Lagoona22: Well, moving rock is going to get you.......brownie points and fit....but it still doesn't tell us if u are high-maintenance or not...if you are constantly playing emotional games with your BF, to manipulate statements of devotion out of him, or giving him a hard time when you don't get your way.....or withdrawing, pouting, being uncommunicative and making his life difficult because you have PMS.....then you're moving up the H-M scale.....
Right now I'd take the brownies without the points....lol
When I've had a boyfriend I've never played emotional games with them, and really, getting my way wasn't too much of a priority, I was usually more interested in what he wanted....although I would get a little pissy when he'd ask me where I wanted to go eat & I'd tell him & he'd turn around & say he couldn't afford that....told him to stop asking me because I wasn't going to tell him anymore...he knew what he could afford so just take me there....lol To this day I'm pretty hesitant about giving an opinion on where to go eat because of that.
Hey, it's called baggage.....we all carry some...unfortunately, it's never a good idea to be too compromising and selfless....if you spoil someone, they become.....well, spoilt. No surprise there. So there's this delicate balancing act between being loving, and not spoiling....it's like raising kids, in a way.....tough love...not too much, not too little...lol
Oh stuff it with the theory...let's have some brownies!!....
hrt4lse: Right now I'd take the brownies without the points....lol
When I've had a boyfriend I've never played emotional games with them, and really, getting my way wasn't too much of a priority, I was usually more interested in what he wanted....although I would get a little pissy when he'd ask me where I wanted to go eat & I'd tell him & he'd turn around & say he couldn't afford that....told him to stop asking me because I wasn't going to tell him anymore...he knew what he could afford so just take me there....lol To this day I'm pretty hesitant about giving an opinion on where to go eat because of that.
Portiea: Just as long as you know, I'M KIDDING---no actually, I'm not looking for anybody here, so don't care if anyone knows I'm kidding.
And, just in case it wasn't painfully obvious in my post, so was I (kidding, that is - can't pass on remarks that reflect my, often, lame humor)... It was just to good to pass up poking fun with/at the female members (many that I am VERY FOND of)...
So again, thanks for posing the question/thread... I have to say that I have NOT gone through and followed the different (and ultimate) direction the thread may have taken (as they often do wonder off) and was strictly responding based on your initial subject line...
Take care... hope to see you around the Chat room some time....
Lagoona22: KIDDING??.....Yeah sure..... I know you're secretly desperate for my body, but I have to warn you ahead of time......I'm very high-maintenance...
kissmedeeply: I thnk it someone who likes lots of money...material things that cost alot...expensive cars...house...her look as in expensive clothing...eats at expensive restaurants and so on...
then evidently I am not high maintenance....I have misinterpreted the meaning of high maintenance....i imagine it to be high expectations of oneself and also of their partner....
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
Crystal29: then evidently I am not high maintenance....I have misinterpreted the meaning of high maintenance....i imagine it to be high expectations of oneself and also of their partner....
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Look in the mirror, there's your answer!
Sorry.... really... just couldn't resist....
Seriously, how many pairs of shoes do you own?? Might help answer if you fit in the category...
Thanks for posting this thread.... gave me a great belly-laugh