No but in that way I am an optimist and if you can factor in the other person just being humorous once in a while then its cool. If you can get the most sarcastic flippant peeps to show some depth you can learn from them. You can learn even when they want to cover it up.
I found it really easy to judge others for a while with that excuse and I like being sarcastic and snarky on the posts but at times there are peeps really trying to get something across. Everyone has some depth some just do a better job covering it up. In my opinion due to fear. JMO
Sep 4, 2008 4:26 PM CST do you sometimes get the impression that you're been talking too deep to the wrong people about life
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads2,697 Posts
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,697 posts
I try not to do "deep" here in c.s and if i do, i keep it to my mail .Yes i have put the odd thread up about life and what not but it ends up turning into questions answered with questions . So no Gilly ,its the other way around for me ,i think im not talking deep enough for the right people
dillydally: I try not to do "deep" here in c.s and if i do, i keep it to my mail .Yes i have put the odd thread up about life and what not but it ends up turning into questions answered with questions . So no Gilly ,its the other way around for me ,i think im not talking deep enough for the right people Hope your good this eve
You have a good point. I am rather new to posting anything on forums and get a bit enthusiastic with my opinions. Sometimes it is just fun to be flippant.
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
Dawn7z: No but in that way I am an optimist and if you can factor in the other person just being humorous once in a while then its cool. If you can get the most sarcastic flippant peeps to show some depth you can learn from them. You can learn even when they want to cover it up.
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
dillydally: I try not to do "deep" here in c.s and if i do, i keep it to my mail .Yes i have put the odd thread up about life and what not but it ends up turning into questions answered with questions . So no Gilly ,its the other way around for me ,i think im not talking deep enough for the right people Hope your good this eve
No because I don't...I am very personal and selective about who I discuss any part of my life with...and there is probably only one person on this planet that knows completely everything about me...the rest just know pieces.....
Not that I have anything to hide but I also have to have complete trust in who I talk about my life to!!!!
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: No because I don't...I am very personal and selective about who I discuss any part of my life with...and there is probably only one person on this planet that knows completely everything about me...the rest just know pieces..... Not that I have anything to hide but I also have to have complete trust in who I talk about my life to!!!!
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: No because I don't...I am very personal and selective about who I discuss any part of my life with...and there is probably only one person on this planet that knows completely everything about me...the rest just know pieces..... Not that I have anything to hide but I also have to have complete trust in who I talk about my life to!!!!
I'm like that.. I may appear to have a big mouth But I keep my private stuff private.
minus the cost of the internet connection, I find expressing my deepest thoughts here more time saving and definitely more economical then paying and investing the time required for a therapist to listen to me, then offer comments.
maybe this is much in part because I've only met 2 people from online conversations or my choice for anonymity.
I should add this also, some of you in this "group session" have been very helpful, while others just enjoy playing pranks with misleading comments. Both of which I'm grateful for
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