Why do woman always think they know? They somehow arrive at certain conclusions People usually reap that which they sow And therefore live their lives with dillusions
Woman always say things like "tells me a lot" And when you ask them to kindly explain They babble on and tell you simply nought And end up talking about some silly airplane
They somehow think that they are all Freud They analyse and find a new meaning in every word "This is what you really meant" creating some void Am I the only one that thinks this totally absurd?
Have women been lied to so often and completely That saying or doing anything is questioned What happens when true love falls so neatly And you say the words most often mentioned
They question your integrity and intentions Why can't they take things at face value anymore Why must an " I love you" be said by a henchman Why must loving someone become such a chore
It's often said that the truth is stranger than fiction In my life's experience I fnd this very, very true Therefore it is my earnest most solid conviction That truth is not believed and the liar becomes true blue
Perhaps this is why so many love stories fail Females never believe the truth of a true lovers words They always believe the liar a skilled and crafty male Much like a devil luring you with promises most absurd
So tell me, tell me , tell me please and honestly why I have to know to ease my soul and spirit why I still live Why do woman so often shun the truth and believe the lie Rejecting the happiness and truest love that men can ever give?
Thanks PinkP. I am really honest with my feelings and it seems doing so sets up an obstacle course of disbelief. Everything becomes mind games and potholes to fail....landmines...you friggin' name it. Can't someone just love someone and be believed because of the emotion you put into it?? So again Why? TY PinkP
jerseygirl50petersburg, Virginia USAApr 22, 2011
Goodmorning dear Larry,
Well I can tell you that I just figure all things men say are lies. And YES it is because trust and belief has been broken so many times..that it takes a WHOLE lot to convince me of the truth. I know it is not fair ..per say, but I suppose it is a defence mechanism that we use.Your a great person, and such a sweet guy. I'm sorry that woman are viewed this way. I know someday you will find one who will embrace your love. ..Your friend always..JG..
Really good answer JG. Defense mechanism...I like that and Perhaps as you say just need a lot of convincing. It to often gives the feeling of rejection however. Guess like a concrete wall..little resistance once you break thru. TY. Happy Easter my friend.
Because men are from Mars.. and women are from Venus.. for real though, it is true.. it's that we are wired differently.. and we do actually see two different meanings to the exact same word or situation sometimes. It is only after getting to know that other person better, that these misunderstandings can be seen for what they really are.. If you're lucky..
Yes I know men and women are different QS and that women are more emotional but why do they always end up believing the lies and always reject the truth. Are the lies shinier? Does this not promote the telling of lies? Is the feminine species responsible for all this mistrust because they are so bad a perceiving the truth? My why just provokes more questions than answers...lol.
Well.. I don't know that we always do believe the lies.. In my opinion it is more a matter.. for me at least.. of having everything tied up in a neat little bundle.. and tied in a nice ribbon.. in other words everything quite clear and no loose ends.. Hope that makes sense to you..
daciana1london, Greater London, England UKApr 22, 2011
yeah...WHY? Perhaps they are easy to fool them with lie and not with truth? Well done, Sir!
cafetwo2010Harford county, Maryland USAApr 22, 2011
I find it facinating that women may interpret a mans every word in a totally different light. So if I write a poem lets say, about a pretty rose, they may actually think I just wrote about green frogs and pink shoestrings...That is soooo cool!!lol. Just kidding. Actually whatever sixth sense a woman has about men, I suspect goes much deeper than us guys know about.. But great telling poem..
niah9Auckland, New ZealandApr 22, 2011
Okay....now my turn... Once, I'd have done exactly as you said boyshchrm....20 years ago. As a child raised by woman who never worked...but ran the home, my mum and aunties believed men were smarter. That has changed...although you may be mixing with the wrong ladies. I can assure you my female friends will explain what they mean.....it is confidence....self esteem. Women who've stood on thier own two feet and know how to survive, are different, and there are more and more of us now. We have all been hurt, male and female.. that tends to build safety nets. Faint heart never won fair lady, and try try again comes to mind, or you haven't met the right lady yet.... but I loved the poem....Niah PS when you love someone...nothing else matters...unconditional.....
Now I thought I could write some sad poetry. My hat is off to you this is really sad. To answer your question I would say lack of maturity. And I don't feel it is just women. One of the wisest things I learned about men as growing up was what I learned about myself. I am not a mind reader I really cannot tell a person how they feel they need to tell me. I also try not to look for the worse in someone when I meet them. Also my friend loving someone should never be seen as a chore but as a gift
Yeh QS I can appreciate wanting loose ends taken care of but that being the case I think we must give someone the benefit of the doubt along the way. Innocent until proven guilty...but hey gather questions and evidence and grill them when the time is right ...addressing your concerns. TY
Yes CafeTwo woman do seem to have some inner mechanism that they count on but I can tell you it does not always function properly and is not always accurate because it often causes the plane to crash.
