Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love... (111)
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Postsjbibiza: Good decision! I´m really happy that you´ve found the one who curls your toes!
And them some
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kissmedeeply: Dont speak of happiness on here..
KISS OF DEATHas others would say
Hey sweetheart, I just got around to telling you I'm blessed to have met you! Don't die on me now! Me thinks you need another rose....coming right up, check your mail.KISS OF DEATHas others would say
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Ambrose2007: Just shows you have half a brain, JB.
One way to look at it is that we really don't remain the same person over time, so at various junctures in our lives we may have the opportunity, as a different person, to make choices that are different from ones that led to failures in the past. Therein lies the possibility that we may find love even if it has eluded us in the past.
The key point being, of course, that we are different in ways that permit success.
One way to look at it is that we really don't remain the same person over time, so at various junctures in our lives we may have the opportunity, as a different person, to make choices that are different from ones that led to failures in the past. Therein lies the possibility that we may find love even if it has eluded us in the past.
The key point being, of course, that we are different in ways that permit success.
Great point Jeff...
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Just shows you have half a brain, JB.
One way to look at it is that we really don't remain the same person over time, so at various junctures in our lives we may have the opportunity, as a different person, to make choices that are different from ones that led to failures in the past. Therein lies the possibility that we may find love even if it has eluded us in the past.
The key point being, of course, that we are different in ways that permit success.[/quote]
That is crucial... it´s funny but back when i did have a lot of opportunities with men, I had no girl friends and had difficulty relating to other women.
Now I get along really well with other women and have made some fantastic girl friends... but the opportunities with men seem to have dried up....
Wonder if there´s any correlation?
Always good to hear from you Jeff
One way to look at it is that we really don't remain the same person over time, so at various junctures in our lives we may have the opportunity, as a different person, to make choices that are different from ones that led to failures in the past. Therein lies the possibility that we may find love even if it has eluded us in the past.
The key point being, of course, that we are different in ways that permit success.[/quote]
That is crucial... it´s funny but back when i did have a lot of opportunities with men, I had no girl friends and had difficulty relating to other women.
Now I get along really well with other women and have made some fantastic girl friends... but the opportunities with men seem to have dried up....
Wonder if there´s any correlation?
Always good to hear from you Jeff
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jbibiza: Please elaborate Al.... I´m not sure what you mean....
I mean we emotionally detach long before we walk.
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kind of what Jeff has said, life changes daily, feelings and sentiment change right along with it, so we're essentially walking out on the person we were when we fell in love, rather than trying to recapture who we were then. Love seems easier to fall into I guess with a new person
, than how it feels to 'have to' reignite the flames with the one youre with.Maybe we just get feeling like, its been a long hard struggle and at least the possibility of 'new' love would recapture the feeling since it seems apparent that the present relationship is going no where. I think we abdicate our own responsiblity, walk away from it, in favour of what seems an easier route with someone new; only to find its essentially the same effort that's needed to fire love and passion where you are ...
Rolling Stones: :Love the One Youre With.
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wixomwizard: Hey sweetheart, I just got around to telling you I'm blessed to have met you! Don't die on me now! Me thinks you need another rose....coming right up, check your mail.
cs WON'T LET ME SEND ONE, THEY SAY 1 A DAY ONLY, SO THIS WILL HAVE TO DO
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mbcasey: Great point Jeff...
Thanks, Ken.
Ah, hell...
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wixomwizard: Hey sweetheart, I just got around to telling you I'm blessed to have met you! Don't die on me now! Me thinks you need another rose....coming right up, check your mail.
aww thank you..you are sweet
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jbibiza: Just shows you have half a brain, JB.
One way to look at it is that we really don't remain the same person over time, so at various junctures in our lives we may have the opportunity, as a different person, to make choices that are different from ones that led to failures in the past. Therein lies the possibility that we may find love even if it has eluded us in the past.
The key point being, of course, that we are different in ways that permit success.[/ quote]That is crucial... it´s funny but back when i did have a lot of opportunities with men, I had no girl friends and had difficulty relating to other women.
Now I get along really well with other women and have made some fantastic girl friends... but the opportunities with men seem to have dried up....
Wonder if there´s any correlation?
Always good to hear from you Jeff
One way to look at it is that we really don't remain the same person over time, so at various junctures in our lives we may have the opportunity, as a different person, to make choices that are different from ones that led to failures in the past. Therein lies the possibility that we may find love even if it has eluded us in the past.
The key point being, of course, that we are different in ways that permit success.[/ quote]That is crucial... it´s funny but back when i did have a lot of opportunities with men, I had no girl friends and had difficulty relating to other women.
Now I get along really well with other women and have made some fantastic girl friends... but the opportunities with men seem to have dried up....
Wonder if there´s any correlation?
