Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date. ( Archived) (78)

Sep 21, 2008 3:32 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
mastic55: What was I thinking coming on here looking for someone.I been here a long time and nothing, thats a good thing, I live check to check and really have nothing to offer, my life is in turmoil everyday, I see some profiles and they really got it going on, they have it made, like a new caddy in a used car lot, and they are looking, what chance do I have , reality sets inn.In stead of coming here I should have had a V-8.


Don't worry, friend. You are not the only one not fit to date. When I came on this site it was with the feeling that I was the worst person in the world. Since then I have met some great people with whom I have shared many frustrating emotions. I am still working on myself.

Now I share the hurt that others share, as they shared mine. I also share the joy that others share. I have seen love bloom for some and it gives me hope. We all make mistakes in life, but given time we can learn to love again.

The most important thing is to love yourself and to respect others. tip hat
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Sep 21, 2008 3:37 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
yo! long island!


im not reading the whole dang thread im just slappin you upside yer head and saying wth are you saying?

youre the best
sweet caring blah blah blah

you know what i think of you and you say you trust me
so stop listening to your sadness and listen to me

(((hypnotized)))

number one youre a new yorker
number 2 you care for your family
etc etc and nuff said




you damn well know better so stop it

there are men around CS that are all about the self pity and i havent seen them have any success yet so thats not a good model to follow so knock it off


kiss
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Sep 21, 2008 3:39 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
mastic55: What was I thinking coming on here looking for someone.I been here a long time and nothing, thats a good thing, I live check to check and really have nothing to offer, my life is in turmoil everyday, I see some profiles and they really got it going on, they have it made, like a new caddy in a used car lot, and they are looking, what chance do I have , reality sets inn.In stead of coming here I should have had a V-8.





I feel the EXACT same way Mastic!! It's just that I gave up a long time ago. You, at least have age on your side. At the risk of sounding gay and making Stooie physically ill, I don't understand why you haven't found anyone. You are a nice guy and a good looking guy. And you have the age thing working for you. Keep plugging away, guy, don't give up!!



And if that makes me sound gay....too frickin bad!!thumbs up
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Sep 21, 2008 3:39 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Hang in there...

and don't use a noose!!scold

It will happen....handshake
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Sep 21, 2008 3:42 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
mindfful: youre the best
sweet caring blah blah blah


laugh


Seriously Dude!

You're ruggedly handsome, funny, intelligent, and blah blah blah
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Sep 21, 2008 3:47 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
diogenes: Seriously Dude!

You're ruggedly handsome, funny, intelligent, and blah blah blah
I'm Brutally Handsome,,,,,o.k I got it from "Life in the fast lane" by the Eagles, but it's a start.rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
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Sep 21, 2008 3:49 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
mastic55: I'm Brutally Handsome,,,,,o.k I got it from "Life in the fast lane" by the Eagles, but it's a start.
If I was a girl, I'd date you.
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Sep 21, 2008 3:51 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
diogenes: If I was a girl, I'd date you.


Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive. uh oh
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Sep 21, 2008 3:55 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
rwantin: Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive.


especially in Cali...shimmy
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Sep 21, 2008 3:58 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
The 3 guys above me are incredibly cute .. laugh laugh
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Sep 21, 2008 3:59 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
diogenes: Seriously Dude!

You're ruggedly handsome, funny, intelligent, and blah blah blah



laugh
mr supportive


rolling on the floor laughing


dork





















wave
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Sep 21, 2008 4:00 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
rwantin: Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive.
laugh
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Sep 21, 2008 4:06 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
rwantin: Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive.
rolling on the floor laughing good onethumbs up
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Sep 21, 2008 4:08 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
rwantin: Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive.


Shall we have a telethon to help Robert pay for his operation? rolling on the floor laughing

Probably not a good idea with your father just getting out of the hospital. He might not handle the shock too well.
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Sep 21, 2008 4:19 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
dazzling_dave: Shall we have a telethon to help Robert pay for his operation?

Probably not a good idea with your father just getting out of the hospital. He might not handle the shock too well.


"Hi Dad. No, it's not a motorcycle saddlebag. It's my new purse. We have to talk..."
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Sep 21, 2008 4:21 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
rwantin: "Hi Dad. No, it's not a motorcycle saddlebag. It's my new purse. We have to talk..."


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Hope you're having a great day.
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Sep 21, 2008 4:23 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
98% of the population isn't fit to date, mas. That doesn't stop them. wink

The only thing that keeps humanity going is alcohol. I agree with Seinfeld. 98% is just plain undatable.

And you wanna know what? I don't know the other 2%. It's not even in the mirror. sigh
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Sep 21, 2008 4:27 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: 98% of the population isn't fit to date, mas. That doesn't stop them.

The only thing that keeps humanity going is alcohol. I agree with Seinfeld. 98% is just plain undatable.

And you wanna know what? I don't know the other 2%. It's not even in the mirror.



Oooo errr...!! And I thought it was just coz I had a face like a robber's dog??!!

Bloody hell.... ya mean it could be something else AS WELL??!! uh oh doh

Jeez!!! moping
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Sep 21, 2008 4:31 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Right mate. Sometimes it is better to be single. You can get into a relationship and before you know it you are looking for the exit, or wondering if you have stayed too long.grin
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Sep 21, 2008 4:33 PM CST Here I am on a dating site, and I'm not fit to date.
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
roseofsharon: Oooo errr...!! And I thought it was just coz I had a face like a robber's dog??!!

Bloody hell.... ya mean it could be something else AS WELL??!!

Jeez!!!


My opinion has nothing to do with physical appearances. Let me explain, alison.

98% of the population is unrealistic about what would make them happy. They either have standards that are too high, or too low, they have issues with age differences, issues with political or religious differences, or they have race issues. Bottom line is nobody really knows what the hell to do, and putting them into a dating situation where they're expected to be paragons (mostly these expectations exist in their own minds, because the other person is too busy doing the same thing to have any real expectiations beyond their own narcissistic needs) is so torturous they'd rather do ANYTHING than date.

Yep. Undatable. For a variety of reasons. The other 2% don't date, not because they aren't fit to, but because they are already in happy, stable relationships because they DIDN'T have the above problems.
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