Sad to hear that your heart is broken. In the words of an ancient sage "this too shall pass"......
I can tell you that yes, love is real, but let's distinguish the loves.....
There is love.... of things rather than people. There is love.... of self more than of others. there is love.... of power over others. There is love.... of all sorts of things. There is love.... of families that is different to the love for a spouse. There is love.... of children that is different to that of a spouse. There is love.... that transcends understanding...
How is this for a very small list of the different loves that people have?
Each of these "loves" is real. But the love that you seek will always be dependent on you.
When we put our hearts into the hands of another, we have to trust them, and from time to time, we get that love bruised, broken, healed, bruised again, etc.
But I am here to encourage you to realise that to risk is to live. To not risk is to be dead inside.
Give yourself time to heal the broken heart you have now. It will heal, and you will find yourself a different person when it does.
But this different person can find real love again. I know because I was like you with a broken heart, and now my heart is full with the love I give and the love I receive.
To be encouraged, ride out this hard time, knowing that "this too will pass".....
love is means you have filling for some things we would like to have, but loving woman is like oxygen you can live with out makes you fill like of course if she fills same for you LOL
masteringst just & le bezu, Occitanie France1 Posts
masteringst just & le bezu, Occitanie France1 posts
peachmelba: Unconditional love for children,,,,
Sometimes I think we are only in love with our own idea of love when it comes to romantic love,
Unconditional love is a condition as well. no matter what my children do I will always love them, the condition is that they are my children.
Indeed my personal idea of what love is. Unconditional love for a partner is surrounded by the fact that there are unspoken conditions of behaviours. no matter how much freedom the couple gives to each other.
Romantic love another dimension of experiencing love between 2 people, a much needed "feeling good" to counter act on all the stress hormones that happen in daily life.
I share my personal opinion and do not want to preach what love is, the truth is that I am still searching into the depth of Self worth and all you the people I meet are my teachers toward true love.
mastering: Unconditional love is a condition as well. no matter what my children do I will always love them, the condition is that they are my children.
Indeed my personal idea of what love is. Unconditional love for a partner is surrounded by the fact that there are unspoken conditions of behaviours. no matter how much freedom the couple gives to each other
If my man didnt ship shape and keep himself in check in all matters and that includes a walk around the block with dog or some kind of movement on him that wasn't to just roll around the house when he considers that an energetic day I'd blow up his tv and possibly him too,
love is rare to find , it is like precious stone like diamond wich are very hard to find , diamond never stop shining never get old and pale its stay as brand new so as love , but u hv to know it is love u in or just infatuation , infatuation fades by time, love does'nt , yes love is real n hard to find.
I understand your feeling very well coz I'm in the same situation with you now. It's not easy to move on but I know some think real that is I still have the person who are really love me , I still have my family
There are many types of love. Yes Love is real. Passionate, romantic, spiritual. A very great love is one between family, good friends. Not getting our heart broken, is cool, thus also a lesson we probably have all had to deal with in one form or another. As we as human get older. We learn to not continue with choices we have noticed cause heart ache. PEACE HH
The answer is "NO" (Love) is just a fallacy created by human beings, we weren't meant to love We are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth. And none of ur options answer ur question, there is no "Yes or No, or Maybe, etc..." answers to pick from
SandraYelitzza2: The answer is "NO" (Love) is just a fallacy created by human beings, we weren't meant to love We are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth. And none of ur options answer ur question, there is no "Yes or No, or Maybe, etc..." answers to pick from
You may be evil and corrupted and slightly dramatic...ok over the top dramatic but I´m a sublime creature
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
SandraYelitzza2: The answer is "NO" (Love) is just a fallacy created by human beings, we weren't meant to love We are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth. And none of ur options answer ur question, there is no "Yes or No, or Maybe, etc..." answers to pick from
Heart broken, frustrated ,, "WE" are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth ,, no exeption? generalisation is not rational, painful when when we hammer the nail deeper.
Lolette: Heart broken, frustrated ,, "WE" are the most evil and corrupted specie on earth ,, no exeption? generalisation is not rational, painful when when we hammer the nail deeper.
I like the way you write, as if those wise words have come from the mouth of Yoda from Star Wars
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