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Feb 25, 2009 10:17 AM CST What Do You Think???
snugglysenior
snugglyseniorsnugglyseniorDover, New Jersey USA38 Threads 1 Polls 284 Posts
I don't know who he is and it's okay if you don't want to share it.

Just a little question: In his profile, did he change the part where it says what you are looking for?

Does he have longterm in the spot or did he change it to talk/email/pen pal - something like that?
sweetowen: Be my guest! He & everyone else on here know who my guy is.
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Feb 25, 2009 10:17 AM CST What Do You Think???
blueyes34
blueyes34blueyes34new orleans, Louisiana USA3 Threads 1 Polls 198 Posts
well i know what kind of marriage you have dear....not a good one you guys do anything you want kind of marriage....cool
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Feb 25, 2009 10:18 AM CST What Do You Think???
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
blueyes34: morgan sweetowen and dru you dont like when a guy state there views so why even put the question out....you are all looking for someone on here ladies so lets tell the truth....john i agree with you 100%....


Our objection isn't to the point of view, but the manner in which it was presented. None of us take kindly to personal attack, and you made very personal attacks rather than stating a point of view in an objective manner. You can state your point at any time, and we have the right to disagree with it...but attacking like you did is not the right way to go about it.
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Feb 25, 2009 10:18 AM CST What Do You Think???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
blueyes34: sweety your husband must be doing his thing on some other site so dont be so righteous...


You have lied about your height, education and think we are too stupid to tell.


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barf
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Feb 25, 2009 10:19 AM CST What Do You Think???
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
blueyes34: well i know what kind of marriage you have dear....not a good one you guys do anything you want kind of marriage....


Thats a problem to youdunno
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Feb 25, 2009 10:19 AM CST What Do You Think???
blueyes34
blueyes34blueyes34new orleans, Louisiana USA3 Threads 1 Polls 198 Posts
sweetowen i think he says hes looking for a long term would that shock you sweety....what would you do...dancing
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Feb 25, 2009 10:20 AM CST What Do You Think???
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
snugglysenior: I don't know who he is and it's okay if you don't want to share it.

Just a little question: In his profile, did he change the part where it says what you are looking for?

Does he have longterm in the spot or did he change it to talk/email/pen pal - something like that?


He's DazzleYou hon. hug We had both had "I'm not looking. I'm exploring a relationship" until he moved. And we both do have talk/email/pen pal chosen. But we'd have to make a major announcement for people to believe that we're not still "going on". It's pretty much common knowledge here.

Which brings up another point... if one of us was to stray, more than likely one of the other posters would probably catch us & say something... if it got to bad. That's JMHO. wine
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Feb 25, 2009 10:20 AM CST What Do You Think???
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
In response to: If you meet someone and begin a relationship and they wanted you to leave the site, would you leave?


No, she would leave.
I'm not about to accept that kind of BS in my life again.
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Feb 25, 2009 10:20 AM CST What Do You Think???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
blueyes34: morgan sweetowen and dru you dont like when a guy state there views so why even put the question out....you are all looking for someone on here ladies so lets tell the truth....john i agree with you 100%....
there you go again saying what people think! I have no problem with you giving your opinion, but i do when you TELL people there motive for being here. My partner knows i am here, see's what i write and knows who i talk to and there is no problem because of a little thing called trust, something you know nothing about
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Feb 25, 2009 10:21 AM CST What Do You Think???
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
morgan5: If you meet someone and begin a relationship whether it be someone you met in RL or from CS,and they wanted you to leave the site

Would you do leave?

Is it fair that they ask you to?

Just curious



I don't see why you should leave the site for
someone else's sake. I feel that if you don't
have trust within the relationship then you
don't have a strong enough relationship and
it would not be for me.

