Why its hard to trust again ...??????? (60)
markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Postsill try my best guys and i hope everything will be fine 
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markizamkd25: Pozdrav
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svetlana38: You need time for everything.
It is same with trust; we just need time to figer out that all people are different (to return beck that feeling); to except all - with open heart and give a chance, and some another time our experience and wisdom should show us the right one.
It is same with trust; we just need time to figer out that all people are different (to return beck that feeling); to except all - with open heart and give a chance, and some another time our experience and wisdom should show us the right one.
I agree to a point.
But without any sort of trust, even in yourself, you might as well just dig yourself a hole. Have to take a chance. Maybe just enjoy dating and see what develops? Win/win situation.------ This thread is Archived ------
markizamkd25: 
what??
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The thing is, you have to trust yourself. then your wisdom and understanding will guide you to whom you should trust. Trust has to be earned, most want it as a default, without earning anything.
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svetlana38: Do not trust – Easier way to protect your sellf from disapoitment and pain
very true! I don't know of ANYONE I put my trust in that hasn't tried to screw me( and not in a good way).
Paul Simon said it best....I am a rock, I am an Island
...And a rock feels no pain, and an island never cries
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shipoker58: very true! I don't know of ANYONE I put my trust in that hasn't tried to screw me( and not in a good way).
Paul Simon said it best....I am a rock, I am an Island
...And a rock feels no pain, and an island never cries
Paul Simon said it best....I am a rock, I am an Island
...And a rock feels no pain, and an island never cries
I like that
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CreativeATL1: The thing is, you have to trust yourself. then your wisdom and understanding will guide you to whom you should trust. Trust has to be earned, most want it as a default, without earning anything.
No matter how hard you believe in yourself; bad relationship or friendship (That is worst) claims for a moment your trust in yourself – that’s normal.
By the time we learn…….. we do not forget and keep going.
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seems we have to try and try, im single 3 years and life without love its relaxing but empty and dead 
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markizamkd25: seems we have to try and try, im single 3 years and life without love its relaxing but empty and dead
Build your personality
Love yourself more than any one else
Trust only to yourself (maybe a little to others)
Keep secret your soul
(Slovenian soul……….so emotion and wish to give it to someone)
But keep it secret
And slowly……..someone will come,
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markizamkd25: seems we have to try and try, im single 3 years and life without love its relaxing but empty and dead
3 years is long enough...you are entitled to happiness. If someone will take away the empty and dead feelings, it is time to take a chance. Life is all about risks...nothing is ever guaranteed.
If you are hurt again, you will recover because you will know how to. Good luck to you Markiza
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We can only be deceived by those we trust.
Yet we have to believe.
A person who wont have faith and refuses to love
for fear of betrayal will certainly be exempt from
these torments, but who knows from how much
else he or she will be exempt.
Yet we have to believe.
A person who wont have faith and refuses to love
for fear of betrayal will certainly be exempt from
these torments, but who knows from how much
else he or she will be exempt.
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bodleing: We can only be deceived by those we trust.
Yet we have to believe.
A person who wont have faith and refuses to love
for fear of betrayal will certainly be exempt from
these torments, but who knows from how much
else he or she will be exempt.
Yet we have to believe.
A person who wont have faith and refuses to love
for fear of betrayal will certainly be exempt from
these torments, but who knows from how much
else he or she will be exempt.
Good post...
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U know how we do that Svetlana,few drinks song and it will be over
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Sommerauer71: You know, trusting a person is easier and less stress than mistrusting a person, especially one you do not know...
Besides, this way It's much more fun.
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maybe because people tend to spin their own stories their own way --- yeh, lie...I'm having the same prob babe..you aren't alone......... ------ This thread is Archived ------
Kitty, you and Ship seem like a good match!
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bodleing: We can only be deceived by those we trust.
Yet we have to believe.
A person who wont have faith and refuses to love
for fear of betrayal will certainly be exempt from
these torments, but who knows from how much
else he or she will be exempt.
Yet we have to believe.
A person who wont have faith and refuses to love
for fear of betrayal will certainly be exempt from
these torments, but who knows from how much
else he or she will be exempt.
That's true and we can't prevent that...all we can do is know that we are the best people we can be...if others can't be and want to hurt people...well that's on their shoulders....and the other things we will be exempt from while being exempt from torment...is being loved and loving in return.....I guess the key is healing enough from your last relationship before you move on...and that doesn't mean just shoving it someplace....that means dealing with whatever went on....and laying it to rest...seeing where we went wrong....deciding to do things differently and how....it takes a lot of inner healing work and self-evaluation but it's well worth it.....
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Because ... when one gets hurt, it hurts - in a way none too good. That cannot be forgotten & leaves an impression that may always be there, hindering trust ...
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