Would you go out with someone if they were overweight or obese but confident? (75)
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Some people are just big.
Women are voluptuous and men can be stocky.
Women are voluptuous and men can be stocky.
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Some people are just big.
Women are voluptuous and men can be stocky.
Women are voluptuous and men can be stocky.
A 728 lb. person who is trying to reach 1600 lbs. is not just big, not just stocky, and certainly not voluptuous.
She is also not intelligent, and whatever her face started out looking like, by 728 lbs. it is no longer going to be cute except possibly in the eyes of an actual hippopotamus.
There's no excuse for that kind of deliberate gluttony..
Would I "go out" with a confident 728 lb. woman? How could she even GET out if she tried? That's just totally obscene and inexcusable.
I'll take sheep any day over human hippos.
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Some people are just big.
Women are voluptuous and men can be stocky.
Women are voluptuous and men can be stocky.
Agree, not all people were born with model-size-shape.
Confidence, intelligence and inner beauty are much more interesting and attractive!
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hairymonkey: A 728 lb. person who is trying to reach 1600 lbs. is not just big, not just stocky, and certainly not voluptuous.
She is also not intelligent, and whatever her face started out looking like, by 728 lbs. it is no longer going to be cute except possibly in the eyes of an actual hippopotamus.
There's no excuse for that kind of deliberate gluttony..
Would I "go out" with a confident 728 lb. woman? How could she even GET out if she tried? That's just totally obscene and inexcusable.
I'll take sheep any day over human hippos.
She is also not intelligent, and whatever her face started out looking like, by 728 lbs. it is no longer going to be cute except possibly in the eyes of an actual hippopotamus.
There's no excuse for that kind of deliberate gluttony..
Would I "go out" with a confident 728 lb. woman? How could she even GET out if she tried? That's just totally obscene and inexcusable.
I'll take sheep any day over human hippos.
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I don't mind if they are slightly overweight. Obese, forget it
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Yeah sure , as long as they are a humor one 
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RDM59: And if you had the choice between two self-confident women that you liked the personality of equally, one was super fit and athletic and the other one, let's say 'not so athletic'..... what then ..... ... which one would you choose, now be honest D ....
Ok, to be honest -- and btw, good morning R -- if the first one you described happened to be Liebe2, there'd be no contest. BUT, I could still maintain that the self-confidence was the key element.
I really believe that both men & women react more primally to self-confidence than to any other trait, I do.
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Dagosto: Ok, to be honest -- and btw, good morning R -- if the first one you described happened to be Liebe2, there'd be no contest. BUT, I could still maintain that the self-confidence was the key element.
I really believe that both men & women react more primally to self-confidence than to any other trait, I do.
I really believe that both men & women react more primally to self-confidence than to any other trait, I do.
.... morning D ... "self-confidence, the key element"..... I would agree, but for me it is not purely enough. I am rather greedy I have to confess, I need the lot ....
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RDM59: .... morning D ... "self-confidence, the key element"..... I would agree, but for me it is not purely enough.
I am rather greedy I have to confess, I need the lot ....
I am rather greedy I have to confess, I need the lot ....
Well, and you being such a handsome devil, you can afford to be choosy. The rest of us poor slobs have to be more pragmatic.
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hi RDM
Whats this about you being greedy... ??? Give me back my cream cakes..
I am the greedy one when it comes to anything sweet... lol.
Whats this about you being greedy... ??? Give me back my cream cakes..
I am the greedy one when it comes to anything sweet... lol.
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fieldworking: I created this poll because of an article I read about this 728 lb woman that is trying to gain 100 lbs./yr. until she reaches 1600 lbs. She is a plus size model in Arizona.
I saw that article too... and saw how her body took up much of the couch she was sat on... dear oh dear... and that she had a son in the pic... double dear oh dear... shows a complete disrespect to her own body, as I fear that she will put too much pressure on her internal organs, so something is bound to go wrong...
Personally, I thing she should be locked up in a padded cell.. but that is just my opinion...
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Merriweather: hi RDM Whats this about you being greedy... ??? Give me back my cream cakes.. I am the greedy one when it comes to anything sweet... lol.
G'day Skippy ... Aye, what are you like with those cream cakes, I've no idea where you put them all as it sure doesn't show on you anywhere ! My theory is you must convert those calories straight into gas and burn it off with some .....