I did come to the forums for friends only and
see nothing wrong with that.


wave peace devil
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Feb 25, 2009 10:21 AM CST What Do You Think???
blueyes34
blueyes34blueyes34new orleans, Louisiana USA3 Threads 1 Polls 198 Posts
luscious dear i have lied about nothing...i suggest you contact the management if you think i lied on my profile sweety..angel
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Feb 25, 2009 10:22 AM CST What Do You Think???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
blueyes34: luscious dear i have lied about nothing...i suggest you contact the management if you think i lied on my profile sweety..


liar


barf
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Feb 25, 2009 10:22 AM CST What Do You Think???
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
lookin4ubabe: Excellent point....It is all about opening the lines of communication and expressing your intent. This is a great sight for provoking thought and conversation, the dating aspect aside...the forums are fun!


Absolutely! And we still learn a lot about each other by seeing each other's points of view on here. Subjects are raised on here for discussion that just don't get discussed in everyday life. I've learned some things about myself from being on here and having that experience.

And we have fun. In the fun threads, we like to play tag...nothing wrong with that. We also still enjoy being on here with our friends and getting to talk to them, and we currently have no plans for leaving here after we are living together. I'm sure we won't be on as much, but we'll still be on here.
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Feb 25, 2009 10:23 AM CST What Do You Think???
snugglysenior
snugglyseniorsnugglyseniorDover, New Jersey USA38 Threads 1 Polls 284 Posts
When I was married I was friends with a woman who was having an affair. My husband knew she was doing it and he didn't want me associating with her. According to the thread the other day I should "have done what he told me to do" and not be friends with her. I kept the friendship and I could have cheated on him because he was always drunk and hardly around but I didn't.

Being associated with this girlfriend didn't encourage me to run around on my husband. I didn't agree with what she was doing but it wasn't my business.

So we have two people in the forums who like each other - maybe love each other. They are having fun talking to the same people.

Integrity is based on who you are - not the people you associate with.

morgan5: best ignore him, he shows himself for what he is
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Feb 25, 2009 10:24 AM CST What Do You Think???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
bodleing: I would not enter a relationship to control their
actions, nor would I expect them to contol mine.

This is really a trust issue.

For me, no trust...no relationship.

Period!!!
that's what i think thumbs up
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Feb 25, 2009 10:24 AM CST What Do You Think???
blueyes34
blueyes34blueyes34new orleans, Louisiana USA3 Threads 1 Polls 198 Posts
so sweety why put the question out to everyone....it seems you are not sure of yourself hun...so if he trusts you why the question....something fishy here.....yay
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Feb 25, 2009 10:25 AM CST What Do You Think???
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Yeah great...controlling someone from the offset!!!

Sounds like the thin edge of the wedge to me.thumbs down
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Feb 25, 2009 10:26 AM CST What Do You Think???
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
blueyes34: luscious dear i have lied about nothing...i suggest you contact the management if you think i lied on my profile sweety..


blueyes34: sweetowen i think he says hes looking for a long term would that shock you sweety....what would you do...



Here's a lie. scold liar roll eyes
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Feb 25, 2009 10:26 AM CST What Do You Think???
snugglysenior
snugglyseniorsnugglyseniorDover, New Jersey USA38 Threads 1 Polls 284 Posts
Thank you for the info. I'm gonna check him out rolling on the floor laughing laugh
sweetowen: He's DazzleYou hon. We had both had "I'm not looking. I'm exploring a relationship" until he moved. And we both do have talk/email/pen pal chosen. But we'd have to make a major announcement for people to believe that we're not still "going on". It's pretty much common knowledge here.

Which brings up another point... if one of us was to stray, more than likely one of the other posters would probably catch us & say something... if it got to bad. That's JMHO.
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Feb 25, 2009 10:27 AM CST What Do You Think???
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
blueyes34: so sweety why put the question out to everyone....it seems you are not sure of yourself hun...so if he trusts you why the question....something fishy here.....


Just a suggestion... hit the little button to the RIGHT of the "Reply" button when responding to someone. It says "QUOTE". That way we know who you're aiming your accusations at each time. frustrated
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