guysimple: We all know ladies are more sensitive and emotional than man but they recover faster than man from break - Up. Why so? do they pretend more than man?
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Women are always more easily moved to tears, it does not mean that they care more, just that they get something out of drama and wallowing.
Just see what women look for in a man - confidence, charisma, power, or in other words, they have absolutely no time and tolerance for the weak.
Obstinance_Works: Women are always more easily moved to tears, it does not mean that they care more, just that they get something out of drama and wallowing.
Just see what women look for in a man - confidence, charisma, power, or in other words, they have absolutely no time and tolerance for the weak.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
After thinking about this one, I think men recover although not quickly perhaps faster then women. But again it depends on the person and the circumstances. Men tend to be grief stricken for a while and do grieve the passing of a love, but most men accept the situation and go hunting.
guysimple: We all know ladies are more sensitive and emotional than man but they recover faster than man from break - Up. Why so? do they pretend more than man?
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I think it is usually the one who was more happy to see the breakup. It could be either man or woman.
Obstinance_Works: Women are always more easily moved to tears, it does not mean that they care more, just that they get something out of drama and wallowing.
Just see what women look for in a man - confidence, charisma, power, or in other words, they have absolutely no time and tolerance for the weak.
I am always amazed that you choose to speak on women when clearly your expertise should be about men (since you are one, aren't you?)
Obstinance_Works: Women are always more easily moved to tears, it does not mean that they care more, just that they get something out of drama and wallowing.
Just see what women look for in a man - confidence, charisma, power, or in other words, they have absolutely no time and tolerance for the weak.
You have a point there however, while they want a leader and a warrior to fight their battles they still want their warrior to show compassion to them. I think women today are becoming a lot tougher and they want to hear themselves roar because they are tired of men and tired of being victimized by them. Yet foolishly they set themselves up for it. Many are drama queens but they like it and it's their way sometimes to manipulate men to get what they want. A man is to be wise enough to know the difference. Men likewise are not without drama. Yet if you want them to have their way with you you have to bend for them to get the prize.
tomcatwarne: After thinking about this one, I think men recover although not quickly perhaps faster then women. But again it depends on the person and the circumstances. Men tend to be grief stricken for a while and do grieve the passing of a love, but most men accept the situation and go hunting.
There have been a few studies that suggest that men don't develop the same social support network over the years that women do. So most times when a man becomes a widow, he loses his best friend, and his love, without anyone to understand his loss. He must then go out into the world to establish new ones. Whereas most women have a support system already and when they become widows there is help and comfort to share their grief.
That being said - there are so many types and kinds of love in so many degrees and intensities that each individual (man or female) feel it uniquely - where one way is not greater or less than another.
tomcatwarne: After thinking about this one, I think men recover although not quickly perhaps faster then women. But again it depends on the person and the circumstances. Men tend to be grief stricken for a while and do grieve the passing of a love, but most men accept the situation and go hunting.
or fishing/true,but a song ,etc.can trigger,old feelings for old love,men are expected,to not show feelings/young,u fall n hurt urself,dont cry get up,a girl will get more nurture/venus n mars.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
JeanKimberley: There have been a few studies that suggest that men don't develop the same social support network over the years that women do. So most times when a man becomes a widow, he loses his best friend, and his love, without anyone to understand his loss. He must then go out into the world to establish new ones. Whereas most women have a support system already and when they become widows there is help and comfort to share their grief.
That being said - there are so many types and kinds of love in so many degrees and intensities that each individual (man or female) feel it uniquely - where one way is not greater or less than another.
I see your point Jean I am glad women have this sort of support in times of stress, men to have to strike out on their own, I am just suggesting for this very reasons men strive to form new relationships. But the question is unanswerable in a way because of the many variables that exist in real life. It's one of those questions where there is no universally right answer and many which could be right.JMO
tomcatwarne: I see your point Jean I am glad women have this sort of support in times of stress, men to have to strike out on their own, I am just suggesting for this very reasons men strive to form new relationships. But the question is unanswerable in a way because of the many variables that exist in real life. It's one of those questions where there is no universally right answer and many which could be right.JMO
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
reb56: or fishing/true,but a song ,etc.can trigger,old feelings for old love,men are expected,to not show feelings/young,u fall n hurt urself,dont cry get up,a girl will get more nurture/venus n mars.
