Is love real ? ( Archived) (56)

Feb 22, 2015 11:31 PM CSTIs love real ?
Tokin_jo
Tokin_joTokin_jomebane, North Carolina, USA1 Threads 1 Polls

Is love real ?(Vote Below)

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only GOD Knows'
5
8%
if so why are there so many divorces
2
3%
if so why in this day & age is it so hard to find
5
8%
if so why are there so many family problems
3
5%
True love isn't all about s*x
22
37%
it's about loving & forgiving
10
17%
so where hs the human race gone wrong
4
7%
We've Turned From GOD
7
12%
my fiance has stopped loving me
2
3%
Total Votes
60
Heart broken, frustraighted
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Feb 23, 2015 2:25 AM CST Is love real ?
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
...and it's about loving and forgiving comes in secondwink
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Feb 23, 2015 2:33 AM CST Is love real ?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
What GOD has to do with LOVE???

doh doh doh
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Feb 23, 2015 3:51 AM CST Is love real ?
RainComeShine
RainComeShineRainComeShineDevon, England UK22 Threads 22 Polls 425 Posts
I feel sorry for the people in relationships where only one of them is truly in love.

This is a time to take up new hobbies and try not to dwell on your loss. hug It may take a while but you will survive! teddybear
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Feb 23, 2015 4:04 AM CST Is love real ?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
RainComeShine: I feel sorry for the people in relationships where only one of them is truly in love.

This is a time to take up new hobbies and try not to dwell on your loss. It may take a while but you will survive!


Like Tree leaning.::comfort:
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Feb 23, 2015 4:07 AM CST Is love real ?
niceman786
niceman786niceman786lahore, Punjab Pakistan20 Threads 932 Posts
sophiasummer: Like Tree leaning.::comfort:
handshake coffee i respect u
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Feb 23, 2015 5:01 AM CST Is love real ?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
Tokin_jo: Heart broken, frustraighted


Sad to hear that your heart is broken. In the words of an ancient sage "this too shall pass"......

I can tell you that yes, love is real, but let's distinguish the loves.....

There is love.... of things rather than people.
There is love.... of self more than of others.
there is love.... of power over others.
There is love.... of all sorts of things.
There is love.... of families that is different to the love for a spouse.
There is love.... of children that is different to that of a spouse.
There is love.... that transcends understanding...

How is this for a very small list of the different loves that people have?

Each of these "loves" is real. But the love that you seek will always be dependent on you.

When we put our hearts into the hands of another, we have to trust them, and from time to time, we get that love bruised, broken, healed, bruised again, etc.

But I am here to encourage you to realise that to risk is to live. To not risk is to be dead inside.

Give yourself time to heal the broken heart you have now. It will heal, and you will find yourself a different person when it does.

But this different person can find real love again. I know because I was like you with a broken heart, and now my heart is full with the love I give and the love I receive.

To be encouraged, ride out this hard time, knowing that "this too will pass".....

Cheers,
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Feb 23, 2015 6:11 AM CST Is love real ?
basak
basakbasakGravesend, Kent, England UK1 Threads 10 Posts
love is means you have filling for some things we would like to have, but loving woman is like oxygen you can live with out makes you fill like banana of course if she fills same for you LOL hug kiss
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Feb 23, 2015 12:01 PM CST Is love real ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
From a quote I found.


Real love is based on respect, compromise, care and trust.
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Feb 23, 2015 12:06 PM CST Is love real ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Tokin_jo: Heart broken, frustraighted


Soz sad flower
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Feb 23, 2015 12:07 PM CST Is love real ?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Ccincy: From a quote I found.Real love is based on respect, compromise, care and trust.


That covers the love I have had for no-one else but my kids.
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Feb 23, 2015 12:13 PM CST Is love real ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Tokin_jo: Heart broken, frustraighted





Aww that is to bad.So sorry to hear that.comfort
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Feb 23, 2015 3:49 PM CST Is love real ?
Tokin_jo: Heart broken, frustraighted

Bunch of chemicals, really.
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Feb 23, 2015 3:58 PM CST Is love real ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Unconditional love for children,,,,

Sometimes I think we are only in love with our own idea of love when it comes to romantic love,
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Feb 23, 2015 8:50 PM CST Is love real ?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
Tokin_jo: Heart broken, frustraighted


CPU usage went through the roof. confusedThere are too many people on this earth. We need a new plague.professor
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Feb 24, 2015 4:10 AM CST Is love real ?
mastering
masteringmasteringst just & le bezu, Occitanie France1 Posts
peachmelba: Unconditional love for children,,,,

Sometimes I think we are only in love with our own idea of love when it comes to romantic love,


Unconditional love is a condition as well. no matter what my children do I will always love them, the condition is that they are my children.

Indeed my personal idea of what love is. Unconditional love for a partner is surrounded by the fact that there are unspoken conditions of behaviours. no matter how much freedom the couple gives to each other.

Romantic love another dimension of experiencing love between 2 people, a much needed "feeling good" to counter act on all the stress hormones that happen in daily life.

