HJFinAZ: 80-90% of what I post in forums is like I Ivory Snow, 99.44% BS....
I am so honest in person it scares the hell out of people and they run. If it looks like BS (in real life), I will say it is BS. I don't do that to harm anyone, I do it because a wonderful man and a few others did for me. It allowed me to change. I can assure all, I have been places in life they would dare not go.
So many are "looking" for love, I AM loved. So many are looking for another to complete them, I AM complete, a whole entity. So many are looking for their better half,I want an equal.
I has been "MY" experience, people are afraid to face problems. They find it easier to cut and run. Personally, that has been a VERY expensive experience for me.
Long ago, a very dear friend told me that if you really want to find out who/what someone is, share a roof with them.
"Life is a banquet, and most people are starving."
Yes, HJ. And that's what I seek. And so, I'm willing to be patient until I truly find it. I need a match to me, an equal partner, not someone who is looking for their "other half".
Words of wisdom from a rune reading the other day, that I'll share here:
True partnership is only achieved by separate and whole beings who retain their separateness even as they unite.
RicoWest: Well I've been to a couple of CS meetings (you guess which ones) and I wasn't impressed. The other guys tried hard to act like slick business types---we're talking Los Angeles, not Hicktown---and the women all had that same spiteful grin on their faces. I thought to myself, no wonder eveyone in this room is still single, they just want to play games... so I left early.
Lovely to hear such a positive report of CS meets.
Going off the reactions of the people who've met me in RL... I'm told I'm full of surprises but what you read is basically a fair representation of me.
I'm actually of the same person, who you read of in my post here on CS, as if we are to meet in person. Atmosphere, circumstances, and situations, can produce a different result in my post here on CS, as they can in person, as both are fluid, and both rely on reality. Controls that, on a computer screen are soley in the powers at ones hands, but, in real life the contols are dependent on life, and responsibilities. With me, you get the truth, either way, as the favor is returned, both, of the poster, and in person.
I am very quiet in real life. I have a dry sense of humor, but am very quiet.....Except when it comes to my professional life. I know my stuff and am very vocal in my work.
It has been observed that while with a patient I am extroverted, jovial, direct, reassuring, and nonsense in terms of giving orders during stabilization.
But in the lounge I am quiet, reflective, reserved.
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Sommerauer71: Represent who we are in life?
I ask this because it has been something that since meeting with PPV, we have discussed.
I look like my pictures, coz they are me, he is the same as he portrays here, obviously he talks less than he writes, I mean honestly, most of you saw what he had written.
So, are you quieter, noisier, more shy, face to face than on here?
I have read so many times when people have met that they are not the same as they are online.
One of the things I hear people say to me is when reading my stories. They are YOU! They are writen just like you talk. No, eventhough I can be still I am a jakke dee jak. When I am still I often hear what is the matter? Nothing is the matter just wish to be quite. I believe you would find me much the same in life as I am on here.
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
sxc666: For me I think I am the same, the only difference is I am initially a bit shyer, but after a while I will just be me.
And keep me away from red wine
I don't know how to spell the word shy lol. My problem is that my mouth at times is faster then my brain. Writing on here instead of talking, does give us the opportunity to think first. Lol even here I have blown it.
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I am so honest in person it scares the hell out of people and they run. If it looks like BS (in real life), I will say it is BS. I don't do that to harm anyone, I do it because a wonderful man and a few others did for me. It allowed me to change. I can assure all, I have been places in life they would dare not go.
So many are "looking" for love, I AM loved.
So many are looking for another to complete them, I AM complete, a whole entity.
So many are looking for their better half,I want an equal.
I has been "MY" experience, people are afraid to face problems. They find it easier to cut and run. Personally, that has been a VERY expensive experience for me.
Long ago, a very dear friend told me that if you really want to find out who/what someone is, share a roof with them.
"Life is a banquet, and most people are starving."
Yes, HJ. And that's what I seek. And so, I'm willing to be patient until I truly find it. I need a match to me, an equal partner, not someone who is looking for their "other half".
Words of wisdom from a rune reading the other day, that I'll share here:
True partnership is only achieved by separate and whole beings who retain their separateness even as they unite.