Yes men are trained to keep a stiff upper lip, I was but I've cracked it now my last g/f got fed up with tears rolling down my cheeks at every opportunity. I can cry with the best of them but had to stop when me mates began to look at me a bit strange. Yeh I know what you mean about the odd twinge when something reminds me.
JeanKimberley: I am always amazed that you choose to speak on women when clearly your expertise should be about men (since you are one, aren't you?)
No, it's just illustrative that we're less egotistical. Men generally don't find themselves fascinating and aside from that we're more shallow and transparent, it doesn't take that much to figure out men so long as you have the instincts above the level of a bird sitting in the middle of the road.
tomcatwarne: Yes men are trained to keep a stiff upper lip, I was but I've cracked it now my last g/f got fed up with tears rolling down my cheeks at every opportunity. I can cry with the best of them but had to stop when me mates began to look at me a bit strange. Yeh I know what you mean about the odd twinge when something reminds me.
yes,ive noticed it,also./age 57 now,1st wife passed in 2010,a old song came on,a tear went down one side,been divorced for yrs.i,never went back,after trial period,after divorce,it was beatin a dead horse.
guysimple: We all know ladies are more sensitive and emotional than man but they recover faster than man from break - Up. Why so? do they pretend more than man?
Write here your views. No fight please
Basically you can understand this by acknowledging that fact that whilst womens emotions are more impulsive and visible(therefore superficially stronger), they are also more fickle.
A woman's love is love itself, not the object of her love, it is a selfish love. Women rarely die on the battlefield, they seldomly have ever sacrificed themselves for their beliefs, they do not go down with the ship to save room on the lifeboats for men. A woman's duty is to love, and love is her desire. When the desire is gone, she can be as cold as if she had never known you. As cold as only sociopaths amongst men could ever be.
Obstinance_Works: Basically you can understand this by acknowledging that fact that whilst womens emotions are more impulsive and visible(therefore superficially stronger), they are also more fickle.
A woman's love is love itself, not the object of her love, it is a selfish love. Women rarely die on the battlefield, they seldomly have ever sacrificed themselves for their beliefs, they do not go down with the ship to save room on the lifeboats for men. A woman's duty is to love, and love is her desire. When the desire is gone, she can be as cold as if she had never known you. As cold as only sociopaths amongst men could ever be.
Obstinance_Works: Basically you can understand this by acknowledging that fact that whilst womens emotions are more impulsive and visible(therefore superficially stronger), they are also more fickle.
A woman's love is love itself, not the object of her love, it is a selfish love. Women rarely die on the battlefield, they seldomly have ever sacrificed themselves for their beliefs, they do not go down with the ship to save room on the lifeboats for men. A woman's duty is to love, and love is her desire. When the desire is gone, she can be as cold as if she had never known you. As cold as only sociopaths amongst men could ever be.
been there/cold as ice,give me three steps/wont see me no more.
most men move on quicker i think , alot of men just cant seem to appreciate their own space n feel they have to be with someone to be complete , where as women dont , i for one love my own space after a break up means i dont bring baggage into new relationship . everythings ends its just the way you handle it , u can either go about whinging and feeling sorry for yourself or you can just go and have fun , enjoy life and forget it ever happened .
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
jaynemx: most men move on quicker i think , alot of men just cant seem to appreciate their own space n feel they have to be with someone to be complete , where as women dont , i for one love my own space after a break up means i dont bring baggage into new relationship . everythings ends its just the way you handle it , u can either go about whinging and feeling sorry for yourself or you can just go and have fun , enjoy life and forget it ever happened .
There are as many different answers to this question as there are different people, it's like saying howlong is a piece of string, there are so many variables any one of the answers here could be right .
Obstinance_Works: Women are always more easily moved to tears, it does not mean that they care more, just that they get something out of drama and wallowing.
Just see what women look for in a man - confidence, charisma, power, or in other words, they have absolutely no time and tolerance for the weak.
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