I share my personal opinion and do not want to preach what love is, the truth is that I am still searching into the depth of Self worth and all you the people I meet are my teachers toward true love.

thank you all
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Feb 24, 2015 4:16 AM CST Is love real ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
mastering: Unconditional love is a condition as well. no matter what my children do I will always love them, the condition is that they are my children.

Indeed my personal idea of what love is. Unconditional love for a partner is surrounded by the fact that there are unspoken conditions of behaviours. no matter how much freedom the couple gives to each other


It is, therefore, conditional.

Welcome to the forums cswelcome wave
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Feb 24, 2015 4:54 AM CST Is love real ?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Yes it is.

It can go away though.
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Feb 24, 2015 6:31 AM CST Is love real ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
If my man didnt ship shape and keep himself in check in all matters and that includes a walk around the block with dog or some kind of movement on him that wasn't to just roll around the house when he considers that an energetic day I'd blow up his tv and possibly him too,


laugh
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Feb 27, 2015 2:11 PM CST Is love real ?
Yeah..in dreams
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Mar 4, 2015 2:45 AM CST Is love real ?
love is rare to find , it is like precious stone like diamond wich are very hard to find , diamond never stop shining never get old and pale its stay as brand new so as love , but u hv to know it is love u in or just infatuation , infatuation fades by time, love does'nt , yes love is real n hard to find.
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Apr 16, 2015 9:26 AM CST Is love real ?
Piyar
PiyarPiyarBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1 Posts
Tokin_jo: Heart broken, frustraighted

I understand your feeling very well coz I'm in the same situation with you now. It's not easy to move on but I know some think real that is I still have the person who are really love me , I still have my family
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Apr 16, 2015 9:46 AM CST Is love real ?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
Tokin_jo: Heart broken, frustraighted




"Love"

Love is real , real is love
Love is feeling , feeling love
Love is wanting to be loved

Love is touch, touch is love
Love is reaching, reaching love
Love is asking to be loved

Love is you
You and me
Love is knowing
we can be

Love is free, free is love
Love is living, living love
Love is needed to be loved
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Apr 16, 2015 10:46 AM CST Is love real ?
Tokin_jo: Heart broken, frustraighted

There are many types of love. Yes Love is real. Passionate, romantic, spiritual. A very great love is one between family, good friends. Not getting our heart broken, is cool, thus also a lesson we probably have all had to deal with in one form or another. As we as human get older. We learn to not continue with choices we have noticed cause heart ache. PEACE HH
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Apr 17, 2015 2:41 PM CST Is love real ?
SandraYelitzza2
SandraYelitzza2SandraYelitzza2Midlothian, Texas USA23 Threads 449 Posts
Tokin_jo: Heart broken, frustraighted

The answer is "NO" (Love) is just a fallacy created by human beings, we weren't meant to love professor We are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth. And none of ur options answer ur question, there is no "Yes or No, or Maybe, etc..." answers to pick from doh
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Apr 18, 2015 5:37 AM CST Is love real ?
DonPepperoni
DonPepperoniDonPepperoniMálaga, Andalusia Spain42 Threads 1 Polls 552 Posts
SandraYelitzza2: The answer is "NO" (Love) is just a fallacy created by human beings, we weren't meant to love We are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth. And none of ur options answer ur question, there is no "Yes or No, or Maybe, etc..." answers to pick from

You may be evil and corrupted and slightly dramatic...ok over the top dramatic but I´m a sublime creature
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Apr 18, 2015 5:56 AM CST Is love real ?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
SandraYelitzza2: The answer is "NO" (Love) is just a fallacy created by human beings, we weren't meant to love We are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth. And none of ur options answer ur question, there is no "Yes or No, or Maybe, etc..." answers to pick from


Heart broken, frustrated ,, "WE" are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth ,, no exeption? generalisation is not rational, painful when when we hammer the nail deeper.doh
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Apr 18, 2015 6:03 AM CST Is love real ?
DonPepperoni
DonPepperoniDonPepperoniMálaga, Andalusia Spain42 Threads 1 Polls 552 Posts
Lolette: Heart broken, frustrated ,, "WE" are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth ,, no exeption? generalisation is not rational, painful when when we hammer the nail deeper.

I like the way you write, as if those wise words have come from the mouth of Yoda from Star Warscheering
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Apr 18, 2015 6:12 AM CST Is love real ?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
DonPepperoni: I like the way you write, as if those wise words have come from the mouth of Yoda from Star Wars




far galaxy, budget, marketing,, all is there,, and of course H. Ford,,grin you sounded all at once serious,,laugh thumbs up
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Apr 18, 2015 6:18 AM CST Is love real ?
DonPepperoni
DonPepperoniDonPepperoniMálaga, Andalusia Spain42 Threads 1 Polls 552 Posts
Lolette: far galaxy, budget, marketing,, all is there,, and of course H. Ford,, you sounded all at once serious,,

Sshhhhhh...don´t tell anyonegiggle
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Apr 18, 2015 6:32 AM CST Is love real ?
BigBamaQ
BigBamaQBigBamaQBirmingham, Alabama USA2 Threads 47 Posts
Love is chemical reactions on brain much like eating large quantities of chocolate. Its a function of human evolution.
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