Always good to hear from you Jeff
Well, this seems to be a good example of being different, JB. Something definitely has changed about you now - you can relate to women far better than in the past. Maybe that means your balance has shifted in a healthy way in how you relate to people...which just might mean you're ready for that "great love"? Stranger things have happened! ------ This thread is Archived ------
BnaturAl: I mean we emotionally detach long before we walk.
AND
kind of what Jeff has said, life changes daily, feelings and sentiment change right along with it, so we're essentially walking out on the person we were when we fell in love, rather than trying to recapture who we were then. Love seems easier to fall into I guess with a new person , than how it feels to 'have to' reignite the flames with the one youre with.
Maybe we just get feeling like, its been a long hard struggle and at least the possibility of 'new' love would recapture the feeling since it seems apparent that the present relationship is going no where. I think we abdicate our own responsiblity, walk away from it, in favour of what seems an easier route with someone new; only to find its essentially the same effort that's needed to fire love and passion where you are ...
Rolling Stones: :Love the One Youre With.
AND
kind of what Jeff has said, life changes daily, feelings and sentiment change right along with it, so we're essentially walking out on the person we were when we fell in love, rather than trying to recapture who we were then. Love seems easier to fall into I guess with a new person , than how it feels to 'have to' reignite the flames with the one youre with.
Maybe we just get feeling like, its been a long hard struggle and at least the possibility of 'new' love would recapture the feeling since it seems apparent that the present relationship is going no where. I think we abdicate our own responsiblity, walk away from it, in favour of what seems an easier route with someone new; only to find its essentially the same effort that's needed to fire love and passion where you are ...
Rolling Stones: :Love the One Youre With.
Isn't that Crosby, Stills, and Nash, AL?
I think you may have hit on something key here. People who are "falling in love addicts" - that is, people who are in love with being in love but really aren't able to sustain it for whatever reasons - will eventually, I think, begin to burn out on the process...perhaps may come to believe that their opportunities are running out for true love.
These poor people are, in my view, chasing a chimera of love...and they'll no more be able to capture it than they'll be able to finally seize the gold at the end of the rainbow (if you'll forgive the mixed metaphor
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Ambrose2007: Isn't that Crosby, Stills, and Nash, AL?
I think you may have hit on something key here. People who are "falling in love addicts" - that is, people who are in love with being in love but really aren't able to sustain it for whatever reasons - will eventually, I think, begin to burn out on the process...perhaps may come to believe that their opportunities are running out for true love.
These poor people are, in my view, chasing a chimera of love...and they'll no more be able to capture it than they'll be able to finally seize the gold at the end of the rainbow (if you'll forgive the mixed metaphor)
I think you may have hit on something key here. People who are "falling in love addicts" - that is, people who are in love with being in love but really aren't able to sustain it for whatever reasons - will eventually, I think, begin to burn out on the process...perhaps may come to believe that their opportunities are running out for true love.
These poor people are, in my view, chasing a chimera of love...and they'll no more be able to capture it than they'll be able to finally seize the gold at the end of the rainbow (if you'll forgive the mixed metaphor)
I agree.
It may seem odd and bit of an epiphany for some Jeff; but, a great deal of people on singles sites, myself included are past 'walkers' ...something about our relationships, without finding blame has resulted in our walking. Does it become habit? I'm sure your recent readings would say so; but, I also think as you pointed out earlier, for some the epiphany comes, awareness invades and there is a possibility to right the ship. Too late may be an issue as well, because it seems more difficult to find someone when the majority are 'walkers' who may not have seen the light.
Obsessions limit. And unless I'm wrong, the limiitations we have that we don't see in ourselves will steer our ships inadvertantly. Becoming aware is key to change and to expanding our horizons.
I woked up!! eeeeeek!
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Ambrose2007: Isn't that Crosby, Stills, and Nash, AL?
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it was written by R, Stone. So I naturally thought... ok
yes it was CSNY!!!!
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I guess the only limit we can really think about it is how many we limit ourself too, cuz odds are pretty good in everyone's favor we just got to take the blinders off to people we never consider for a possibility in love...
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cardsfan24: I guess the only limit we can really think about it is how many we limit ourself too, cuz odds are pretty good in everyone's favor we just got to take the blinders off to people we never consider for a possibility in love...
hows the
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BnaturAl: hows the ? or maybe how was the chicken
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jbibiza:
In other words... Can you walk out on love once to often?
In other words... Can you walk out on love once to often?
I think so. And I believe I have...
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RedHeadedTaurus: I think so. And I believe I have...
Oh pretty woman why do you have to be so young and with such gorgeous red hair? I f I was 35 yrs younger...... ------ This thread is Archived ------
wixomwizard: Oh pretty woman why do you have to be so young and with such gorgeous red hair? I f I was 35 yrs younger......
she could be like age replacement therapy for you.
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RedHeadedTaurus: I think so. And I believe I have...
Do you have reverse? Most people come with it already installed
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BnaturAl: it was written by R, Stone. So I naturally thought... ok yes it was CSNY!!!!
I thought it was just Stephen Stills
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