When is 'Enough' Enough? ( Archived) (137)

Ok so you've F'ed it all up. I't s all your fault (please don't argue on this) but you realize it and you have tried to apologize. Tried to start over again...

You've called a lot, you've texted, you've left messages, you've emailed, you've done everything possible to reach the guy and say sorry and beg forgiveness. In the span of 2 months he's emailed you twice in return......

When do you call it quits on a 2 and a half year amazing relationship? When do you give up?

My heart is saying "NEVER"!!

My brain is saying much more and I might be considered a stalker.... (lol-not really but you get what I mean)

When do you just crawl away and hid in the corner and give up on the best thing in your life?

I've tried every possible means to reach him and nothing......

Rather than put yourself through any more pain....You have told him how you feel and as you said done all you can do.....I think now it's time to just live your life until such time as he decides what he wants and gets in touch with you....I'm sure there is still hurt on both sides...BUT the ball is now in his court and there isn't much more you can do except to wait!!!!!!!!!!

hey hon if he has a cell phone, leave a texr message, he will get it,
un less he knows its you and dont want to talk to you.

The truth. He is ignoring you and hoping you go away. Whatever you did it probably wasn't that bad but just the excuse he needed. Stop contacting him. Let it alone. If he has a change of heart he knows where to find you.
I know it hurts but sometimes we have to step away to see the whole picture.
You were comfortable with him but obviously there were ploblems. Remember that silence speaks volumes and his silence is yelling at you. Stop beating yourself up. Good luck.

V.

Enough is enough, when you have to ask yourself 'when is enough, enough'.

I would assume and I hate to say this but he does not have the same feelings as you anymore, it happens and all we can do is move on.


good luck.

The truth. He is ignoring you and hoping you go away. Whatever you did it probably wasn't that bad but just the excuse he needed. Stop contacting him. Let it alone. If he has a change of heart he knows where to find you.
I know it hurts but sometimes we have to step away to see the whole picture.
You were comfortable with him but obviously there were problems. Remember that silence speaks volumes and his silence is yelling at you. Stop beating yourself up. Good luck.

V.

Thank you to everyone... I know I know.... you are all right and I consider myself a pathetic piece of...... because I have been hanging on for 2 long bloody months.... torturing myself to call him and listen to his voicemail greeting just to hear his voice.... hoping wishing he would pick up.... I should have realized... no. I know I already realized he didn't want me anymore but... I don't know why I've been a bloody stupid pathetic fool to hold on hoping. It really isn't like me....

I just love him. Yeah I don't think I'll ever use the past tense on that word with him/about him.....

Thank you everyone...... This is so hard....

I'm gonna try to suck it up and move on coz relaly that's all I can do at this junction I think.....

Not Pathetic just Human. Realising it's over is hard. Time to get over it is Hard.

Finally deciding to move on is when it becomes easier.