slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA943 posts
I feel that if you are in a relationship that you should plainly have it stated in your profile, and conduct yourself accordingly. having said that, it is no different, asking someone to walk away from here than it is to ask them to give up thier RL friends, for the most part we here talk daily, share our thoughts on life, love, and any number of other things. I concider the people here to be true friends, and as such would not be willing to give it up.
rasgumby: Come on over.. you can wash the dishes, the laundry, roof my house and remodel the kitchen... I could come up with more once all of that is done
In response to: If you meet someone and begin a relationship whether it be someone you met in RL or from CS,and they wanted you to leave the site
Would you do leave?
Is it fair that they ask you to?
Just curious
Yes I would leave the site if my boyfriend/husband asked me to cause I'd have no other reason to stay.My relationship would be much more important then hanging around on a site.
Not quite the same, but if I wanted to go to a strip bar every night to hang out with friends, I've got a feeling the relationship wouldn't last too long.
Indyfella: It's according to how you view it really.Not quite the same, but if I wanted to go to a strip bar every night to hang out with friends, I've got a feeling the relationship wouldn't last too long.
morgan5: If you meet someone and begin a relationship whether it be someone you met in RL or from CS,and they wanted you to leave the site
Would you do leave?
Is it fair that they ask you to?
Just curious
I believe if both partners decide to leave to try their relationship out is okay....it demonstrates who serious they are about each other...if it doesn't work out...then you can always put your profile back on as active ...
slim1977: I feel that if you are in a relationship that you should plainly have it stated in your profile, and conduct yourself accordingly. having said that, it is no different, asking someone to walk away from here than it is to ask them to give up thier RL friends, for the most part we here talk daily, share our thoughts on life, love, and any number of other things. I concider the people here to be true friends, and as such would not be willing to give it up.
Agreed. This is a place where I've met several wonderful people all around the world that I wouldn't have met anywhere else...and have made some very close friends. I come here to socialize as much as I go to local places to do so in person. I don't ask anyone to give up their friends and activities, so why would I ask him, or he ask me, to give up membership here at CS?
In response to: If you meet someone and begin a relationship whether it be someone you met in RL or from CS,and they wanted you to leave the site
Would you do leave?
Is it fair that they ask you to?
Just curious
"Although JB and I didn't meet on C.S.,he's accepted the fact that I have friends here on C.S. and,is very understanding of me.Being in a relationship is about commitment,trust and acceptance."
Hugz_n_Kissez: Well heaven knows if left here to my own devices I would just cheat anyway...sooooo better to head off the inevitable... In fact lock me in a closet that's probably the only place I'm likely not to...
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