What Do You Think??? (317)
I was TOLD by someone (I just met) to leave this site and I told him no, that I had friends on here. In my case it was a control situation.
But I would respect the wishes of someone I was in a relationship with, if they had issues of abandonment because someone cheated on them online. I would discuss their concerns and see if we could work it out, if not I would inform my friends and make sure I got contact information from them, so I could remain friends.
But I would respect the wishes of someone I was in a relationship with, if they had issues of abandonment because someone cheated on them online. I would discuss their concerns and see if we could work it out, if not I would inform my friends and make sure I got contact information from them, so I could remain friends.
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buzzy: Just let me know before I reach in!
I promise you'll know, Love. 
I would never carry, especially there, without warning you. 
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Sommerauer71: Not many of us do.
Feed him? No.
I only feed people I like.
Feed him? No.
I only feed people I like.
That's the good way to do it!
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lanabyte: I can only hope, lol. Already lost one cup size, hope to lose a little more.
I had to ask how to do that...I was losing everywhere but there. I got advice, but it's not working so far.
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Crystalpistol2: I was TOLD by someone (I just met) to leave this site and I told him no, that I had friends on here. In my case it was a control situation.
But I would respect the wishes of someone I was in a relationship with, if they had issues of abandonment because someone cheated on them online. I would discuss their concerns and see if we could work it out, if not I would inform my friends and make sure I got contact information from them, so I could remain friends.
But I would respect the wishes of someone I was in a relationship with, if they had issues of abandonment because someone cheated on them online. I would discuss their concerns and see if we could work it out, if not I would inform my friends and make sure I got contact information from them, so I could remain friends.
I woulg give them my password and say have at it and leave the room for awhile. If that does not calm their fears, than it is over. I will not live with jealousy. Creates a very unhealthy relation. You have to walk on eggs. I did that once, will not do it again!
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druidess6308: I had to ask how to do that...I was losing everywhere but there. I got advice, but it's not working so far.
I think massage thearpy will work!
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Crystalpistol2: I was TOLD by someone (I just met) to leave this site and I told him no, that I had friends on here. In my case it was a control situation.
But I would respect the wishes of someone I was in a relationship with, if they had issues of abandonment because someone cheated on them online. I would discuss their concerns and see if we could work it out, if not I would inform my friends and make sure I got contact information from them, so I could remain friends.
But I would respect the wishes of someone I was in a relationship with, if they had issues of abandonment because someone cheated on them online. I would discuss their concerns and see if we could work it out, if not I would inform my friends and make sure I got contact information from them, so I could remain friends.
That would be an issue for me, Pistol, because again it shows a lack of trust in me, and without trust, there is no relationship. If they have abandonment issues due to a prior relationship, then they need to get over those before they can enter another one, or it won't be healthy. I can't live my life being not trusted. JMO, though.
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In response to: If you meet someone and begin a relationship whether it be someone you met in RL or from CS,and they wanted you to leave the site
Would you do leave?
Is it fair that they ask you to?
Just curious
Would you do leave?
Is it fair that they ask you to?
Just curious
I don't think it would be fair at all! Not everyone on here is looking for someone. Some are here just to make new friends and join in the forums and post blogs. Being in a relationship to me means trusting the person you're with. Either of them asking the other to leave would be the same as saying you didn't trust them and if that's the case, I don't think the relationship stands much of a chance.
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buzzy: I think massage thearpy will work!
Mmmmm...we'll find out! 
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buzzy: I woulg give them my password and say have at it and leave the room for awhile. If that does not calm their fears, than it is over. I will not live with jealousy. Creates a very unhealthy relation. You have to walk on eggs. I did that once, will not do it again!
Nope...we've both been there, know what it's like. Never again for either of us. I love you.
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lifesajoy: I don't think it would be fair at all! Not everyone on here is looking for someone. Some are here just to make new friends and join in the forums and post blogs. Being in a relationship to me means trusting the person you're with. Either of them asking the other to leave would be the same as saying you didn't trust them and if that's the case, I don't think the relationship stands much of a chance.
I totally agree. If one is looking to cheat, one will find it. Leaving a site like this doesn't stop it.
To me, trust is one of the major cornerstones for a healthy, long-lasting relationship. With a missing cornerstone, you don't have a healthy foundation...weak foundation, the building crumbles eventually anyway.
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Lagoona22: Fine, slap me if you must then....
...but i tend to get even later..
...but i tend to get even later..
Well... I guess that's a risk I'll just have to take...
Now where'd I put that whip emote....
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druidess6308: I had to ask how to do that...I was losing everywhere but there. I got advice, but it's not working so far.
Sadly, spot reducing isn't possible. The body decides on it's own where to burn fat from and in what order, and everyone is different.
