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Well, Shel, I guess I have to try argue my friend's position since certain other capable people probably will choose not to
I think my friend would say that while it's true that most people don't chose to eliminate their feelings of love after a breakup, that's largely because 1) some part of them actually gets something - some form of emotional satisfaction - out of clinging to those past emotions; 2) that most people don't believe they have the power to make such a choice; and 3) even suspecting they might have such a power, they have no knowledge of how to implement it.