Are we still together? (14)
SykadelicJuijitzFarmington, Missouri USA1 Threads 1 PostsMy girl, the person I adored more than anyone, walked out of my life about two months ago and told me it was over between us. We didn't stop communicating with each other, and she's came back into my life two weeks later. We both young and we need a less serious relationship, we still go on dates and meet up for some action, but I've gone from living with her and seeing her everyday to only seeing her once or twice a week. I don't know if it's really working out but I don't want to push things to hard if they are. Should I keep on keepin' on? Or should I be the one to tell her flat out, it's over, with some finallity? Keep in mind, I really love this girl and think she is the one.
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SykadelicJuijitz: My girl, the person I adored more than anyone, walked out of my life about two months ago and told me it was over between us. We didn't stop communicating with each other, and she's came back into my life two weeks later. We both young and we need a less serious relationship, we still go on dates and meet up for some action, but I've gone from living with her and seeing her everyday to only seeing her once or twice a week. I don't know if it's really working out but I don't want to push things to hard if they are. Should I keep on keepin' on? Or should I be the one to tell her flat out, it's over, with some finallity? Keep in mind, I really love this girl and think she is the one.
But does she feel the same way??
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I think you need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel and ask her why things have change and after what she tells you then make up your mind.As you say she is the one for you but in her mind you might not be the one for her.
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desmond: I think you need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel and ask her why things have change and after what she tells you then make up your mind.As you say she is the one for you but in her mind you might not be the one for her.
Agreed, Des. Wise advice.
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SykadelicJuijitz: My girl, the person I adored more than anyone, walked out of my life about two months ago and told me it was over between us. We didn't stop communicating with each other, and she's came back into my life two weeks later. We both young and we need a less serious relationship, we still go on dates and meet up for some action, but I've gone from living with her and seeing her everyday to only seeing her once or twice a week. I don't know if it's really working out but I don't want to push things to hard if they are. Should I keep on keepin' on? Or should I be the one to tell her flat out, it's over, with some finallity? Keep in mind, I really love this girl and think she is the one.
Well as you said here you really love this girl and think
she is the one
Well how can you be asking these questions right now..
if she is the one
Its sounds to me you are having some doubt..
Be honest and upfront..
Tell her what is on ur mind and maybe she can put ur
mind at ease..
It wouldnt hurt a bit..it would be better to know whats
on her mind as well
Good Luck to you both
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One can love another, from a distance.
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HJFinAZ: One can love another, from a distance.
150 ft according to the paperwork I got
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SykadelicJuijitz: My girl, the person I adored more than anyone, walked out of my life about two months ago and told me it was over between us. We didn't stop communicating with each other, and she's came back into my life two weeks later. We both young and we need a less serious relationship, we still go on dates and meet up for some action, but I've gone from living with her and seeing her everyday to only seeing her once or twice a week. I don't know if it's really working out but I don't want to push things to hard if they are. Should I keep on keepin' on? Or should I be the one to tell her flat out, it's over, with some finallity? Keep in mind, I really love this girl and think she is the one.
I think you need a thread, to deal with the threads you still maintain....
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SykadelicJuijitz: My girl, the person I adored more than anyone, walked out of my life about two months ago and told me it was over between us. We didn't stop communicating with each other, and she's came back into my life two weeks later. We both young and we need a less serious relationship, we still go on dates and meet up for some action, but I've gone from living with her and seeing her everyday to only seeing her once or twice a week. I don't know if it's really working out but I don't want to push things to hard if they are. Should I keep on keepin' on? Or should I be the one to tell her flat out, it's over, with some finallity? Keep in mind, I really love this girl and think she is the one.
She absolutely is NOT the one for you at this time. She's made that abundantly clear. What remains is for you to accept that.
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the women i have experienced have ALL been the same , when they don't want you no more , they simply turn around and leave like a stone , cool and heartless
so that is why sensitive guys like you and me , finally revolt and do like the bad boys do , doem and leavem
In response to: My girl, the person I adored more than anyone, walked out of my life about two months ago and told me it was over between us. We didn't stop communicating with each other, and she's came back into my life two weeks later. We both young and we need a less serious relationship, we still go on dates and meet up for some action, but I've gone from living with her and seeing her everyday to only seeing her once or twice a week. I don't know if it's really working out but I don't want to push things to hard if they are. Should I keep on keepin' on? Or should I be the one to tell her flat out, it's over, with some finallity? Keep in mind, I really love this girl and think she is the one.
the women i have experienced have ALL been the same , when they don't want you no more , they simply turn around and leave like a stone , cool and heartless
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SykadelicJuijitz: My girl, the person I adored more than anyone, walked out of my life about two months ago and told me it was over between us. We didn't stop communicating with each other, and she's came back into my life two weeks later. We both young and we need a less serious relationship, we still go on dates and meet up for some action, but I've gone from living with her and seeing her everyday to only seeing her once or twice a week. I don't know if it's really working out but I don't want to push things to hard if they are. Should I keep on keepin' on? Or should I be the one to tell her flat out, it's over, with some finallity? Keep in mind, I really love this girl and think she is the one.
You are right in not pushing things at the moment. Who initiates the communicating at the moment, and most often?
Familiarity breeds contempt, as the saying often goes.....
Perhaps YOU communicate a little less with her for a while? If she truly cares for you, she will then start to wonder if you are "going off the boil", i.e. losing interest. If she doesn't want to lose you all together, she will make sure she keeps the lines of comunication open. And then it progresses from there....
You must be prepared, however, for disappointment, just in case. But either way.... you will have a definitive answer, yeah?
I wish you luck and hope it all works out for you, my friend.
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merci49: so stop crying , start scoring
Merci I thought you were going to be nice
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Play it cool, keep on going and try not to sweat it even though you really can't help it. Be upfront but don't push. Be there when she allows but give her the space she wants. Sounds to me like she doens't know what she wants... All you can do is ride it out.
Remember...what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Learn from all of this whiles it's happening.
Hopes things do work out.
Remember...what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Learn from all of this whiles it's happening.
Hopes things do work out.
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