You're only stupid if you make the same mistakes twice.....so ask questions, it's the only way to learn.....right?...I'm from the pro-active crowd....pacifists and destiny-people are on the other side of the bank....
I have to admit...I am one of those "why did that happen"...people...
I am constantly reading and researching...don't know if it prevents me from making the same mistake twice...but at least i'm better informed as to why it happen...
For me, the hardest part in analyzing a situation is only looking at the part I played in it. I only have control over myself, so I can't analyze why someone else did what they did. I can only try to figure out what part I played in it and what I needed to learn from the situation.
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Or are you content to just chalk them up to "life" and move on...