Money: you got it, she wants it and likes to spend it
Emotion: she wears you out with all her emotional needs
How soon into a relationship do you determine if she is high maintenance? Some men must like women like this, or they would not use these tactics....they'd be alone.
Is it only 'beautiful' women who can get away with being high maintance?
Ok Portia....how about giving me your opinion??....what do you think makes a woman high-maintenance? ....and how long have you been one??.....
Portiea: So, if I may try to summarize:
There are two types of being high maintenace:
Money: you got it, she wants it and likes to spend it
Emotion: she wears you out with all her emotional needs
How soon into a relationship do you determine if she is high maintenance? Some men must like women like this, or they would not use these tactics....they'd be alone.
Is it only 'beautiful' women who can get away with being high maintance?
Lagoona22: Ok Portia....how about giving me your opinion??....what do you think makes a woman high-maintenance? ....and how long have you been one??.....
OMG just don't know where to begin, six of one and half dozen of the other.
You would never be able to keep up with me, but you would want to.
I think the deciding factor in wether a man or a woman turns out to be a high-maintenance type of personality is to a large degree a factor of their childhood and upbringing....tell me what kinda childhood you had, and what types of men you go for, and I'll can make a good guess wether u are high-maintenance or not....
Bingo...perfect match!!....I can just see you and I....two hugely high-maintenance minds stimulating the heck out of one another on the lounge carpet....!!!...sweat pouring from every brain cell.....god, what a horrible sight!!....
Claayer: Hmmm.. when it comes to 'stuff' I think I'm fairly low maintenance..
But when it comes to 'Mind stimulation' .. I think I'm probably fairly high maintenance.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.
If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
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don't care much about your wallet....I want your mind........
I'll wear you out....