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Mar 7, 2015 3:54 AM CSTHappiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts

Happiness is...................(Vote Below)

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a Hug from ur best friend
1
2%
a Kiss from ur boy/girl friend
2
4%
ur son/daughter getting high marks at college
1
2%
Cuddling ur cat
4
8%
a Promotion at work
1
2%
ur Broken car fixed
1
2%
winning the lotto
6
12%
a surprise present
1
2%
Love
16
32%
Lots more...
17
34%
Total Votes
50
Everybody always complains that they r not happy about something.

Well change it !!!

Cut out the bad thoughts and people from ur life.

Only mix with the people that make u happy.

Enjoy!!!
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Mar 7, 2015 6:46 AM CST Happiness is...................
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Just something I got off offline.Happiness is a sense of self-satisfaction and contentment.
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Mar 7, 2015 7:39 AM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Halv0: Good thought. But happiness is something that people choose. Most people in western societies are brainwashed into thinking that they will be happier if.....

Advertising is all about making one feel disgruntled with their lot in life. You will fee better, have more status, be happier if you buy this product, get a new car, live in a big flash house, etc.

Happiness is a mindset. It is available to all, but neglected by many who believe the advertising and media lies......

JMO


I also believe that it is a mindset, but so many people go out of their way to just cause trouble and unhappiness. I don't watch TV, so cannot be indoctrinated, hopefully.
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Mar 7, 2015 7:41 AM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Ccincy: Just something I got off offline.Happiness is a sense of self-satisfaction and contentment.


Hi CC, Yes we all wish for it 24/7, except don't get it that often 24/7.
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Mar 7, 2015 8:06 AM CST Happiness is...................
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
.. in short supply. So will all the happy people out there please kindly stop hoarding it all.
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Mar 7, 2015 8:11 AM CST Happiness is...................
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
I want to say a little prayer myself..
" please lord, can you stop boring people from breeding, we're getting overrun here" .
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Mar 7, 2015 8:56 AM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Obstinance_Works: .. in short supply. So will all the happy people out there please kindly stop hoarding it all.


LOL, U always come up with the best quotes.
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Mar 7, 2015 8:58 AM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
allthegoodnamest: I want to say a little prayer myself..
" please lord, can you stop boring people from breeding, we're getting overrun here" .


U r the kindest, happiest, most loved person on CS (Joke)
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Mar 7, 2015 9:05 AM CST Happiness is...................
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
Obstinance_Works: .. in short supply. So will all the happy people out there please kindly stop hoarding it all.
I'd drink to that thumbs up
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Mar 7, 2015 9:05 AM CST Happiness is...................
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
allthegoodnamest: I want to say a little prayer myself..
" please lord, can you stop boring people from breeding, we're getting overrun here" .


Unfortunately my Dad peaked too soon, so here I am. I know I can be really quite boring when I put my mind to it.
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Mar 7, 2015 9:07 AM CST Happiness is...................
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Brannigan70: I'd drink to that


cheers
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Mar 7, 2015 9:45 AM CST Happiness is...................
happiness comes from within...I think the closet I can describe is a realization that you can choose what you like and like to do w/out concern about what others think. Contentment with oneself & ability to accept others as they are.

A lot of discontent & disonance is created by a (bizarre) need to control, define, control others. Letting that go is the first step to happiness IMO
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Mar 7, 2015 10:16 AM CST Happiness is...................
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
It's a momentary state of mind, not to be confused with contentment. I think we all know those moments when we felt especially good about something like having achieved something, gotten praise, were crazy in love, won the lottery laugh, etc.

It's true that people complain about stuff, some more than others. I suppose complaining makes some people happy, otherwise they wouldn't do it laugh

I wouldn't say surround yourself with people that make you happy. That's perhaps unrealistic and impossible. If you can manage to surround yourself with people who don't make you miserable is more realistic laugh
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Mar 7, 2015 10:36 AM CST Happiness is...................
Nidifugous: It's a momentary state of mind, not to be confused with contentment. I think we all know those moments when we felt especially good about something like having achieved something, gotten praise, were crazy in love, won the lottery , etc.

It's true that people complain about stuff, some more than others. I suppose complaining makes some people happy, otherwise they wouldn't do it

I wouldn't say surround yourself with people that make you happy. That's perhaps unrealistic and impossible. If you can manage to surround yourself with people who don't make you miserable is more realistic


laugh sounds like a fair and realistic goal. To me contentment and happiness are very close cousins, I think both are required for wither state of being but that's just mehug
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Mar 7, 2015 10:36 AM CST Happiness is...................
felixis99: sounds like a fair and realistic goal. To me contentment and happiness are very close cousins, I think both are required for wither state of being but that's just me


that is supposed to say for either state of being
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Mar 7, 2015 1:06 PM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
felixis99: that is supposed to say for either state of being


Happiness is making peace with urself and never give up in ur search for total self control, thus whatever anyone says is disregarded, as it is detrimental to ur inner being of happiness.
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Mar 7, 2015 1:17 PM CST Happiness is...................
happiness is in SSRI'S
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Mar 7, 2015 1:25 PM CST Happiness is...................
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Happiness is being able to sleep in if you wish which I got to do.
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Mar 7, 2015 2:28 PM CST Happiness is...................
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
It depends on an understanding of the true meaning of happiness.

Authentic happiness is undisturbable contentment...and that's not a state of mind, it's a state of being.