..... oh how I wish Steve was still here .... 
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.... well I have dated some ladies that many would consider visually unattractive but for me they had loads of character and personality. But they were great kissers and I have to admit had very fit bodies ( one of my main weaknesses ).As for now I reckon I have struck gold in all departments, Spanish gold ..
.. she is 'muy caliente' in my eyes and that is all that matters at the end of the day for us all..... Hope you both have a great weekend together D ....
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fieldworking: I created this poll because of an article I read about this 728 lb woman that is trying to gain 100 lbs./yr. until she reaches 1600 lbs. She is a plus size model in Arizona.
Yes, of course!.........
For me it is a silly question....
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fieldworking: I created this poll because of an article I read about this 728 lb woman that is trying to gain 100 lbs./yr. until she reaches 1600 lbs. She is a plus size model in Arizona.
Over weight is one thing. This woman is ridicules. I'd have to put a seat on the back of the truck to carry her. And a hoist to get her into it.------ This poll is Archived ------
Obesity is a turn off.
Stupidity is a turn off.
Confidence very often goes with stupidity. The stupidest people are often the most confident, because they're too stupid to know how ignorant and horrid they are, and too apathetic too care. Beyond even that, they actually enjoy and are proud of every horrible thing about themselves, because they're stupid.
What is the subtle distinction between "confidence" and aggression?
The most intelligent people are very often the ones who appear the most insecure. They'll often be called shy, even if shyness has nothing to do with it. They've learned to hold themselves back from a society full of aggressive idiots.
And so you keep going after the aggressive idiots, the ones who are proud of their own gluttony and therefore appear "confident" to you, and then you come back later with your horror stories of what selfish jerks they "turned out to be". And you go around crying about why can't you find any "sensitive, caring" guys.
Well the sensitive ones are the intelligent ones, more often than not the quiet ones, and very often the ones you perceive as insecure, and therefore unattractive in your eyes.
Stupidity, aggression, and loudness, go together, and they pass themselves off as confidence.
Stupidity is a turn off.
Confidence very often goes with stupidity. The stupidest people are often the most confident, because they're too stupid to know how ignorant and horrid they are, and too apathetic too care. Beyond even that, they actually enjoy and are proud of every horrible thing about themselves, because they're stupid.
What is the subtle distinction between "confidence" and aggression?
The most intelligent people are very often the ones who appear the most insecure. They'll often be called shy, even if shyness has nothing to do with it. They've learned to hold themselves back from a society full of aggressive idiots.
And so you keep going after the aggressive idiots, the ones who are proud of their own gluttony and therefore appear "confident" to you, and then you come back later with your horror stories of what selfish jerks they "turned out to be". And you go around crying about why can't you find any "sensitive, caring" guys.
Well the sensitive ones are the intelligent ones, more often than not the quiet ones, and very often the ones you perceive as insecure, and therefore unattractive in your eyes.
Stupidity, aggression, and loudness, go together, and they pass themselves off as confidence.
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hairymonkey: Obesity is a turn off.
Stupidity is a turn off.
Confidence very often goes with stupidity. The stupidest people are often the most confident, because they're too stupid to know how ignorant and horrid they are, and too apathetic too care. Beyond even that, they actually enjoy and are proud of every horrible thing about themselves, because they're stupid.
What is the subtle distinction between "confidence" and aggression?
The most intelligent people are very often the ones who appear the most insecure. They'll often be called shy, even if shyness has nothing to do with it. They've learned to hold themselves back from a society full of aggressive idiots.
And so you keep going after the aggressive idiots, the ones who are proud of their own gluttony and therefore appear "confident" to you, and then you come back later with your horror stories of what selfish jerks they "turned out to be". And you go around crying about why can't you find any "sensitive, caring" guys.
Well the sensitive ones are the intelligent ones, more often than not the quiet ones, and very often the ones you perceive as insecure, and therefore unattractive in your eyes.
Stupidity, aggression, and loudness, go together, and they pass themselves off as confidence.
Stupidity is a turn off.
Confidence very often goes with stupidity. The stupidest people are often the most confident, because they're too stupid to know how ignorant and horrid they are, and too apathetic too care. Beyond even that, they actually enjoy and are proud of every horrible thing about themselves, because they're stupid.