Very enlightening info Niah. TY. Yes there are woman that seem to be able to see thru the BS but I am still convinced most want to hear what they want to hear and crafty gentleman play to that weakness and are wolves in sheeps clothing. Going astray here...why the heck am I talking about sheep wearing clothes...doh!! javascript:emot('');
sometimes I think you are cute! like a kid, have a lot of question. lol
RedexNorthumberland, England UKJun 19, 2011
Firstly I enjoyed this thought provking read, WHY With thought I think the older we get the more synical But like cafes answere. Wishing you well in the maze of a womens mind
Well as long as you answer honestly SandS...lol. Heck...I am cute!!! I have more questions than answers that is for sure. A very good man went to Heaven and as a reward God gave him 1 wish he would grant. The kind philanthropist told God he wanted bridges built between all the continents to promote world peace. God said that was a really huge job what with the oceans 15 thousand feet deep in places and if there was another wish he could grant. John the honest and kind philathropist asked God if he could give him the knowledge and wisdom to understand woman. God said,"about those bridges..."
moonontideSydney, New South Wales AustraliaJul 31, 2011
hi there boyshchrm6 For me personally when I have felt truly felt loved it is by a deep inner sense.Its not what he says but how he holds my hand or how he holds my face. Too many words scare me.It is the smile that plays his mouth and eyes..Hope this helps.And woman are defensive because it is well known that man can take a woman and not think twice about what hes taken. But in fact every time a woman gives shes giving a piece of herself.We give of our essence.So we have to guard it. Its uniquely special to who we are.We all know the words of love but real love is in the silences.
Thanks Redex. All these comments are being very helpful and I think will help me in the future...not that I am a boor, but I am being somewhat "Enlightened" and yes I do like CafeTwo answer.
Thanks Kie76. for sure what you say makes sense. Guess it's all just a big roll of the dice when you really get down to it. Wanting to do and say the right thing but having found honesty to not work just being hesitant. Thanks for your insight.
You have described how women give very candidly and understandibly and this is certain a gift to be guarded and protected. I guess men are wired a little different and don't appreciate the uniqueness of what is given. Thank you for your sensitivity and comments.
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doing so sets up an obstacle course of disbelief. Everything becomes mind games and potholes to fail....landmines...you friggin' name it. Can't someone just love someone and be believed because of the emotion you put into it?? So again Why?
TY PinkP
Well I can tell you that I just figure all things men say are lies. And YES it is because trust and belief has been broken so many times..that it takes a WHOLE lot to convince me of the truth. I know it is not fair ..per say, but I suppose it is a defence mechanism that we use.Your a great person, and such a sweet guy. I'm sorry that woman are viewed this way. I know someday you will find one who will embrace your love. ..Your friend always..JG..
Perhaps as you say just need a lot of convincing. It to often
gives the feeling of rejection however. Guess like a concrete wall..little resistance once you break thru. TY. Happy Easter
my friend.
and that women are more emotional but why
do they always end up believing the lies
and always reject the truth. Are the lies
shinier? Does this not promote the telling
of lies? Is the feminine species responsible
for all this mistrust because they are so
bad a perceiving the truth? My why just
provokes more questions than answers...lol.
As a child raised by woman who never worked...but ran the home, my mum and aunties believed men were smarter.
That has changed...although you may be mixing with the wrong ladies. I can assure you my female friends will explain what they mean.....it is confidence....self esteem.
Women who've stood on thier own two feet and know how to survive, are different, and there are more and more of us now.
We have all been hurt, male and female.. that tends to build safety nets.
Faint heart never won fair lady, and try try again comes to mind, or you haven't met the right lady yet.... but I loved the poem....Niah PS when you love someone...nothing else matters...unconditional.....
mechanism that they count on but I can tell you
it does not always function properly and is not
always accurate because it often causes the plane
to crash.
Yes there are woman that seem to
be able to see thru the BS but
I am still convinced most want to
hear what they want to hear and crafty
gentleman play to that weakness and
are wolves in sheeps clothing. Going
astray here...why the heck am I talking
about sheep wearing clothes...doh!!
javascript:emot('');
lol
sometimes I think you are cute! like a kid, have a lot of question. lol
But like cafes answere. Wishing you well in the maze of a womens mind
Heck...I am cute!!! I have more questions than
answers that is for sure.
A very good man went to Heaven and as a reward
God gave him 1 wish he would grant. The kind
philanthropist told God he wanted bridges built
between all the continents to promote world peace.
God said that was a really huge job what with the
oceans 15 thousand feet deep in places and if there
was another wish he could grant. John the honest and
kind philathropist asked God if he could give him
the knowledge and wisdom to understand woman.
God said,"about those bridges..."
For me personally when I have felt truly felt loved it is by a deep inner sense.Its not what he says but how he holds my hand or how he holds my face. Too many words scare me.It is the smile that plays his mouth and eyes..Hope this helps.And woman are defensive because it is well known that man can take a woman and not think twice about what hes taken. But in fact every time a woman gives shes giving a piece of herself.We give of our essence.So we have to guard it. Its uniquely special to who we are.We all know the words of love but real love is in the silences.
very helpful and I think will help me in
the future...not that I am a boor, but I
am being somewhat "Enlightened" and yes
I do like CafeTwo answer.
Hope you return soon.
sense. Guess it's all just a big roll of
the dice when you really get down to it.
Wanting to do and say the right thing but
having found honesty to not work just being
hesitant. Thanks for your insight.
candidly and understandibly and this is
certain a gift to be guarded and protected.
I guess men are wired a little different
and don't appreciate the uniqueness of
what is given. Thank you for your
sensitivity and comments.