What would you do? (39)
Hi Jan, there's not wrong with venting off your thoughts.
Just do your best to ignore this person, whoever it is!!
Here, have a drink on me.
Just do your best to ignore this person, whoever it is!!
Here, have a drink on me.
Thanks pseq, no names but I'm sure most people here know who it is!
The wine helped!
The wine helped!
Who is it --- tell everyone who it is in a thread--- the knives of those at the ready will always plunge it
rather melodramatic -- but - hey it happens--- fire with fire until water is found
Fire with fire doesn't work with this particular person so I opt to ignore it unless I've had a bad day!
The well is dry.
The well is dry.
Either laugh or ignore-never take serious!Have a nice day,without insults
Oh, and if you've had a bad day, go for the jugular!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dear Jan,
I used to allow people to really hurt me until I realised that they were incapable of hurting me...... it really is a state of mind that allows us to be upset by other people.
Ok, I STILL get upset sometimes (it's not so easy to practice what you preach [as the bishop said to the actress while helping her back on with her cute little thong])- but the WORST thing of all one can do is show the other person that they've got under your skin as this will give them tremendous satisfaction and ensure that they redouble their efforts!
Try really ignoring the person, try and let their comments mean nothing to you, and (in far less time than you may think) their words shall really lose their ability to annoy you.
Alternatively, if it's raining, go out and do some weeding like earthman aka waterdragon aka cuspofthingyness!
I used to allow people to really hurt me until I realised that they were incapable of hurting me...... it really is a state of mind that allows us to be upset by other people.
Ok, I STILL get upset sometimes (it's not so easy to practice what you preach [as the bishop said to the actress while helping her back on with her cute little thong])- but the WORST thing of all one can do is show the other person that they've got under your skin as this will give them tremendous satisfaction and ensure that they redouble their efforts!
Try really ignoring the person, try and let their comments mean nothing to you, and (in far less time than you may think) their words shall really lose their ability to annoy you.
Alternatively, if it's raining, go out and do some weeding like earthman aka waterdragon aka cuspofthingyness!
I'd try to ignore, but having seen some of the insults,
I think I'd have a hard time ignoring after a while...
I think I'd have a hard time ignoring after a while...
Just send that person to the ege of the camp, and leave them there until they are behaving again.....the essence of it is denial of existence....if you ignore that person for long enough, surely they will realize that every time they whack you with the tar brush, it actually sticks on them....
why should we ignore you? this person accuses you of the same thing, and it is not you
The best thing you could do is what you have already done
You told everyone about your stalker.
Mostly stalkers are ex someones that couldn't accept the reality of being an ex.
It is understandably difficult to ignore obsessive and unwanted attention. But if you reply or react in any way you just reinforce his/her behaviour. This includes you sharing what you feel, which is a great move itself but also is a reward for your stalker because he/she reads it as well. So ignore will mean to leave your stalker facing an abyss, make his/her efforts fruitless.
Now you need to inform anyone you consider a friend of your stalker's name and turn the hunter into hunted
You told everyone about your stalker.
Mostly stalkers are ex someones that couldn't accept the reality of being an ex.
It is understandably difficult to ignore obsessive and unwanted attention. But if you reply or react in any way you just reinforce his/her behaviour. This includes you sharing what you feel, which is a great move itself but also is a reward for your stalker because he/she reads it as well. So ignore will mean to leave your stalker facing an abyss, make his/her efforts fruitless.
Now you need to inform anyone you consider a friend of your stalker's name and turn the hunter into hunted
It couldn't be said better
I like especially "to make his/her efforts fruitless"
I like especially "to make his/her efforts fruitless"
Thank you everybody for your wise words, I feel much better today but a little pi**ed off with myself for letting myself get wound up.
No names, but she has been sent to the 'edge of the camp' indefinitely!
No names, but she has been sent to the 'edge of the camp' indefinitely!
...a "She"..???....I thought you were being stalked by a male heavy-breather...!!
.....who would bombard your inbox with ....heavy breathing emails....
"......uhhhuuuuhh....urk..urk....gurgle....uhhhuuuuhhhh....glug glug....uhhhuuuuuhhh..."
.....who would bombard your inbox with ....heavy breathing emails....
"......uhhhuuuuhh....urk..urk....gurgle....uhhhuuuuhhhh....glug glug....uhhhuuuuuhhh..."
Now I could deal with that kind of stalking no problem.
A SHE????
Oh my god!!!
There goes my testosterone theory...............What's her excuse then if she hasn't got too much testosterone instead of just enough (which is excellent) or none at all (which is even better 'cause you wouldn't have to shave your legs etc........)????
Oh my god!!!
There goes my testosterone theory...............What's her excuse then if she hasn't got too much testosterone instead of just enough (which is excellent) or none at all (which is even better 'cause you wouldn't have to shave your legs etc........)????
it's ok Jan, don't let her get to you, you know others on here have almost the same problem with her and her 'sis'
Too much estrogen perhaps ???...%)
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I tell you I'm getting mighty pi**ed of with it.
Screaming silently, breathing deeply, tomorrow is another day.
Ignore me folks.