jbibiza: Because being in love is such an amazing and wonderful place to be... I have experienced it and that´s what makes it so frustrating for me now... I want it again.
No matter how much I fill my life with good friends, great nights out, treating myself to holidays and enjoying my life, I know life can be that bit better with love in it.
I can appreciate thats how you feel hun. I have experienced being in love, thats how I know the pain of losing it and nothing on earth would make me go through that again. I simply cant understand why anyone would want to risk it.
vonney: I can appreciate thats how you feel hun. I have experienced being in love, thats how I know the pain of losing it and nothing on earth would make me go through that again. I simply cant understand why anyone would want to risk it.
I guess I look at it a bit like child birth... the pain is agony, the gain so worth the pain. But to each their own... does that mean you´re leaving me more opportunities???
vonney: I can appreciate thats how you feel hun. I have experienced being in love, thats how I know the pain of losing it and nothing on earth would make me go through that again. I simply cant understand why anyone would want to risk it.
If you don't, youNEVER will find it! I f you lost a $100,000 dollar diamond ring, I bet you would look for it! How much more is true unconditional love worth? you got mail
wixomwizard: If you don't, youNEVER will find it! I f you lost a $100,000 dollar diamond ring, I bet you would look for it! How much more is true unconditional love worth? you got mail
jbibiza: I guess I look at it a bit like child birth... the pain is agony, the gain so worth the pain. But to each their own... does that mean you´re leaving me more opportunities???
Dont get me started on the childbirth thing hun lol
KEEP SEARCHIN' I just sent you something with no conditions, and I do it all the time with other's and I'm still single and lovin it. I guarentee you, you will never be disappointed with it!
wixomwizard: KEEP SEARCHIN' I just sent you something with no conditions, and I do it all the time with other's and I'm still single and lovin it. I guarentee you, you will never be disappointed with it!
And I thank you, it is appreciated and excepted in the spirit it is meant. As for searching..no not for me hun.
vonney: But if we had never loved we would never have had to feel that pain.
Not sure we can really appreciate the great feelings if we have no bad comparisons to measure it by.
But I think the saying means that we are better to have experienced love at all, know and claim that feeling for the wonderful thing it is, than never to have experienced it, even if that means we had to get hurt.
gingerb: Not sure we can really appreciate the great feelings if we have no bad comparisons to measure it by.
But I think the saying means that we are better to have experienced love at all, know and claim that feeling for the wonderful thing it is, than never to have experienced it, even if that means we had to get hurt.
In a sense I do get that hun just dont agree with it.
vonney: see thats the bit that gets me...why is it better?
I dont understand how people can say that the pain of losing someone you love is worth it.
That's the thing isn't it...these emotions are what give life it's zest. Love would have no meaning if we didn't love to be in love. Were there never any pain, or if it didn't hurt, there would be nothing to drive us toward something better.
Look at it this way instead....the love is worth it.
Life is all about pain. Any Mother already knows this, because life begins in pain, it is endured in pain, and if you are conscious when you die, you will probably die in some sort of pain. But love.... ....love is worth it.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
diogenes: That's the thing isn't it...these emotions are what give life it's zest. Love would have no meaning if we didn't love to be in love. Were there never any pain, or if it didn't hurt, there would be nothing to drive us toward something better.
Look at it this way instead....the love is worth it.
Life is all about pain. Any Mother already knows this, because life begins in pain, it is endured in pain, and if you are conscious when you die, you will probably die in some sort of pain. But love .... ....love is worth it.
I agree Dio...there is no pain in love. The pain comes from us being human.
diogenes: That's the thing isn't it...these emotions are what give life it's zest. Love would have no meaning if we didn't love to be in love. Were there never any pain, or if it didn't hurt, there would be nothing to drive us toward something better.
Look at it this way instead....the love is worth it.
Life is all about pain. Any Mother already knows this, because life begins in pain, it is endured in pain, and if you are conscious when you die, you will probably die in some sort of pain. But love .... ....love is worth it.
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No matter how much I fill my life with good friends, great nights out, treating myself to holidays and enjoying my life, I know life can be that bit better with love in it.
I can appreciate thats how you feel hun. I have experienced being in love, thats how I know the pain of losing it and nothing on earth would make me go through that again. I simply cant understand why anyone would want to risk it.