Why its hard to trust again ...??????? ( Archived) (60)

Sep 16, 2008 10:07 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
dunno dunno dunno blues blues moping moping
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Sep 16, 2008 10:08 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
FreeHappy
FreeHappyFreeHappyCleveland, Ohio USA15 Threads 2 Polls 258 Posts
Because you are a wise person
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Sep 16, 2008 10:08 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
Don't know...I trust no one. It's safe that way. All are guilty until proven innocent
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Sep 16, 2008 10:09 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
shipoker58: Don't know...I trust no one. It's safe that way. All are guilty until proven innocent
Me too ship but its hard to start something with that way of thinking crying
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Sep 16, 2008 10:13 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
FreeHappy
FreeHappyFreeHappyCleveland, Ohio USA15 Threads 2 Polls 258 Posts
markizamkd25: Me too ship but its hard to start something with that way of thinking


THAT is the only way to start anything. You may then gradually, build up level of trust, a LEVEL of trust, but it should take time and patience.

Never ever jump into any kind of a relationship all trusting, let the other person EARN IT! You are worth it.
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Sep 16, 2008 10:13 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
You know, trusting a person is easier and less stress than mistrusting a person, especially one you do not know...
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Sep 16, 2008 10:13 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
It's never easy to trust again when you've been burned. However, trust is an essential part of a good relationship. Sometime you've got to trust someone again...or live out the rest of your life alone. Learn a valuable lesson from what happened, take your time to heal, then move forward with your life.

And believe me, I have been through things that have given me more reason to distrust than most people will ever experience, so this isn't said lightly. Yet I have learned to trust again because the new person is not that person who hurt me.

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Sep 16, 2008 10:17 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
Sommerauer71: You know, trusting a person is easier and less stress than mistrusting a person, especially one you do not know...




That MAY be true, if you are looking for a relationship. But I am not, so I have no reason to trust anyone. I believe everyone is out for themselves,(with few exceptions) and will do whatever it takes to come out on top. That includes relationships. I will probably die a lonely old man....but I won't die a lonely old fool
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Sep 16, 2008 10:20 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
shipoker58: That MAY be true, if you are looking for a relationship. But I am not, so I have no reason to trust anyone. I believe everyone is out for themselves,(with few exceptions) and will do whatever it takes to come out on top. That includes relationships. I will probably die a lonely old man....but I won't die a lonely old fool


Oh ship come on be a old fool, it is more fun then just beening a old manlaugh
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Sep 16, 2008 10:20 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
shipoker58: That MAY be true, if you are looking for a relationship. But I am not, so I have no reason to trust anyone. I believe everyone is out for themselves,(with few exceptions) and will do whatever it takes to come out on top. That includes relationships. I will probably die a lonely old man....but I won't die a lonely old fool



Even if not true, it is something I subscribe to.

I do not think you will die lonely at all Ship, too many people like you...

I do not believe that everyone is out for themselves, but there has to come a time when we have to take care of ourselves and that is what you are doing...

Nothing wrong in that at all...
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Sep 16, 2008 10:24 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
shipoker58: That MAY be true, if you are looking for a relationship. But I am not, so I have no reason to trust anyone. I believe everyone is out for themselves,(with few exceptions) and will do whatever it takes to come out on top. That includes relationships. I will probably die a lonely old man....but I won't die a lonely old fool


Sweetie, if you die old and lonely, then that makes you a lonely old fool.
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Sep 16, 2008 10:29 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
hard way to learn things,its too hard ppl, its too hard sad flower sad flower moping
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Sep 16, 2008 10:29 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
druidess6308: Sweetie, if you die old and lonely, then that makes you a lonely old fool.




Shut up!!tongue ....No room for logic heretongue rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 16, 2008 10:30 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
markizamkd25: hard way to learn things,its too hard ppl, its too hard


No, it is as hard as you make it...

Whoever has hurt you in the past is not the fault of the people you may meet in the future...
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Sep 16, 2008 10:31 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Sommerauer71: No, it is as hard as you make it...

Whoever has hurt you in the past is not the fault of the people you may meet in the future...
very true conversing
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Sep 16, 2008 10:39 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Never trust anyoneprofessor


















Trust me, I know!!!







rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 16, 2008 10:40 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
bodleing: Never trust anyone
Trust me, I know!!!
.............said man with the dog tongue
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Sep 16, 2008 10:42 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Woof woof...


dancing dog


markizamkd25: .............said man with the dog
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Sep 16, 2008 10:45 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
markizamkd25: hard way to learn things,its too hard ppl, its too hard




Yes it is Marki hug hug
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Sep 16, 2008 10:46 AM CST Why its hard to trust again ...???????
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
It's hard to trust anyone after being rejected and kicked over and over.

Some people (like me) are just not relationship material.

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