What is the subtle distinction between "confidence" and aggression?
The most intelligent people are very often the ones who appear the most insecure. They'll often be called shy, even if shyness has nothing to do with it. They've learned to hold themselves back from a society full of aggressive idiots.
And so you keep going after the aggressive idiots, the ones who are proud of their own gluttony and therefore appear "confident" to you, and then you come back later with your horror stories of what selfish jerks they "turned out to be". And you go around crying about why can't you find any "sensitive, caring" guys.
Well the sensitive ones are the intelligent ones, more often than not the quiet ones, and very often the ones you perceive as insecure, and therefore unattractive in your eyes.
Stupidity, aggression, and loudness, go together, and they pass themselves off as confidence.
And there you have it folks...
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hairymonkey: Obesity is a turn off.
Stupidity is a turn off.
Confidence very often goes with stupidity. The stupidest people are often the most confident, because they're too stupid to know how ignorant and horrid they are, and too apathetic too care. Beyond even that, they actually enjoy and are proud of every horrible thing about themselves, because they're stupid.
What is the subtle distinction between "confidence" and aggression?
The most intelligent people are very often the ones who appear the most insecure. They'll often be called shy, even if shyness has nothing to do with it. They've learned to hold themselves back from a society full of aggressive idiots.
And so you keep going after the aggressive idiots, the ones who are proud of their own gluttony and therefore appear "confident" to you, and then you come back later with your horror stories of what selfish jerks they "turned out to be". And you go around crying about why can't you find any "sensitive, caring" guys.
Well the sensitive ones are the intelligent ones, more often than not the quiet ones, and very often the ones you perceive as insecure, and therefore unattractive in your eyes.
Stupidity, aggression, and loudness, go together, and they pass themselves off as confidence.
Stupidity is a turn off.
Confidence very often goes with stupidity. The stupidest people are often the most confident, because they're too stupid to know how ignorant and horrid they are, and too apathetic too care. Beyond even that, they actually enjoy and are proud of every horrible thing about themselves, because they're stupid.
What is the subtle distinction between "confidence" and aggression?
The most intelligent people are very often the ones who appear the most insecure. They'll often be called shy, even if shyness has nothing to do with it. They've learned to hold themselves back from a society full of aggressive idiots.
And so you keep going after the aggressive idiots, the ones who are proud of their own gluttony and therefore appear "confident" to you, and then you come back later with your horror stories of what selfish jerks they "turned out to be". And you go around crying about why can't you find any "sensitive, caring" guys.
Well the sensitive ones are the intelligent ones, more often than not the quiet ones, and very often the ones you perceive as insecure, and therefore unattractive in your eyes.
Stupidity, aggression, and loudness, go together, and they pass themselves off as confidence.
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hairymonkey: Obesity is a turn off.
Stupidity is a turn off.
Confidence very often goes with stupidity. The stupidest people are often the most confident, because they're too stupid to know how ignorant and horrid they are, and too apathetic too care. Beyond even that, they actually enjoy and are proud of every horrible thing about themselves, because they're stupid.
What is the subtle distinction between "confidence" and aggression?
The most intelligent people are very often the ones who appear the most insecure. They'll often be called shy, even if shyness has nothing to do with it. They've learned to hold themselves back from a society full of aggressive idiots.
And so you keep going after the aggressive idiots, the ones who are proud of their own gluttony and therefore appear "confident" to you, and then you come back later with your horror stories of what selfish jerks they "turned out to be". And you go around crying about why can't you find any "sensitive, caring" guys.
Well the sensitive ones are the intelligent ones, more often than not the quiet ones, and very often the ones you perceive as insecure, and therefore unattractive in your eyes.
Stupidity, aggression, and loudness, go together, and they pass themselves off as confidence.
Stupidity is a turn off.
Confidence very often goes with stupidity. The stupidest people are often the most confident, because they're too stupid to know how ignorant and horrid they are, and too apathetic too care. Beyond even that, they actually enjoy and are proud of every horrible thing about themselves, because they're stupid.
What is the subtle distinction between "confidence" and aggression?
The most intelligent people are very often the ones who appear the most insecure. They'll often be called shy, even if shyness has nothing to do with it. They've learned to hold themselves back from a society full of aggressive idiots.
