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Aug 27, 2008 6:38 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
jbibiza: Because being in love is such an amazing and wonderful place to be... I have experienced it and that´s what makes it so frustrating for me now... I want it again.

No matter how much I fill my life with good friends, great nights out, treating myself to holidays and enjoying my life, I know life can be that bit better with love in it.



I can appreciate thats how you feel hun. I have experienced being in love, thats how I know the pain of losing it and nothing on earth would make me go through that again. I simply cant understand why anyone would want to risk it.
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Aug 27, 2008 6:43 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
vonney: I can appreciate thats how you feel hun. I have experienced being in love, thats how I know the pain of losing it and nothing on earth would make me go through that again. I simply cant understand why anyone would want to risk it.



I guess I look at it a bit like child birth... the pain is agony, the gain so worth the pain. But to each their own... does that mean you´re leaving me more opportunities???laugh laugh hug
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Aug 27, 2008 6:44 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
vonney: I can appreciate thats how you feel hun. I have experienced being in love, thats how I know the pain of losing it and nothing on earth would make me go through that again. I simply cant understand why anyone would want to risk it.


If you don't, youNEVER will find it! I f you lost a $100,000 dollar diamond ring, I bet you would look for it! How much more is true unconditional love worth? you got mailprofessor hug teddybear
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Aug 27, 2008 6:45 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
wixomwizard: If you don't, youNEVER will find it! I f you lost a $100,000 dollar diamond ring, I bet you would look for it! How much more is true unconditional love worth? you got mail


And if I dont have it I cant lose it hun
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Aug 27, 2008 6:45 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
vonney: But if we had never loved we would never have had to feel that pain.


You live and learn...the lessons of love can be cruel indeed, but very important for your soul.
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Aug 27, 2008 6:45 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
jbibiza: I guess I look at it a bit like child birth... the pain is agony, the gain so worth the pain. But to each their own... does that mean you´re leaving me more opportunities???



Dont get me started on the childbirth thing hun lol
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Aug 27, 2008 6:53 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
vonney: And if I dont have it I cant lose it hun


KEEP SEARCHIN' I just sent you something with no conditions, and I do it all the time with other's and I'm still single and lovin it. I guarentee you, you will never be disappointed with it!professor hug
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Aug 27, 2008 6:55 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
wixomwizard: KEEP SEARCHIN' I just sent you something with no conditions, and I do it all the time with other's and I'm still single and lovin it. I guarentee you, you will never be disappointed with it!


And I thank you, it is appreciated and excepted in the spirit it is meant. As for searching..no not for me hun.




hug
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Aug 27, 2008 6:59 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
vonney: But if we had never loved we would never have had to feel that pain.


Not sure we can really appreciate the great feelings if we have no bad comparisons to measure it by.

But I think the saying means that we are better to have experienced love at all, know and claim that feeling for the wonderful thing it is, than never to have experienced it, even if that means we had to get hurt.wine
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Aug 27, 2008 7:01 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
gingerb: Not sure we can really appreciate the great feelings if we have no bad comparisons to measure it by.

But I think the saying means that we are better to have experienced love at all, know and claim that feeling for the wonderful thing it is, than never to have experienced it, even if that means we had to get hurt.


In a sense I do get that hun just dont agree with it.
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Aug 27, 2008 7:11 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
vonney: In a sense I do get that hun just dont agree with it.


It's what makes the world go round.

Not love, differences of opinion.rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up wine
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Aug 27, 2008 7:29 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
vonney: see thats the bit that gets me...why is it better?

I dont understand how people can say that the pain of losing someone you love is worth it.


That's the thing isn't it...these emotions are what give life it's zest. Love would have no meaning if we didn't love to be in love. Were there never any pain, or if it didn't hurt, there would be nothing to drive us toward something better.

Look at it this way instead....the love is worth it.

Life is all about pain. Any Mother already knows this, because life begins in pain, it is endured in pain, and if you are conscious when you die, you will probably die in some sort of pain. But love....love smitten heart1 heart wings purple heart heart beating ....love is worth it.
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Aug 27, 2008 7:31 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
diogenes: That's the thing isn't it...these emotions are what give life it's zest. Love would have no meaning if we didn't love to be in love. Were there never any pain, or if it didn't hurt, there would be nothing to drive us toward something better.

Look at it this way instead....the love is worth it.

Life is all about pain. Any Mother already knows this, because life begins in pain, it is endured in pain, and if you are conscious when you die, you will probably die in some sort of pain. But love .... ....love is worth it.


I agree Dio...there is no pain in love. The pain comes from us being human.
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Aug 27, 2008 7:34 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
2catchastar
2catchastar2catchastarCorning, New York USA10 Threads 830 Posts
diogenes: That's the thing isn't it...these emotions are what give life it's zest. Love would have no meaning if we didn't love to be in love. Were there never any pain, or if it didn't hurt, there would be nothing to drive us toward something better.

Look at it this way instead....the love is worth it.

Life is all about pain. Any Mother already knows this, because life begins in pain, it is endured in pain, and if you are conscious when you die, you will probably die in some sort of pain. But love .... ....love is worth it.


thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
How did you get so smart?
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Aug 27, 2008 7:34 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
mbcasey: I agree Dio...there is no pain in love. The pain comes from us being human.


Awww....hug man hugs!
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Aug 27, 2008 8:04 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
diogenes: Awww.... man hugs!



I´m startin´to get jealous... all these man hugs and man crushes...sigh laugh laugh
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Aug 27, 2008 8:05 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
jbibiza: I´m startin´to get jealous... all these man hugs and man crushes...


idea we can always get in the middle....daydream flirty and get crushed blushing roll eyes
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Aug 27, 2008 8:08 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Xtabentun: we can always get in the middle.... and get crushed


I am a little hungry... I could use a "manwich" giggle
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Aug 27, 2008 8:10 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
jbibiza: I am a little hungry... I could use a "manwich"


A wide selection, from veggie to red meat roll eyes rolling on the floor laughing ...you might even get volunteers for thatwink
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Aug 27, 2008 8:17 PM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
vonney: I simply cant understand why anyone would want to risk it.





Are you sure you are not me?????? AS Bob Dylan would say "....Love is just a four letter word"
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