How long before saying "I love you"? ( Archived) (29)

Nov 15, 2008 4:22 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada15 Threads 1 Polls 180 Posts
How quickly do you think it should be said within a relationship, how soon do you think you can mean it?
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Nov 15, 2008 4:31 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
CrosstownTraffic
CrosstownTrafficCrosstownTrafficMalaga, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 732 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: How quickly do you think it should be said within a relationship, how soon do you think you can mean it?


How longs a piece of string? but probably not till after the silver anniversary, no wait......... 3 hours, no wait not till after you have seen each other being ill!................. Dunno, I give up.laugh
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Nov 15, 2008 4:52 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: How quickly do you think it should be said within a relationship, how soon do you think you can mean it?
I think it shouldn't be said too soon... Best to wait a few hours at least talk to hand and definitely not say it until the first passionate liason wine
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Nov 15, 2008 4:55 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
rizlared
rizlaredrizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
Zellarrone1: I think it shouldn't be said too soon... Best to wait a few hours at least and definitely not say it until the first passionate liason


I'll second thatthumbs up
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Nov 15, 2008 5:00 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
Its a bit like the marriage saying really - say I love You in haste and repent at leisure............ laugh grin
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Nov 15, 2008 5:05 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
trish123: Its a bit like the marriage saying really - say I love You in haste and repent at leisure............
Exactly, it's no use clapping eyes on them love then declaring mad love 5 minutes later then finding out they don't fulfil expectations later on laugh
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Nov 15, 2008 5:05 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
rizlared: I'll second that
Great minds think alike professor laugh
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Nov 15, 2008 6:59 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
37 years!!
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Nov 15, 2008 10:14 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
You can say it when u are sure that u feel it and that u mean it... unfortunately i think that person use to say it too much just to say it and this is really sad.
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Nov 15, 2008 10:22 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
lavender84: You can say it when u are sure that u feel it and that u mean it... unfortunately i think that person use to say it too much just to say it and this is really sad.


I agree with this, words are easy, it is in a persons actions that the truth is told.
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Nov 15, 2008 10:32 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
xcite2c
xcite2cxcite2cKeller, Texas USA1 Threads 55 Posts
It's as simple as this. You say it when you mean it, feel it and it's totally applicable. Don't say it till then and never ever say it too late. heart beating
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Nov 15, 2008 10:50 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Zellarrone1: Exactly, it's no use clapping eyes on them then declaring mad love 5 minutes later then finding out they don't fulfil expectations later on


Just went through having someone do this...and just as I'm starting to be able to breathe again, he's still having trouble "adjusting" to losing me...which just tells me I did the right thing.

cheers
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Nov 15, 2008 10:51 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
xcite2c: It's as simple as this. You say it when you mean it, feel it and it's totally applicable. Don't say it till then and never ever say it too late.


And never regret saying it when you've done that. thumbs up
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Nov 15, 2008 10:53 AM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: How quickly do you think it should be said within a relationship, how soon do you think you can mean it?



When that's how you really feel and not before...it should not be thrown around in a relationship when it means nothing....wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Nov 15, 2008 9:51 PM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: How quickly do you think it should be said within a relationship, how soon do you think you can mean it?


The moment I feel is right to say it.a week, two months, 3 years, 40 years, when I feel comfortable with it.
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Nov 15, 2008 9:53 PM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
waiting4u
waiting4uwaiting4uGB's Heart, Oregon USA3 Threads 1,869 Posts
xcite2c: It's as simple as this. You say it when you mean it, feel it and it's totally applicable. Don't say it till then and never ever say it too late.


thumbs up
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Nov 15, 2008 9:56 PM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
If and when I feel it and for real not lust or gratitude.I don't say it very often,havn't loved many men romantically I mean.You know when it's right.heart wings
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Nov 15, 2008 9:57 PM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
when i first heard it i had to say whaaa??


((thick accent))



rolling on the floor laughing

then i giggled hysterically



from adrenaline and fear i think

what an awesome frightening exhilarating rollercoaster-

thats cool but the day to day is awesome-the glue of it
i like that part- just plannin supper and such-
awesome to share life


who knew?



head banger
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Nov 15, 2008 10:10 PM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Never.
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Nov 15, 2008 10:27 PM CST How long before saying "I love you"?
michae3322
michae3322michae3322mineola, Texas USA7 Threads 65 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: How quickly do you think it should be said within a relationship, how soon do you think you can mean it?
I dont think there should be a rule of time. If it is what you truly feel. I think you should just say it and see what happens.
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