who here believes, to find a good man/woman one should go to church? (146)
Probably not - not that there's anything wrong with that.
I was in a relationship with an avid churchgoer, and in fact, enjoyed attending with her. But what I found, in her, and with so many folks around here, was the notion that if one attended church it made them a good person, regardless of how they conducted their lives or treated others. Hypocrisy reigned supreme.
I was in a relationship with an avid churchgoer, and in fact, enjoyed attending with her. But what I found, in her, and with so many folks around here, was the notion that if one attended church it made them a good person, regardless of how they conducted their lives or treated others. Hypocrisy reigned supreme.
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As I am not religious then it would be pointless task for me.
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No I wouldn't suggest that. That would have to be there decision only.
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Hm... Living in the 21st century we still remain rather conservative...
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Who'd have thought that Christian God-fearing people would've have resorted to such underhand tactics...??
Whilst I won't get into a debate about religion, I have to agree with Rwantin, from my experiences and observations.
Whatever you decide, and whatever you believe, however.... I do think you should attend Church for the appropriate reasons and that, in my mind, doesn't involve the seeking of a relationship.
Good thread though, my friend!!
Whilst I won't get into a debate about religion, I have to agree with Rwantin, from my experiences and observations.
Whatever you decide, and whatever you believe, however.... I do think you should attend Church for the appropriate reasons and that, in my mind, doesn't involve the seeking of a relationship.
Good thread though, my friend!!
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christ in wheelchair! I thought Grocery stores were the best place to meet good people. 
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BnaturAl: christ in wheelchair! I thought Grocery stores were the best place to meet good people.
I got banned from the Produce section recently. I have to stake out new territory...
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rwantin: I got banned from the Produce section recently. I have to stake out new territory...
Were you man handling the melons again Robert?
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Justme4uok: Were you man handling the melons again Robert?
I was trying to show some bicep - the damn melons kept exploding.
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rwantin: Probably not - not that there's anything wrong with that.
I was in a relationship with an avid churchgoer, and in fact, enjoyed attending with her. But what I found, in her, and with so many folks around here, was the notion that if one attended church it made them a good person, regardless of how they conducted their lives or treated others. Hypocrisy reigned supreme.
I was in a relationship with an avid churchgoer, and in fact, enjoyed attending with her. But what I found, in her, and with so many folks around here, was the notion that if one attended church it made them a good person, regardless of how they conducted their lives or treated others. Hypocrisy reigned supreme.
I'm a good person.. and I nev-errr go to church.
(Mostly because I would probably be struck by lightening on the way throo the door)
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Justme4uok: Were you man handling the melons again Robert?
hahaha
Helloo JLC
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rwantin: I was trying to show some bicep - the damn melons kept exploding.
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BnaturAl: christ in wheelchair! I thought Grocery stores were the best place to meet good people.
Indeed, nothing feels much better than meeting a person over the frozen peas.
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Claayer: hahaha
Helloo JLC
Helloo JLC
Morning Claire..
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rwantin: I got banned from the Produce section recently. I have to stake out new territory...
you dont want to go in askiing for 'head' without including the word 'lettuce'
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Sommerauer71: Indeed, nothing feels much better than meeting a person over the frozen peas.
cold=shrinkage
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BnaturAl: you dont want to go in askiing for 'head' without including the word 'lettuce'
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fireliter: first I'll share this, a couple of people have used this ploy to get me to attend church. I am not ready nor do I want marriage ...at this time anyway.
What I currently "think" I want is all the nuances of a relationship without the bindings of the religious description of a good relationship.
That meaning being "marriage minded ".
would you ever suggest for someone to attend church to find a "good woman/man"?
What I currently "think" I want is all the nuances of a relationship without the bindings of the religious description of a good relationship.
That meaning being "marriage minded ".
would you ever suggest for someone to attend church to find a "good woman/man"?
I changed churches after I bought my house....I was attending with my parents & dated the one & only single man of dateable age in the church...after 4 months we broke up....so that was another reason to change churches.
Now, I don't go as often, and I'm in a larger church....more single men, but it's not really the best atmosphere to meet someone and I'm not even sure they have any activities for singles to be able to meet at.
But my mom has used the words....You need to find someone at church....and then I remind her of my ex husband (who I met at church) and the last boyfriend....and then I rest my case....lol
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hrt4lse:
I'm not even sure they have any activities for singles to be able to meet at.
I'm not even sure they have any activities for singles to be able to meet at.
Well if you dont ask you will never know , any way whats wrong with you setting one up or even just suggesting it to your pastor ??
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What I currently "think" I want is all the nuances of a relationship without the bindings of the religious description of a good relationship.
That meaning being "marriage minded ".
would you ever suggest for someone to attend church to find a "good woman/man"?