is it really bad manners to say Whatever? ( Archived) (48)

Jan 16, 2009 2:57 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
princemuncher
princemuncherprincemunchernorthfield, Ohio USA12 Threads 378 Posts
whatever...
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Jan 16, 2009 3:09 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
lovaboy: Now ya goin even further back bud.. I have one of them Lowry paintings, hanging in my hallway...

Tut....whatever....


January 1968...oh the innocence of youthheart wings

Anyway...whatever!!!

I'm off down the pub.



cheers
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Jan 16, 2009 3:13 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
vinny1967: I think so........I have very rarely heard it on this side of the world but when I have I found it very dismissive of ones point of view........

JMO


I agree with Vinny on this one. I think it is the height of rudeness.
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Jan 16, 2009 3:17 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
Wednesday74
Wednesday74Wednesday74Central, Florida USA3 Threads 1 Polls 813 Posts
Yes it's rude. I only say it when I'm frustrated and had enough of whoever or whatever at the moment! Folks that know me well recognize the word as my signal for being fed up!
Whatever! grin giggle
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Jan 16, 2009 4:53 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
vonney: I agree with Vinny on this one. I think it is the height of rudeness.


I agree.

But on here, considering the lack of empathy, I'm starting to think it's a useful response at times.

tongue
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Jan 16, 2009 6:30 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
trish123: well, I wont say whatever hahaha - Im home


Of course not trish, to you, nor would I,

Getting back to the op, its the height of disrespect
when said this way. But then again, sometimes it just
fits.

Bakers was gooddancing



hug
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Jan 16, 2009 6:42 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
LadyMiniMe
LadyMiniMeLadyMiniMeNoord, Aruba35 Posts
I think it's rude, because to me it implies that you don't care.
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Jan 16, 2009 6:59 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
i think if u use to be hostile, there would have to be more than other words used with whatever...doh
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Jan 16, 2009 7:01 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
LadyMiniMe: I think it's rude, because to me it implies that you don't care.
Exactly, freedom of speech who cares whatever ...professor
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Jan 16, 2009 7:02 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
It´s more of an American English expression really, but the meaning behind it is negative, so no, I don´t like it.
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Jan 16, 2009 7:03 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
LadyMiniMe: I think it's rude, because to me it implies that you don't care.



It saves one, a lot of typing ( 'i don't care' ), and in that case, it isn't rude to not care.


laugh
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Jan 16, 2009 7:07 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
lusciousmile: It saves one, a lot of typing ( 'i don't care' ), and in that case, it isn't rude to not care.
has anyone looked up the definition of whatever? just like ain't ain't a word its slang for is not. cheering
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Jan 16, 2009 7:08 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
Yes, but if you took it away half the state of California couldn't communicate. rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 16, 2009 7:10 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
KrazieStill: Yes, but if you took it away half the state of California couldn't communicate.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 16, 2009 7:11 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
wildkitty: has anyone looked up the definition of whatever? just like ain't ain't a word its slang for is not.


The word in itself is fine, it´s the way it is often used contextually which is the problem.
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Jan 16, 2009 7:11 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
wildkitty: has anyone looked up the definition of whatever? just like ain't ain't a word its slang for is not.


I did. It's only rude, if used by an American.

laugh


super hole
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Jan 16, 2009 7:14 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
lusciousmile: I did. It's only rude, if used by an American.


rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 16, 2009 7:15 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
lusciousmile: I did. It's only rude, if used by an American.
confused Hows That so u think us americans are rude?roll eyes
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Jan 16, 2009 7:17 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
lusciousmile: I did. It's only rude, if used by an American.


Whatever!!!

Did I get away with that???

I'm Englishlaugh
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Jan 16, 2009 7:19 PM CST is it really bad manners to say Whatever?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
bodleing: Whatever!!!

Did I get away with that???

I'm English



Scot-free, Graham! joy
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