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Apr 14, 2008 7:36 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Two years ago I was desperate for love, today I'm at peace and comfortable being alone. Hormones, denial, adjusting ? Being somewhat reclusive for the past 14 months may have conditioned me to making friends with my life at this stage.

It's a two-way street, what woman would want an over the hill, broke and emotionally fatigued man ? Could be nature's way of easing us out.
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Apr 14, 2008 7:40 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
gentlepaws: Two years ago I was desperate for love, today I'm at peace and comfortable being alone. Hormones, denial, adjusting ? Being somewhat reclusive for the past 14 months may have conditioned me to making friends with my life at this stage.

It's a two-way street, what woman would want an over the hill, broke and emotionally fatigued man ? Could be nature's way of easing us out.


No you are just beginning not ending..you have to love and be comfortable being you and being alone with you before you can ever really love someone in return....So my friend the doors are about to open...they will never open out of desperateness...at least not for something healthy and worth it....wink hug hug teddybear lips
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Apr 14, 2008 7:44 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
totallytopside
totallytopsidetotallytopsideIronton, Minnesota USA5 Threads 524 Posts
Hey, Paws!

I think the question is "what woman would want a man that has given up?"

We all have changes in our lives...some good, some bad. It takes time to accustom ourselves to these changes. It's OK to take a break and adjust, but it's not OK to give up.

Take a moment. Step back and look at what is good in your life. Dwell on that. If you can't find anything good, you aren't looking hard enough. Life is a blessing, not a curse. Learn to live and enjoy it!

wave
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Apr 14, 2008 7:47 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
totallytopside: Hey, Paws!

I think the question is "what woman would want a man that has given up?"

We all have changes in our lives...some good, some bad. It takes time to accustom ourselves to these changes. It's OK to take a break and adjust, but it's not OK to give up.

Take a moment. Step back and look at what is good in your life. Dwell on that. If you can't find anything good, you aren't looking hard enough. Life is a blessing, not a curse. Learn to live and enjoy it!


"I'm at peace and comfortable being alone".
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Apr 14, 2008 7:48 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
gentlepaws: Two years ago I was desperate for love, today I'm at peace and comfortable being alone. Hormones, denial, adjusting ? Being somewhat reclusive for the past 14 months may have conditioned me to making friends with my life at this stage.

It's a two-way street, what woman would want an over the hill, broke and emotionally fatigued man ? Could be nature's way of easing us out.


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Apr 14, 2008 7:52 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
StressFree: http://www.thesecret.tv/


"Without exception, every human being has the ability to transform any weakness or suffering into strength, power, perfect peace, health, and abundance". Yes indeed.
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Apr 14, 2008 7:54 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
totallytopside
totallytopsidetotallytopsideIronton, Minnesota USA5 Threads 524 Posts
gentlepaws: "I'm at peace and comfortable being alone".


There's a difference between being at peace and being resigned. Be certain you know this difference. Life has a million beginnings and only one end.

wine
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Apr 14, 2008 7:55 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
gentlepaws: Two years ago I was desperate for love, today I'm at peace and comfortable being alone. Hormones, denial, adjusting ? Being somewhat reclusive for the past 14 months may have conditioned me to making friends with my life at this stage.

It's a two-way street, what woman would want an over the hill, broke and emotionally fatigued man ? Could be nature's way of easing us out.


Nature doesn't ease you out, only your mind does that..........
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Apr 14, 2008 7:55 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
I gotta agree with Hugz..........you are just hitting a new beginning!wine
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Apr 14, 2008 7:56 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
totallytopside: There's a difference between being at peace and being resigned. Be certain you know this difference. Life has a million beginnings and only one end.


Thank you for these words of wisdom. Sincerely. Leo
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Apr 14, 2008 7:59 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
totallytopside: Hey, Paws!

I think the question is "what woman would want a man that has given up?"

We all have changes in our lives...some good, some bad. It takes time to accustom ourselves to these changes. It's OK to take a break and adjust, but it's not OK to give up.

Take a moment. Step back and look at what is good in your life. Dwell on that. If you can't find anything good, you aren't looking hard enough. Life is a blessing, not a curse. Learn to live and enjoy it!


aren't you smart
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Apr 14, 2008 8:00 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
totallytopside
totallytopsidetotallytopsideIronton, Minnesota USA5 Threads 524 Posts
gentlepaws: Thank you for these words of wisdom. Sincerely. Leo


Any time, my friend!

wave
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Apr 14, 2008 8:01 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
totallytopside
totallytopsidetotallytopsideIronton, Minnesota USA5 Threads 524 Posts
SusieRR: aren't you smart


No, just old!

grin
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Apr 14, 2008 8:01 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
Leo, you were desperate for love last week. Don't make me go back and pull a thread on you. jk

Good to see you my friend!
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Apr 14, 2008 8:04 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
lovelovelovelove
teddybear gift yay
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Apr 14, 2008 8:05 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
Well you aren't totally lovelss Leo!


Mindful loves you and I love you tooyay
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Apr 14, 2008 8:05 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
KrazieStill: Leo, you were desperate for love last week. Don't make me go back and pull a thread on you. jk

Good to see you my friend!


How can you expect me to remember what I wrote last week, when I can't remember what I had for breakfast ?
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Apr 14, 2008 8:06 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
At times, I feel the same way. I keep buying bikes. It seems to help. It's also getting expensive. smoking
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Apr 14, 2008 8:08 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
gentlepaws: How can you expect me to remember what I wrote last week, when I can't remember what I had for breakfast ?


I want to put a laugh emoticon on here so bad but will refrain.

Just know you always get me laughing.

~~~~~handshake~~~~~~~
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Apr 14, 2008 8:08 PM CST Loveless and liking it.
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
"Mindful loves you and I love you too".

And I love you too, also, as well, and with commitment.
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