What is a High Maintenance Woman? (277)
I think it's what people mean when they use the word "needy".....
mbcasey: I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.
If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
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Lagoona22: Bingo...perfect match!!....I can just see you and I....two hugely high-maintenance minds stimulating the heck out of one another on the lounge carpet....!!!...sweat pouring from every brain cell.....god, what a horrible sight!!....
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mbcasey: I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.
If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
Aaaww yup
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mbcasey: I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.
If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
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Lagoona22: I think it's what people mean when they use the word "needy".....
What is wrong with needy? Maybe it is me but I believe we are put here to help each other. If you are in love with someone, needy becomes a spouses responsibility.
There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)
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mbcasey: What is wrong with needy? Maybe it is me but I believe we are put here to help each other. If you are in love with someone, needy becomes a spouses responsibility.
There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)
There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)
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mbcasey: What is wrong with needy? Maybe it is me but I believe we are put here to help each other. If you are in love with someone, needy becomes a spouses responsibility.
There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)
There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)
I have no words for this one ..
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Very noble sentiments indeed. But the theme of the thread was "high-maintenance", which by definition means "higher-than-normal". I think that all of us would agree with your position on supporting a partner with needs, but I think what we are talking about here are EXCESSIVE needs...and unrealistic expectations, manipulation and so forth.....ask Portia...it's her thread....
mbcasey: What is wrong with needy? Maybe it is me but I believe we are put here to help each other. If you are in love with someone, needy becomes a spouses responsibility.
There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)
There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)
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mbcasey: I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.
If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
Just my opinion....I think... maybe... mbcasey is the only one that seems to be in a positive mind frame...he sees the glass as half full, instead of being pessimistic...
Negativity breeds negativity...
When he's ready to enter into a relationship again...the woman he chooses will be a lucky woman...he's a very insightful man...
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soulmateTWS: Just my opinion....I think... maybe... mbcasey is the only one that seems to be in a positive mind frame...he sees the glass as half full, instead of being pessimistic...
Negativity breeds negativity...
When he's ready to enter into a relationship again...the woman he chooses will be a lucky woman...he's a very insightful man...
Negativity breeds negativity...
When he's ready to enter into a relationship again...the woman he chooses will be a lucky woman...he's a very insightful man...
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roseofsharon: No idea.... but I suspect its a woman who expects a fella to make just a little bit of effort??!!
If that's the case, then we're ALL high maintenance...lol...so why did I just spend 4 hours moving river rock?
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hrt4lse: If that's the case, then we're ALL high maintenance...lol...so why did I just spend 4 hours moving river rock?
I got no answer to this question
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Portiea: I got no answer to this question
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So, smartarse, do you have an answer? 
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Portiea: So, smartarse, do you have an answer?
That's directed at ff......
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Lagoona22: Well, moving rock is going to get you.......brownie points and fit....but it still doesn't tell us if u are high-maintenance or not...if you are constantly playing emotional games with your BF, to manipulate statements of devotion out of him, or giving him a hard time when you don't get your way.....or withdrawing, pouting, being uncommunicative and making his life difficult because you have PMS.....then you're moving up the H-M scale.....
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Lagoona22: Well, moving rock is going to get you.......brownie points and fit....but it still doesn't tell us if u are high-maintenance or not...if you are constantly playing emotional games with your BF, to manipulate statements of devotion out of him, or giving him a hard time when you don't get your way.....or withdrawing, pouting, being uncommunicative and making his life difficult because you have PMS.....then you're moving up the H-M scale.....
Maybe she just needs a harem. It might do wonders for the soul. Or something.
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soulmateTWS: Just my opinion....I think... maybe... mbcasey is the only one that seems to be in a positive mind frame...he sees the glass as half full, instead of being pessimistic...
Negativity breeds negativity...
When he's ready to enter into a relationship again...the woman he chooses will be a lucky woman...he's a very insightful man...
Negativity breeds negativity...
When he's ready to enter into a relationship again...the woman he chooses will be a lucky woman...he's a very insightful man...
Thanks Trish
<---positive about others, negative about himself....
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dcj22: Maybe she just needs a harem. It might do wonders for the soul. Or something.
How is your harem list going?
(can't wait for my turn...
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If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.