"Like love,happiness takes different forms, the three main forms are best described as, contentment, joy and bliss.
Contentment is only possible when you are aware that everything in the world around you is exactly the way it's meant to be in this moment now and there is only this moment now.
Joy is only possible when your life energy flows out into the world, free of any desire for any part of the world to flow towards you.
Bliss is only possible when you are completely free. Freedom is only possible when there is no attachment to anything, anyone, any idea, any memory."


Mike George
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Mar 7, 2015 4:15 PM CST Happiness is...................
alanya1972
alanya1972alanya1972Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey22 Threads 322 Posts
morning smile of my niece and nephew. 5 month twins.
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Mar 8, 2015 7:40 AM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
bodleing2: It depends on an understanding of the true meaning of happiness.

Authentic happiness is undisturbable contentment...and that's not a state of mind, it's a state of being.

"Like love,happiness takes different forms, the three main forms are best described as, contentment, joy and bliss.
Contentment is only possible when you are aware that everything in the world around you is exactly the way it's meant to be in this moment now and there is only this moment now.
Joy is only possible when your life energy flows out into the world, free of any desire for any part of the world to flow towards you.
Bliss is only possible when you are completely free. Freedom is only possible when there is no attachment to anything, anyone, any idea, any memory."

Mike George


Thanx for the write-up. Beautiful and very informative !!!
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Mar 8, 2015 7:41 AM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
alanya1972: morning smile of my niece and nephew. 5 month twins.


I would love to see a pic?
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Mar 8, 2015 8:51 AM CST Happiness is...................
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Happiness is a state of mind,


To be rolling around in laughter often leaves us.
.

blues .


The hot air balloon filled with euphoria can t stay up there forever,


Anticlimax sets in.


rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 8, 2015 9:06 AM CST Happiness is...................
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Happygolucky4u: For me happiness is peace inside my being. I get that peace from acceptance, gratitude and perspective. Just the sheer motion of setting my feet on the floor to rise and shine for another day makes me delirious happy. Gratitude seen me thru the death of both me parents in less than a months time apart and my husbands death. One thing about life is something might make you sad and that is ok. But I am still happy to be here. Acceptance, life is just sometimes how it is suppose to be no matter what


Lawdy but you are such a sweetie... love your thoughts Happygirl. wave
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Mar 8, 2015 9:45 AM CST Happiness is...................
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Happiness depends on the person. There's a passive, life-denying and indifferent sort of happiness that you'd call contentment. And then there's the life-affirming happiness of achievement, the satisfaction and even ecstasy you get from triumph and overcoming resistance.

However, you these things are inter-woven. Some of the cool of contentment and indifference can be an essential part of getting laid, for example. You're still trying to achieve but achievement needs to be malleable in its tactics.
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Mar 8, 2015 9:57 AM CST Happiness is...................
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Happiness to me is knowing that the cold weather is gradually subsiding ans it is getting warmer out
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Mar 8, 2015 10:00 AM CST Happiness is...................
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Happiness depends on the person. There's a passive, life-denying and indifferent sort of happiness that you'd call contentment. And then there's the life-affirming happiness of achievement, the satisfaction and even ecstasy you get from triumph and overcoming resistance.

However, you these things are inter-woven. Some of the cool of contentment and indifference can be an essential part of getting laid, for example. You're still trying to achieve but achievement needs to be malleable in its tactics.


You can be happy by having aspirations and fulfill your life by trying to achieve these aspirations(having a mission). Or you can be content to have no aspiration(being a couch potato or some variant thereof). This is the basic choice that everyone has.

I expect the couch potato/contentment to gain much traction on here because CS itself is an escapism filled with the fear of life. CS naturally selects for life-deniers(which doesn't mean that we all are).
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Mar 8, 2015 10:12 AM CST Happiness is...................
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Obstinance_Works: You can be happy by having aspirations and fulfill your life by trying to achieve these aspirations(having a mission). Or you can be content to have no aspiration(being a couch potato or some variant thereof). This is the basic choice that everyone has.

I expect the couch potato/contentment to gain much traction on here because CS itself is an escapism filled with the fear of life. CS naturally selects for life-deniers(which doesn't mean that we all are).


Maybe I'm too harsh. What with 75% of the population being effectively serfs with no hope of being anything other than a serf it's perfectly understandable that people would turn a bit Buddhist-like(or at least adopt the superficial trappings of Buddhism). I can see why Buddhism holds great appeal to whites-westerners whom will assuredly never win at anything in life. It's a way of bowing out from the competition and pretending that you never even cared about success to begin with.
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Mar 8, 2015 10:17 AM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Obstinance_Works: You can be happy by having aspirations and fulfill your life by trying to achieve these aspirations(having a mission). Or you can be content to have no aspiration(being a couch potato or some variant thereof). This is the basic choice that everyone has.

I expect the couch potato/contentment to gain much traction on here because CS itself is an escapism filled with the fear of life. CS naturally selects for life-deniers(which doesn't mean that we all are).


I always have a goal in mind. CS to me is a place to meet friends all over the world, not escapism.
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Mar 8, 2015 10:18 AM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Happygolucky4u: For me happiness is peace inside my being. I get that peace from acceptance, gratitude and perspective. Just the sheer motion of setting my feet on the floor to rise and shine for another day makes me delirious happy. Gratitude seen me thru the death of both me parents in less than a months time apart and my husbands death. One thing about life is something might make you sad and that is ok. But I am still happy to be here. Acceptance, life is just sometimes how it is suppose to be no matter what


U have gone though a lot. I lost my mom and dad a while ago as well. Good Luck !!!
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Mar 8, 2015 10:19 AM CST Happiness is...................
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Stedan: HAPPINESS is........letting rip in the bath and watching the bubbles........


LOL
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