Why is it nice guys finish last? (23)
And the lady wins the prize.
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Get usta it...That is just the way it is..
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nice guys never lose at the game of life, players win a lot butthe game they play and invest their time and effort in is a short game. NIce people will always win in the game of life... don't be to harsh on yourself becuase once or twice the dice you tossed gave you a bad number. why do players always get the one night stands? its the short game they play. invest in your life and you will be a winner.... sadly oin the game of life there is no no short cut... thius your answer your game has no shortcuts thus your race is od longer duration.
As the ladies have said many a player use that as a opening gambit "I'm a nice guy.
Nice guys never lose at the "game of life" as you call it. Players spout they have a lot of wins and trophys to prove it. but the "game" they play and invest their time and effort in is always a short duration game. NIce people will always win in the "game of life"... don't be to harsh on yourself because once or twice the dice you tossed gave you bad numbers. you'll get to toss them again.
players always get the one night stands, sadly they take a nice person with them ( bad number tossed by the nice person)
nice people finish last because they take time out for others, because they savor every encounter along the way.
Nice folks get labeled by others. rarely do they identify themselves that way. The simple reason is, I believe anyway, is many persons mistake being nice as being gullible/stupid weak..hell pick any negative connation and being "nice" gets mistaken for that... thats why nice people do not often lay claim to that moniker "nice.
As the ladies have said many a player use that as a opening gambit "I'm a nice guy.
Nice guys never lose at the "game of life" as you call it. Players spout they have a lot of wins and trophys to prove it. but the "game" they play and invest their time and effort in is always a short duration game. NIce people will always win in the "game of life"... don't be to harsh on yourself because once or twice the dice you tossed gave you bad numbers. you'll get to toss them again.
players always get the one night stands, sadly they take a nice person with them ( bad number tossed by the nice person)
nice people finish last because they take time out for others, because they savor every encounter along the way.
Nice folks get labeled by others. rarely do they identify themselves that way. The simple reason is, I believe anyway, is many persons mistake being nice as being gullible/stupid weak..hell pick any negative connation and being "nice" gets mistaken for that... thats why nice people do not often lay claim to that moniker "nice.
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very well said-- thank you
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Well said
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Being played in the past is one reason but there are more. Some women just like the chase. For some reason they are not happy with us nice guys. They would rather go after something much more complicated or quite possibly something they cannot have.
Another thing that puzzles me is these women who stay in physically and mentally abusive relationships for years. If they are not getting beat, they are being called the C word all the time. I even knew a girl who tried to justify her bruises like she had every right to be beat. For some reason, they do not leave.
Another thing that puzzles me is these women who stay in physically and mentally abusive relationships for years. If they are not getting beat, they are being called the C word all the time. I even knew a girl who tried to justify her bruises like she had every right to be beat. For some reason, they do not leave.
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hey I'm a nice guy
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can you say
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Yes most of this has deffinatly helped with understanding WHY most women wind up choosin the a**hole
I love the friend role too lol they tell you how good of a guy you are and how your so nice then they go out and get screwed over and come running back to you crying every time
I wish I could say no are just start doin for me but I cant
I love the friend role too lol they tell you how good of a guy you are and how your so nice then they go out and get screwed over and come running back to you crying every time
I wish I could say no are just start doin for me but I cant
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Very well said... a players win is a short term thing!
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I am a decent enough nice guy...... but have my moments of being an a**hole like ALL guys.
women who want the so called bad guys are looking for... to a certain ecxtent a man who can protect them,
Well ladies them so called Bad guys are generaly Bullys and Bullys always get what they deserve, I've done a lot with my life, saved a few and lost a few in the process, but I always have looked out for my own.. but I can honestly say that I have nor will I ever lift my hand to a woman.... that is not a bad guy!!!! thats a COWARD
so here is a big hug ladies from a decent, nice guy with a few faults
women who want the so called bad guys are looking for... to a certain ecxtent a man who can protect them,
Well ladies them so called Bad guys are generaly Bullys and Bullys always get what they deserve, I've done a lot with my life, saved a few and lost a few in the process, but I always have looked out for my own.. but I can honestly say that I have nor will I ever lift my hand to a woman.... that is not a bad guy!!!! thats a COWARD
so here is a big hug ladies from a decent, nice guy with a few faults
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Ive dated nice ones and bad ones .....mmmm prefer the good guys 
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If I new the answer I wouldn't finish last 
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to tell you the truth i don't know why good guy finish last. but i always go for the good guy.
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because woman think nice guy's are wuss's
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Nice guys may finish last. And they may not get the girl they desire.
But it is no good living a life you hate. Be yourself and live life the way you are comfortable with. Being true to yourself is important. If you start living a lie: then any relationship you develop will crumble as you get disheartened and disillusioned by the lie you are trying to live.
Look at it this way. If she can't see the guy for what he is then she deserves what she gets. (generalised statement)
Wouldn't you prefer someone with lifeskills, Commonsense, and intelligence.
But it is no good living a life you hate. Be yourself and live life the way you are comfortable with. Being true to yourself is important. If you start living a lie: then any relationship you develop will crumble as you get disheartened and disillusioned by the lie you are trying to live.
Look at it this way. If she can't see the guy for what he is then she deserves what she gets. (generalised statement)
Wouldn't you prefer someone with lifeskills, Commonsense, and intelligence.
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