When is 'Enough' Enough? ( Archived) (137)

Jun 12, 2008 12:15 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
EvilV: The truth. He is ignoring you and hoping you go away. Whatever you did it probably wasn't that bad but just the excuse he needed. Stop contacting him. Let it alone. If he has a change of heart he knows where to find you.
I know it hurts but sometimes we have to step away to see the whole picture.
You were comfortable with him but obviously there were ploblems. Remember that silence speaks volumes and his silence is yelling at you. Stop beating yourself up. Good luck.

V.


I was thinking this exact thing!
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Jun 12, 2008 12:16 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
sweetowen: I was thinking this exact thing!
Me toothumbs up
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Jun 12, 2008 12:19 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
its difficult
unresolved issues

it used to be a horrid discomfort for me in every area of my life

people prefer a familiar heaven to an unknown hell

change is hard

loss is awful

but i hope you can try to believe that usually-
rejection is protection

someone w/ out communication skills or desire-
what a yukky partner that would make

youre an expressive person-you dont fit w/ an avoider

just sit awhile and feel it
it will pass-

hug
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Jun 12, 2008 12:24 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Its like a witch hunt on here at times

Jeeez...what is it with some of you.doh
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Jun 12, 2008 12:25 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
bodleing: Its like a witch hunt on here at times

Jeeez...what is it with some of you.
dunno sigh
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Jun 12, 2008 12:26 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
well personally
i have found a broomstick a most suitable replacement for *ahem* friendship

rolling on the floor laughing

i like the flying too-its a bonus

and oddly ive discovered splinters are kinda exciting

nonetheless im switching to fiberglass


devil
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Jun 12, 2008 12:27 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
mindfful: well personally
i have found a broomstick a most suitable replacement for *ahem* friendship


When is enough enough????
i like the flying too-its a bonus

and oddly ive discovered splinters are kinda exciting

nonetheless im switching to fiberglass
dunno sigh
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Jun 12, 2008 12:28 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
mindfful: well personally
i have found a broomstick a most suitable replacement for *ahem* friendship



i like the flying too-its a bonus

and oddly ive discovered splinters are kinda exciting

nonetheless im switching to fiberglass


Sounds good...might need to jump on there
with you MF.



grin
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Jun 12, 2008 12:49 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
PeachesandRay: not just..."Jump"


Well I was just checking in to see what's going on and see that this thread got a little crazy, heh?

Punkass, I don't find any of your photos distasteful or anything else, just see them as you being you...so I hope my jest was taken as such for I did not realize the "button up the shirt" was a serious comment. I thought it was something said just to take your mind off what was bothering you...so sorry if my 2 cents worth was misunderstood....not pun or hurt was intended from me Dearhug

Hope all your CS buds are making you feel a bit better and much cared forteddybear

Peachescheering
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Jun 12, 2008 1:29 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
thats my point sweeties
no one knows boo
they just enjoy characterizing me as some kind of awful person

who cares
we all must have a hobby

i spose maybe im flattered at the attention
i mean if i was as worthless as these few say theydfind me too uninteresting to acknowledge now wouldnt they?

you notice maybe how much lighter and happier she looks in this foto? i love to see her this way!!

see ya later

i never know which one of you is posting so i guess i must sign off w/ 2 kiss kiss



wave
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Jun 12, 2008 1:51 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
sillyricky55
sillyricky55sillyricky55San Diego, California USA9 Threads 244 Posts
PunkassPrincess: Thank you to everyone... I know I know.... you are all right and I consider myself a pathetic piece of...... because I have been hanging on for 2 long bloody months.... torturing myself to call him and listen to his voicemail greeting just to hear his voice.... hoping wishing he would pick up.... I should have realized... no. I know I already realized he didn't want me anymore but... I don't know why I've been a bloody stupid pathetic fool to hold on hoping. It really isn't like me....

I just love him. Yeah I don't think I'll ever use the past tense on that word with him/about him.....

Thank you everyone...... This is so hard....

I'm gonna try to suck it up and move on coz relaly that's all I can do at this junction I think.....


This is the best thing you can do. You have done all you can and since nothing is coming from his end, he has probably moved on and you should actually do the same.
Why would you continue this when there is better for you? I wish you all the best as you piece yourself back together.
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Jun 12, 2008 8:08 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
mindfful: lovely to see you


hows the heat?

yikes!


wave hey! nice seeing you too

it was just a few days frustrated

but now the weather is soooo perfect cool
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Jun 12, 2008 8:19 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Now. You've done enough and you'll never get back what you had.
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Jun 12, 2008 8:19 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
sillyricky55: This is the best thing you can do. You have done all you can and since nothing is coming from his end, he has probably moved on and you should actually do the same.
Why would you continue this when there is better for you? I wish you all the best as you piece yourself back together.



Excellent advice Ricky!
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Jun 12, 2008 8:21 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
two messages...if they don't answer???......NEXT!!thumbs up
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Jun 12, 2008 8:23 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
mindfful: sorry but i still think buttoning your shirt would be a good plan



WTF?
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Jun 12, 2008 8:24 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
sillyricky55
sillyricky55sillyricky55San Diego, California USA9 Threads 244 Posts
Thanks dcj22. You are the best and keep being that way.
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Jun 12, 2008 8:24 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
prncss4someone: why do you HAVE to be like that? WHY? You say more hurtful and rude things to anyone that I have ever seen on a public forum, yet you whine about people mistreating you. I'll agree-you have a right to your opinion, BUT WHATEVER HAPPENED TO STATING IT IN AN EMAIL instead of trying to embarass someone publically. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? Seriously.

You pi**ed me right the f*ck off with your insensitivity. Go ahead, make my day

Punkie, as long as the mods are okay with it, and you feel comfy, wear what you like, be yourself





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Jun 12, 2008 8:25 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
sillyricky55: Thanks dcj22. You are the best and keep being that way.



Ditto hug
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Jun 12, 2008 8:26 PM CST When is 'Enough' Enough?
hunter1112
hunter1112hunter1112helena, Ohio USA8 Threads 404 Posts
dcj22: Ditto
head banger
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