mastic55: What was I thinking coming on here looking for someone.I been here a long time and nothing, thats a good thing, I live check to check and really have nothing to offer, my life is in turmoil everyday, I see some profiles and they really got it going on, they have it made, like a new caddy in a used car lot, and they are looking, what chance do I have , reality sets inn.In stead of coming here I should have had a V-8.
Don't worry, friend. You are not the only one not fit to date. When I came on this site it was with the feeling that I was the worst person in the world. Since then I have met some great people with whom I have shared many frustrating emotions. I am still working on myself.
Now I share the hurt that others share, as they shared mine. I also share the joy that others share. I have seen love bloom for some and it gives me hope. We all make mistakes in life, but given time we can learn to love again.
The most important thing is to love yourself and to respect others.
im not reading the whole dang thread im just slappin you upside yer head and saying wth are you saying?
youre the best sweet caring blah blah blah
you know what i think of you and you say you trust me so stop listening to your sadness and listen to me
(((hypnotized)))
number one youre a new yorker number 2 you care for your family etc etc and nuff said
you damn well know better so stop it
there are men around CS that are all about the self pity and i havent seen them have any success yet so thats not a good model to follow so knock it off
mastic55: What was I thinking coming on here looking for someone.I been here a long time and nothing, thats a good thing, I live check to check and really have nothing to offer, my life is in turmoil everyday, I see some profiles and they really got it going on, they have it made, like a new caddy in a used car lot, and they are looking, what chance do I have , reality sets inn.In stead of coming here I should have had a V-8.
I feel the EXACT same way Mastic!! It's just that I gave up a long time ago. You, at least have age on your side. At the risk of sounding gay and making Stooie physically ill, I don't understand why you haven't found anyone. You are a nice guy and a good looking guy. And you have the age thing working for you. Keep plugging away, guy, don't give up!!
And if that makes me sound gay....too frickin bad!!
Right mate. Sometimes it is better to be single. You can get into a relationship and before you know it you are looking for the exit, or wondering if you have stayed too long.
roseofsharon: Oooo errr...!! And I thought it was just coz I had a face like a robber's dog??!!
Bloody hell.... ya mean it could be something else AS WELL??!!
Jeez!!!
My opinion has nothing to do with physical appearances. Let me explain, alison.
98% of the population is unrealistic about what would make them happy. They either have standards that are too high, or too low, they have issues with age differences, issues with political or religious differences, or they have race issues. Bottom line is nobody really knows what the hell to do, and putting them into a dating situation where they're expected to be paragons (mostly these expectations exist in their own minds, because the other person is too busy doing the same thing to have any real expectiations beyond their own narcissistic needs) is so torturous they'd rather do ANYTHING than date.
Yep. Undatable. For a variety of reasons. The other 2% don't date, not because they aren't fit to, but because they are already in happy, stable relationships because they DIDN'T have the above problems.
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Don't worry, friend. You are not the only one not fit to date. When I came on this site it was with the feeling that I was the worst person in the world. Since then I have met some great people with whom I have shared many frustrating emotions. I am still working on myself.
Now I share the hurt that others share, as they shared mine. I also share the joy that others share. I have seen love bloom for some and it gives me hope. We all make mistakes in life, but given time we can learn to love again.
The most important thing is to love yourself and to respect others.