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Well, if I met someone and settled down with them - I would think I'd have no more use for this site. The people I have met and become friends with would hopefully exchange private emails and I'd keep up with them throught that channel. I'm hoping that my new love and I would have lots of things to do together - time spent on the puter, on a dating site, definitely wouldn't be one. JMO
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If and when I find her, and it turns serious.. I am gone in a heartbeat. and would expect her not to be on dating sites if she were serious.
It's not a trust issue.. it is a devotion issue.
I would gladly give this up to devote my time to my partner.
also along religious lines a bit also..
I don't see any reason to leave seeds of doubt spread all over.
Honestly, most of us are single because of bad decision in the first place.
so is this truly the best place to get romantic advice?
Sorry but I think NOT!
To me.. being here or being in a real relationship.... pretty darn easy decision
let me also point out one other thing, I have made it clear, and I think most here know it, I am not looking for a LDR.
When I meat her, she will live here or be willing to move here.
Just too realistic, if I'm going to be in a relationship.. it will be face to face.. not cyber.
but thats just me.
It's not a trust issue.. it is a devotion issue.
I would gladly give this up to devote my time to my partner.
also along religious lines a bit also..
I don't see any reason to leave seeds of doubt spread all over.
Honestly, most of us are single because of bad decision in the first place.
so is this truly the best place to get romantic advice?
Sorry but I think NOT!
To me.. being here or being in a real relationship.... pretty darn easy decision
let me also point out one other thing, I have made it clear, and I think most here know it, I am not looking for a LDR.
When I meat her, she will live here or be willing to move here.
Just too realistic, if I'm going to be in a relationship.. it will be face to face.. not cyber.
but thats just me.
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rasgumby: If and when I find her, and it turns serious.. I am gone in a heartbeat. and would expect her not to be on dating sites if she were serious.
It's not a trust issue.. it is a devotion issue.
I would gladly give this up to devote my time to my partner.
also along religious lines a bit also..
I don't see any reason to leave seeds of doubt spread all over.
Honestly, most of us are single because of bad decision in the first place.
so is this truly the best place to get romantic advice?
Sorry but I think NOT!
To me.. being here or being in a real relationship.... pretty darn easy decision
let me also point out one other thing, I have made it clear, and I think most here know it, I am not looking for a LDR.
When I meat her, she will live here or be willing to move here.
Just too realistic, if I'm going to be in a relationship.. it will be face to face.. not cyber.
but thats just me.
It's not a trust issue.. it is a devotion issue.
I would gladly give this up to devote my time to my partner.
also along religious lines a bit also..
I don't see any reason to leave seeds of doubt spread all over.
Honestly, most of us are single because of bad decision in the first place.
so is this truly the best place to get romantic advice?
Sorry but I think NOT!
To me.. being here or being in a real relationship.... pretty darn easy decision
let me also point out one other thing, I have made it clear, and I think most here know it, I am not looking for a LDR.
When I meat her, she will live here or be willing to move here.
Just too realistic, if I'm going to be in a relationship.. it will be face to face.. not cyber.
but thats just me.
Amen! You're not alone in your thinking....
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rasgumby: If and when I find her, and it turns serious.. I am gone in a heartbeat. and would expect her not to be on dating sites if she were serious.
It's not a trust issue.. it is a devotion issue.
I would gladly give this up to devote my time to my partner.
also along religious lines a bit also..
I don't see any reason to leave seeds of doubt spread all over.
Honestly, most of us are single because of bad decision in the first place.
so is this truly the best place to get romantic advice?
Sorry but I think NOT!
To me.. being here or being in a real relationship.... pretty darn easy decision
let me also point out one other thing, I have made it clear, and I think most here know it, I am not looking for a LDR.
When I meat her, she will live here or be willing to move here.
Just too realistic, if I'm going to be in a relationship.. it will be face to face.. not cyber.
but thats just me.
It's not a trust issue.. it is a devotion issue.
I would gladly give this up to devote my time to my partner.
also along religious lines a bit also..
I don't see any reason to leave seeds of doubt spread all over.
Honestly, most of us are single because of bad decision in the first place.
so is this truly the best place to get romantic advice?
Sorry but I think NOT!
To me.. being here or being in a real relationship.... pretty darn easy decision
let me also point out one other thing, I have made it clear, and I think most here know it, I am not looking for a LDR.
When I meat her, she will live here or be willing to move here.
Just too realistic, if I'm going to be in a relationship.. it will be face to face.. not cyber.
but thats just me.
Oh, Ras. Let's hope you meat her soon!
I agree with this man!
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Charli15695: Amen! You're not alone in your thinking....
Oh, you just like the meat part.
Ras, want to meat her?
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lusciousmile: Oh, you just like the meat part. Ras, want to meat her?
crap that came out badlylong hard day work, tired.
damn , who moved the keys on my keyboard
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I can only hope, lol. Already lost one cup size, hope to lose a little more.