AM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
angelsheart_1online today!
angelsheart_1online today!angelsheart_1North Caloocan, Metro Manila Philippines58 Threads 26 Polls 504 Posts
My flat nose, I wont change anything about my flat nose…thats what God gave me
Nov 14, 2023 2:18 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Tulefell: There’s a lot – and then another lot – of features, that we don’t like in others. But is there a your own feature, that you don’t like yourself?

And if yes, what do you do with it?

You call it a personality trait and expect others to accept it? Kinda part of the package?


Or you try to overcome it? And it's a self-bettering project in progress?
I do not like that I give the benefit of the doubt to most people...when I shouldn't, I should just walk away and not waste my time.
Nov 14, 2023 2:27 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
I got a lot of flaws. I try to over come it and sometimes i can but other times its harder but i keep trying. Ill always be a a**hole though conversing
Nov 14, 2023 2:37 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
i,m to soft hearted.......................sigh
Nov 15, 2023 5:33 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
I’m very impatient.
Nov 22, 2023 7:00 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
DearyMe: I do not like that I give the benefit of the doubt to most people...when I shouldn't, I should just walk away and not waste my time.
Well... it's your trait to think whatever you want about it, of course, but I myself think that it's in a line "you treat other people as you want to be treated": you grant them benefit of the doubt in order that they will do the same.

I personally wouldn't evaluate it as something not to like. But of course, it's yours to like or dislike :)
Nov 23, 2023 10:46 AM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Tulefell: Of all the posters here, your are most genuine and benevolent. In my definitive opinion :)
Its a lot easier to remember the truth than a web of lies :) Besides, I got no one to impress, it is what it is and I'd rather put it out there so if anyone still wants to be around me, I don't have to hide or lie.
Nov 23, 2023 3:49 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Tulefell: There’s a lot – and then another lot – of features, that we don’t like in others. But is there a your own feature, that you don’t like yourself?

And if yes, what do you do with it?

You call it a personality trait and expect others to accept it? Kinda part of the package?


Or you try to overcome it? And it's a self-bettering project in progress?
Probably the fact that I don’t show my feelings enough when in a relationship.
That doesn’t necessarily mean I care less .
Ie. I rarely use the word love . It’s a word that’s thrown around too much & usually has a “sell by date” attached to it .
Nov 23, 2023 5:17 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
Youcannow: Probably the fact that I don’t show my feelings enough when in a relationship.
That doesn’t necessarily mean I care less .
Ie. I rarely use the word love . It’s a word that’s thrown around too much & usually has a “sell by date” attached to it .
I tell my partner I love him every day. What if he had an accident and I didn’t tell him. Every day he knows I love him cus I tell him.wine
Nov 23, 2023 11:26 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
CalmSpirit1953
CalmSpirit1953CalmSpirit1953New Britain, Connecticut USA2 Posts
What I don't like is how I keep falling for the narrative my head tells me as it's condition and I take it to be my condition... the value a failed system can show you is that it has failed....then you drop it.
Myself pretends to be me and I fall for it. In truth it is a fabrication, a mirage within a mirage and there is nothing to do about it other than see that. It carries on in its illusions and is automatic. best I can do is lose interest and attention in it.

Ever find yourself carrying on an inner dialogue? Or worse yet, partitioning yourself off into two ...one that did something stupid and then the one berated itself for having done so? It's madness. Not only that, none of them are you. None.

Other than that I'm okay.
Nov 24, 2023 4:27 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
CalmSpirit1953: What I don't like is how I keep falling for the narrative my head tells me as it's condition and I take it to be my condition... the value a failed system can show you is that it has failed....then you drop it.
Myself pretends to be me and I fall for it. In truth it is a fabrication, a mirage within a mirage and there is nothing to do about it other than see that. It carries on in its illusions and is automatic. best I can do is lose interest and attention in it.

Ever find yourself carrying on an inner dialogue? Or worse yet, partitioning yourself off into two ...one that did something stupid and then the one berated itself for having done so? It's madness. Not only that, none of them are you. None.

Other than that I'm okay.
It was a simple question and you twisted it into nonsense.
Nov 24, 2023 4:52 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
not having the courage to make my fortune...................dunno wave wave
Nov 24, 2023 4:57 PM CST Your character feature you don’t like yourself
truheart1941: not having the courage to make my fortune...................
You were a great butcher who loved your customers. It’s just a bit sad you never owned your store. Myself I never liked working for a boss so I decided not to and took over the whole business.
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