And so you keep going after the aggressive idiots, the ones who are proud of their own gluttony and therefore appear "confident" to you, and then you come back later with your horror stories of what selfish jerks they "turned out to be". And you go around crying about why can't you find any "sensitive, caring" guys.
Well the sensitive ones are the intelligent ones, more often than not the quiet ones, and very often the ones you perceive as insecure, and therefore unattractive in your eyes.
Stupidity, aggression, and loudness, go together, and they pass themselves off as confidence.
Wow...
I counted at least 5 sweeping generalisations in that post.
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venusenvy: Yabut Oprah is hardly 700 some odd pounds either...
I didn't know there was a number on the weight. I guess the word obese means numbers way up on the scale. My mistake..
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Bodecia: Morning, Monts..
Hope you are ok; saw your apology thread yesterday, but dont know what it was all about as not been around.
However, knowing you as I do, I dont think you would ever be intentionally rude to anyone.
Hope you are ok; saw your apology thread yesterday, but dont know what it was all about as not been around.
However, knowing you as I do, I dont think you would ever be intentionally rude to anyone.
You have mail...in a minute.
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leigh2154: And there you have it folks...
Overweight wouldn't bother me at all. Obesity, is a BIG turnoff.
I realize some people have health problems that keep them from loosing weight and therefore are overweight, but there is no excuse for obesity.
That CAN be prevented. No I would not go out with an obese person.
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outdoorgirlsun: Overweight wouldn't bother me at all. Obesity, is a BIG turnoff.
I realize some people have health problems that keep them from loosing weight and therefore are overweight, but there is no excuse for obesity.
That CAN be prevented. No I would not go out with an obese person.
I realize some people have health problems that keep them from loosing weight and therefore are overweight, but there is no excuse for obesity.
That CAN be prevented. No I would not go out with an obese person.
Good morning!....I have dated a few men who some "might" consider obese...They were wonderful men and my experiences(s) with them were positive...I would not use weight as criteria for deciding who to date or not date.....
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leigh2154: Good morning!....I have dated a few men who some "might" consider obese...They were wonderful men and my experiences(s) with them were positive...I would not use weight as criteria for deciding who to date or not date.....
I'm thinking you and I have a different opinion on Obese, that's all.
I've dated men quite a bit overweight. But to me Obese is way out there.
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outdoorgirlsun: I'm thinking you and I have a different opinion on Obese, that's all.
I've dated men quite a bit overweight. But to me Obese is way out there.
I've dated men quite a bit overweight. But to me Obese is way out there.
No, I understand where you are coming from....Here's the thing, although "obesity" would not be a "criteria" from me, having common interests, values, goals, etc, would be...Morbid obesity would directly affect these things, so it would indirectly affect my choice to date or not date...See what I mean??
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outdoorgirlsun: Overweight wouldn't bother me at all. Obesity, is a BIG turnoff.
I realize some people have health problems that keep them from loosing weight and therefore are overweight, but there is no excuse for obesity.
That CAN be prevented. No I would not go out with an obese person.
I realize some people have health problems that keep them from loosing weight and therefore are overweight, but there is no excuse for obesity.
That CAN be prevented. No I would not go out with an obese person.
I agree with you, as regards the difference between overweight and obese.
Weight doesnt bother me either, but someone who is clinically/morbidly obese for any reason other than an unavoidable health issue is a No-Go. Not because so much of the way they look, but because their obesity would mean they are putting their life at risk, and therefore those of others close to them. A morbidly obese man, for instance, may not live to see their children grow up, and therefore would not be an attractive proposition as regards starting a family with. Or a morbidly obese woman many not be able to have children due to the dangers to her health through pregnancy, so ditto...
Even here in Health Insured America, gastric band operations are affordable sometimes, so there is really no excuse for dangerous obesity, and it could be construed as being extremely selfish to allow oneself to get to that point.
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Obese is a complete non-starter.
As for overweight, she'd have to score well in all the other areas, very well.
As for overweight, she'd have to score well in all the other areas, very well.
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fieldworking: I created this poll because of an article I read about this 728 lb woman that is trying to gain 100 lbs./yr. until she reaches 1600 lbs. She is a plus size model in Arizona.
I always use weight as a criteria to date.......If they can`t wait I will not date....
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Alright! It's a date!! Woo, hoo! 
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