blueyes34: morgan sweetowen and dru you dont like when a guy state there views so why even put the question out....you are all looking for someone on here ladies so lets tell the truth....john i agree with you 100%....
morgan5: Hi Tony it's not relevant to my situation, i was just curious on how people felt about it
Hi sweety
Sorry to assume. I've actually shown this forum to my girlfriend and my posts lol. She understands. I have many internet friends here and I enjoy the discussions...as well as goofing of
I met Sharon in Real Life. She has since joined CS. But she feels that CS is my territory and she doesn't want ti interfere. That is why she is seldom on here. She would never ask me to leave CS as she knows I am not trying to hook-up with anyone. I have made that abundantly clear in my almost three years on CS
Sorry to assume. I've actually shown this forum to my girlfriend and my posts lol. She understands. I have many internet friends here and I enjoy the discussions...as well as goofing of
druidess6308: I agree with you on this part, Mike. There is a healthy amount of jealousy, and healthy reactions to it. If a man did not feel some small bit of jealousy and possessiveness when we're together, I would wonder if he really found me that attractive. However, jealousy that makes one control another and restrict them because it causes a lack of trust is not healthy.
A healthy reaction, to me, is something like us being out somewhere and him catching another man leering at me/checking me out, so he puts his hand on my arm (if we're sitting) or his arm around my waist...it's a little bit of possessiveness, and a signal to the other man that I'm his. Trust me, I will be doing the same if I see another woman checking him out too much. Nothing wrong with that.
Controlling another's life by dictating what they can and can't do, or where they can belong to socialize is not healthy.
Me on the other hand. I don't feel jealous when someone looks. My ego gets a little inflated perhaps. "Thats right Buddy, she is nice. And guess what? She is going home with me!" But I don't have to give him any signs that we are together, I already know that. She already knows that. Who are they?
buzzy: Me on the other hand. I don't feel jealous when someone looks. My ego gets a little inflated perhaps. "Thats right Buddy, she is nice. And guess what? She is going home with me!" But I don't have to give him any signs that we are together, I already know that. She already knows that. Who are they?
OK...this is a slight difference between us. My ego might go up, but I will show signs, too...Leo, the territorial Lioness, Love.
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
Leave this joyous happy informative place to be with someone who wanted me for themselves and spend all their time with me.
Let me think, would i actually like that, find it scary or wait to be hit over the head with a mallet because i spent time in a forum talking to people.
Real life can also have its pitfalls.
On the plus side Ginger performed on webcam today, and he has another fan
buzzy: Me on the other hand. I don't feel jealous when someone looks. My ego gets a little inflated perhaps. "Thats right Buddy, she is nice. And guess what? She is going home with me!" But I don't have to give him any signs that we are together, I already know that. She already knows that. Who are they?
I'm the same way. And they say we Scorpios are the jealous type...
buzzy: Go figure! However, if we are cheated on, .
On that, we're the same. It's a zero tolerance issue for me...and I could react like Dazzle if I came across the situation he did. I don't cheat, I don't tolerate being cheated on.
When I left CS to be with Nick it was mutual consent. I took friends with me that I could reach in other ways as he did from the other site. We both lost track of most of them but were very busy with our lives and getting to know each other. I would do the same again.
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