kkitty4u: I think that some choose to be single even if they dont realize it yet. having a relationship is hard work and it takes a lot of time to build the meeting place that both parties are truly happy. The biggest problem is finding that person that you think might be worth all of your efforts. When you do put all of your heart out on the line it makes you feel foolish when the other party is not willing to do that. I think you can find love anytime you want. It just might not be the perfect love that your mind thinks it needs. finding my hole to go crawl in
No need to hide in a hole Kitty... I take constructive critisism well. Maybe I am expecting to much from a potential partner.... but thanks for the flowers
trish123: I know what you mean and in my case, being a bridesmaid 3 times didnt help much either (as in 'three times a bridesmaid, never a bride ) haha, but I really do think its down to what we believe and being positive about that too
shipoker58: I think as long as you leave yourself open to the possibility of finding "love" you can find it again. Or it will find you. However, I have closed the door so it will never happen. Don't need it. Don't want it. Won't have it
Good morning ship.....You are sounding like a very bitter soul! I pray that is'nt so. You have a friend here if you want one. In fact I believe you have many, if you will open your eyes to the fact. I truly hope you are having a great day....Harry
wixomwizard: Good morning ship.....You are sounding like a very bitter soul! I pray that is'nt so. You have a friend here if you want one. In fact I believe you have many, if you will open your eyes to the fact. I truly hope you are having a great day....Harry
Trust me on this one. No one really has friends on this site!! You may think you do, and some are very convincing. But they will turn on you in a heartbeat. As was proven last week. Bitter?? Hell yes
shipoker58: Trust me on this one. No one really has friends on this site!! You may think you do, and some are very convincing. But they will turn on you in a heartbeat. As was proven last week. Bitter?? Hell yes
No one turned on you you got pissy over a joke, and i apoligized and you didn't want the apology do i still think of you as a friend, yes, but if you want to play the damn victim card then so be it, but damn man, chill out...........get over it, IT WAS A FREAKIN JOKE, you never joke around with someone???
shipoker58: Trust me on this one. No one really has friends on this site!! You may think you do, and some are very convincing. But they will turn on you in a heartbeat. As was proven last week. Bitter?? Hell yes
every time I try to be friendly to ya you run away
kitty01: I had my numerology done by a friend years ago and it said I was not to find love again until my later years. I have lost the sheets and now wonder what are my later years, this was done when I was 30 now I am 56, is this my later years or was it talking about when I end up in a nursing home.
You are loved now, by your true friends....perhaps you are being told to be patient still! I am 64 and still waiting.... but the good news may be that I finally found her...time alone will tell.
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wixomwizard: You are loved now, by your true friends....perhaps you are being told to be patient still! I am 64 and still waiting.... but the good news may be that I finally found her...time alone will tell.
kkitty4u: I think that some choose to be single even if they dont realize it yet. having a relationship is hard work and it takes a lot of time to build the meeting place that both parties are truly happy. The biggest problem is finding that person that you think might be worth all of your efforts. When you do put all of your heart out on the line it makes you feel foolish when the other party is not willing to do that. I think you can find love anytime you want. It just might not be the perfect love that your mind thinks it needs. finding my hole to go crawl in
jbibiza: Oh nooooooo........ I new I was destined to be a miserable lonely old woman....
Can you tell I´m in the middle of my one day a year depths of despair... It usually happens in february but I missed it this year... I seem to be making up for it today.
You see I have left men for all of the above reasons, none were my exhusband... I left him for good reasons... and I can´t help but think sometimes... maybe I´ve used up all my chances....
Ignore me... I´ll be better tomorrow, I promise.
Just shows you have half a brain, JB.
One way to look at it is that we really don't remain the same person over time, so at various junctures in our lives we may have the opportunity, as a different person, to make choices that are different from ones that led to failures in the past. Therein lies the possibility that we may find love even if it has eluded us in the past.
The key point being, of course, that we are different in ways that permit success.
gingerb: Mistakes are a learning experience. Having those particular mistakes, you are less likely to make those particular ones again.
The thing about lessons is, we get wiser, but sometimes that can also mean we get fussier, to our own detriment.How many chances you get depends on how open you are to letting it in and how well you got rid of the lingering after effects of the other ones.It's a bit like looking out at the world through lovely lace curtains. They let in light and protect you from the bad effects of the sun. They give you privacy, and let you heal. They defuse the world and look pretty, but to see clearly, and to be seen, we have to open them up and let in the good as well as bad rays, and accept the view, atmosphere. and light, because we need the full effect of it, to live. .........
gingerb: Mistakes are a learning experience. Having those particular mistakes, you are less likely to make those particular ones again.
The thing about lessons is, we get wiser, but sometimes that can also mean we get fussier, to our own detriment.How many chances you get depends on how open you are to letting it in and how well you got rid of the lingering after effects of the other ones.It's a bit like looking out at the world through lovely lace curtains. They let in light and protect you from the bad effects of the sun. They give you privacy, and let you heal. They defuse the world and look pretty, but to see clearly, and to be seen, we have to open them up and let in the good as well as bad rays, and accept the view, atmosphere. and light, because we need the full effect of it, to live. .........
Very nice analogy and I´m sure applicable to many people, for myself I don´t think I´m hiding...
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having a relationship is hard work and it takes a lot of time to build the meeting place that both parties are truly happy. The biggest problem is finding that person that you think might be worth all of your efforts. When you do put all of your heart out on the line it makes you feel foolish when the other party is not willing to do that. I think you can find love anytime you want. It just might not be the perfect love that your mind thinks it needs.
finding my hole to go crawl in
No need to hide in a hole Kitty... I take constructive critisism well. Maybe I am expecting to much from a potential partner.... but thanks for the flowers