With my kids' mom, I was actually glad she had found someone, everyone has the right to happiness. As for the other women in my past I care about their relationships as much as my first pair of socks.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Mermaidon: With my kids' mom, I was actually glad she had found someone, everyone has the right to happiness. As for the other women in my past I care about their relationships as much as my first pair of socks.
It was many years ago (the break up), and amicable. We were married very young and just grew up into different people. The children were grown up and we decided to have new lives. of course it was difficult after so many years together, and we are genuinely fond of each other, but she had a flowering career she wanted to follow, and so did I. We handles our divorce without the aid of solicitors(apart from the legalities) and agreed on who would get what. Unlike some disaster areas amongst our friends.
tomcatwarne: It was many years ago (the break up), and amicable. We were married very young and just grew up into different people. The children were grown up and we decided to have new lives. of course it was difficult after so many years together, and we are genuinely fond of each other, but she had a flowering career she wanted to follow, and so did I. We handles our divorce without the aid of solicitors(apart from the legalities) and agreed on who would get what. Unlike some disaster areas amongst our friends.
So what is your reaction when you know she's dating someone else?
The13thWarriorMelksham, Wiltshire, England UK1,707 posts
chocolateflavour: Just for fun :-)
Since 'ex' refers to past tense. It's not really any of my business if she's dating, or not. Though we 'are' still friends and i'd like her to be happy. So if the right one comes along for her i'll be glad.
None of the above. Having a partner you can live with in harmony is probably one of the better things in life. So I wish this for them, just as I wish it for myself.
Referring to my last boyfriend, if I found out he was daing someone I would laugh to myself and think.....she'll learn what he's all about in due time.
To me its who cares. I have moved on and personally I am happy when I hear my ex has met someone new. What is the point of staying angry at them? To me, its just extra baggage to carry around. JMO
Now I don't care but before he cheated on me dating with other woman (and pregnant of his kid) that made me mad. Anyway, there was nothing I could do to stop my ex from dating another woman either ... yup!
Dec 22, 2011 11:15 AM CST When you know your ex is dating somebody else, what is your reaction?
amlakzebste.Emelie de l'Energie, Quebec Canada2 Posts
amlakzebste.Emelie de l'Energie, Quebec Canada2 posts
what difference does it make she is an EX,i might even be happy for her,if she was not happy with me maybe she will be happy with another.love is not about keeping someone but being good with them
I couldnt care less one way or another. I couldnt imagine him having an opinion if I was dating.Its our own business and ceased being each others business when we parted. The past is the past. You can never look forward if you cling to the past
I am happy for him, we never worked out and it was time to move on,my ex is with someone lovely and as long as she is ok with my child then im happy...
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