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Feb 23, 2008 9:43 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
How To Dance In The Rain

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 8 0's , arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. T he gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had the goose bumps on my arm, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and wi ll not be.

With all the jokes and fun that is in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.

'Life isn't about how to survive the storm,
but how to dance in the rain.'
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Feb 23, 2008 10:09 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
AnAngelAlways
AnAngelAlwaysAnAngelAlwaysJoshua, Texas USA2 Threads 546 Posts
Indyfella: How To Dance In The Rain

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 8 0's , arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. T he gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had the goose bumps on my arm, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and wi ll not be.

With all the jokes and fun that is in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.

'Life isn't about how to survive the storm,
but how to dance in the rain.'


Beautiful!! Thank you for sharing!! We should all be so lucky as to have this kind of love in our lives. angel hug
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Feb 23, 2008 10:19 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
I have worked in a alzheimers unit for years. No one can remember my name, but they remember that for some reason, they know me.
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Feb 23, 2008 11:14 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
hug That was beautiful !!
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Feb 23, 2008 11:16 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
I love it Mr. Sensitivity...hug teddybear hug
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Feb 24, 2008 3:43 AM CST How to dance in the rain~
The_Kansan
The_KansanThe_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA303 Threads 1 Polls 3,395 Posts
thumbs up Outstanding. handshake
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Feb 24, 2008 5:07 AM CST How to dance in the rain~
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
sigh lovely
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Feb 24, 2008 5:13 AM CST How to dance in the rain~
p_seg
p_segp_segCentral, Xlokk Malta340 Threads 4,497 Posts
Nice and touching post Indy, thanks for sharing!! thumbs up applause
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Feb 24, 2008 5:14 AM CST How to dance in the rain~
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
Beautiful, thanks thumbs up
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Feb 24, 2008 8:23 AM CST How to dance in the rain~
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Even a crusty old fart has a senstive side. When I received it from a friend, it stopped and made me think~

Thanks gang :)
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Feb 24, 2008 8:26 AM CST How to dance in the rain~
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Feb 24, 2008 8:44 AM CST How to dance in the rain~
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
That is so touching so wonderful everthing is so true. you dont have to have anything, but when you have love you have everthing.heart beating kiss heart beating kiss
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Feb 26, 2008 4:40 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
lover65
lover65lover65Vero Beach, Florida USA12 Threads 1 Polls 137 Posts
ya know something Indy, the world needs more people like youthumbs up thumbs up
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Feb 26, 2008 4:46 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
lover65: ya know something Indy, the world needs more people like you


I second that thoughtthumbs up
hug
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Feb 26, 2008 4:51 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Indyfella: Even a crusty old fart has a senstive side. When I received it from a friend, it stopped and made me think~

Thanks gang :)
hug
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Feb 26, 2008 5:07 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
Indyfella: How To Dance In The Rain

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 8 0's , arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. T he gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had the goose bumps on my arm, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and wi ll not be.

With all the jokes and fun that is in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.

'Life isn't about how to survive the storm,
but how to dance in the rain.'


We might just have to vote you the "Most Romantic Man on CS"daydream bowing flower

Peaches
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Feb 26, 2008 5:09 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
We might just have to vote you the "Most Romantic Man on CS"

Peaches

I was going to suggest "NEKKID" but your beautiful story sidetracked my hormonesrolling on the floor laughing devil

Pteddybear
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Feb 26, 2008 5:50 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Thanks for sharing that Indy is a lovely sentiment

hug
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Feb 26, 2008 5:51 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
........because I'm Mr. Sensitivity, I shared it.....
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Feb 26, 2008 5:55 PM CST How to dance in the rain~
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Indyfella: ........because I'm Mr. Sensitivity, I shared it.....


Well am glad you did, is bedtime here and I will think of of as I lay my head down.

night and take care
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