Flirting is a fine art, one of culture's highest social forms....it's the way we mingle and compliment each other, using the ageless mating dance as a matrix....the rules are clear, the nuances are fine, sudden death is a feux pas away, it's a great craft, and at it's best, it enriches the social experience of all involved....unfortunately the northern races don't do it all that well, out southern brothers have all the moves.....
ummmm hello you are flirting with women aren't you???
*no offense to women out there ...this does not apply to all so don't beat me ok* have you not learned that women are fickle and difficult to figure out????? that's why you don't know which ones you can safely flirt with and which ones you can't!
with the baseball analogy wouldn't more bats be better than more balls????
i think flirting is more natural for some, but it can definitely be learned
i think you learn to flirt by watchin other people and having someone with good give/take to flirt with
i think the more comfortable you are with someone and the more intimate....the easier it is to flirt
i think the signs of it getting serious are too broad and vary with each person........i'd rather someone just say, hey i wanna take this beyond flirting..........much easier to decipher
*disclaimer..........the "i think" at the beginning of each sentence means it is Amy's thoughts and opinions not necessarily consistent with anyone elses and should be taken as such.....i am NOT saying these are steadfast rules or scientific in the least
I have always been told that i am a "natural born flirt"...
It wasn't until i was an adult i realized what this meant...it is definitely an art i think...and it does take "discipline" to finesse that art...one tiny step "over" the line....and there is another "name" for what a woman is then...lol
Flirting does not become "serious"....flirting is flirting...and should not be confused with any other dating ritual...(for lack of a better word)
And flirting has nothing to do with "appearance"...it is an art..a skill...that one refines over time just like any other skill or art one would have and cultivate....a person does not have to be enamoured with the artist to have appreciated the work of art he/she has created....
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Is it a natural ability?
Can it be learned ?
Does one life influence ones ability/ inability to flirt?
Does ones intimate life effect the ability to flirt?
What are the signs that the flirting is getting "serious"?