In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living? (56)

Feb 4, 2019 2:46 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK5,040 Posts
Most female employment exists on a spectrum between nursing and Harvey Weinsteins PA. Is there any merit in what she does? Did she make it on merit? Does her employment make the world a worse place? These are the questions that count.
Feb 4, 2019 9:10 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
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jono7online today!jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 9,244 Posts
galrads: Hey, Jono...

I’ve sometimes wondered what the disinterested think about my being retired and not wanting to work again.
hiya galrads wave

if i meet someone, male or female, who is retired....i ask them what they did before retirement.
it's pretty common in Canada to ask what a person works at. It's not about income. It's about learning about the other person.
if the person is retired, i ask them what they do now...what are they interested in?

i have not found anyone in real life who takes offense to this question.
sometimes folks will state a job they hate..even that is information because then i would ask what would they like to be doing.

personally... i think it's great you are retired and don't want to work again. what a great time of life for you to have the freedom to choose what you do. today is the day that counts.

wine
Feb 4, 2019 9:33 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
jono7: hiya galrads

if i meet someone, male or female, who is retired....i ask them what they did before retirement.
it's pretty common in Canada to ask what a person works at. It's not about income. It's about learning about the other person.
if the person is retired, i ask them what they do now...what are they interested in?

i have not found anyone in real life who takes offense to this question.
sometimes folks will state a job they hate..even that is information because then i would ask what would they like to be doing.

personally... i think it's great you are retired and don't want to work again. what a great time of life for you to have the freedom to choose what you do. today is the day that counts.
I hope you don't mind me jumping in here.

I think this illustrates the dufference in outlook even between sister countries. I lived in Canada and was amazed by the lack of class distinction, not lke the UK where the distinction is very markedbeer
Feb 4, 2019 10:06 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
of course, she has to be RICHflirty pointing like herlaugh
Feb 4, 2019 10:13 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
methuzelah: of course, she has to be RICH like her
or look like Venussmitten
Feb 4, 2019 10:19 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3 Threads 4,726 Posts
It is important of course...
You don't want to be marrying a hot stripper when you can marry average accountant...
Well, you want but you won't... laugh
Feb 4, 2019 10:21 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
and she has to have a perfect round buttlove
Feb 4, 2019 10:26 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
and small titssmitten
Feb 4, 2019 2:40 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
jono7online today!
jono7online today!jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 9,244 Posts
aries1234: I hope you don't mind me jumping in here.

I think this illustrates the dufference in outlook even between sister countries. I lived in Canada and was amazed by the lack of class distinction, not lke the UK where the distinction is very marked
hello Tcw, wave

don't mind at all, you are welcome to jump in.

...i don't know if you are giving cheers to the lack of class distinction, or the UK?


laugh

i'll drink to either....wine
Feb 6, 2019 6:35 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
pKrema: Working around what's best is a matter of understanding between the two in a couple...
We can share responsibility and tasks...and that's what's important...
It's not a competition, it's a team work...
I can give more of this but you can give more of that...balance...
What if she is pregnant? Should she stay at home, until the child is grown up? while the man goes off to work to bring home the bacon? Do you think pregnant women should be working? Is the unborn babies health at risk?
Feb 7, 2019 12:45 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
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Butinonline today!ButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK138 Posts
Yes. Always. Make. Sure. You treat. Her. To a nice. Thick. Coat. It's not. Fair. For. Her to. Stand. On. Street corners.........waiting. For. Clients. On. Cold. Nights. Like this........while you. Sit indoors. Watching. Football........and. Drinking. Beer..........head banger professor rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing scold angel laugh
Feb 7, 2019 5:00 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand2,109 Posts
I don't mind if a woman has a job. It does not deter me.

As long as she is willing to focus on being a housewife once she gets married.
Feb 7, 2019 5:15 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Butinonline today!
Butinonline today!ButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK138 Posts
charles_nz: I don't mind if a woman has a job. It does not deter me.

As long as she is willing to focus on being a housewife once she gets married.
...l was rather. Pleased.......when. I meet. My girlfriend?........lfound. Out. That she. And. Her dog. Both. Had. Worms.......as you can understand. If. You like .are a keen fisherman...........how handy. That. Can be...........professor rolling on the floor laughingrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ........
Mar 4, 2019 5:51 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Honi79B
Honi79BHoni79BBarcelona, Catalonia Spain3 Threads 1 Polls 42 Posts
LeeCharming: It's feminists brainwashing girls and women, telling them lies, using a feminist view on the world, that does not have any relation to reality...

universities are the worst place for young women to get educated,...the victimhood dogma is out of control, the man hate is out of control and it's sad to witness such a negative change..in the behaviours of many women...it's a clear agenda to destroy the family unit, trick women into being work slaves, keep wages down...increase debt...cause they know many women like to spend and that's why adverts are directed towards women mostly

The way I see it...feminism will fail and women will once again welcome a solid marriage, a loving husband, father to their children and beautiful home to take care of...while the good man goes out to earn the bacon...trust me the way things are going...money will run out...unless sanity wins the day
Mar 4, 2019 6:01 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Honi79B
Honi79BHoni79BBarcelona, Catalonia Spain3 Threads 1 Polls 42 Posts
My God is crazy at this era someone think a women need a solid man to put bread on table. Noooo!!!!! some of us need a loving one, emotionally stable to support each other dreams. I wouldnt give up my career for only children bringing my job is important not only for economic reasons but fuifillment like a person who like to contribute in a society that she lives and form part.
I need not be offensive but i didnt expect someone in advanced country to waste words this way ..... shame shame ..
Women has come from so far ... some even lost live to get us here. RESPECT
Mar 4, 2019 8:43 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
In fact the answer is NO!
BUT IT SHOULD BE IMPORTANT ESPECIALLY FOR WESTERN MEN
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Mar 4, 2019 4:18 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
No 22
Yes 7
My polls are revealing, what I thought they would
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Mar 4, 2019 5:04 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
I don't care if she has a job, as long it's not prostitution, porno-actress, stripper etc. etc. etc.
Mar 4, 2019 5:33 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
PeKaatje: I don't care if she has a job, as long it's not prostitution, porno-actress, stripper etc. etc. etc.
would you date a police woman, a politician, a feministdunno grin
Mar 4, 2019 5:51 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Honi79B: My God is crazy at this era someone think a women need a solid man to put bread on table. Noooo!!!!! some of us need a loving one, emotionally stable to support each other dreams. I wouldnt give up my career for only children bringing my job is important not only for economic reasons but fuifillment like a person who like to contribute in a society that she lives and form part.
I need not be offensive but i didnt expect someone in advanced country to waste words this way ..... shame shame ..
Women has come from so far ... some even lost live to get us here. RESPECT
I rarely waste words on serious subjects and I have talked about traditional women for a very long time, cause I think a woman is truly empowered, when she is a homemaker, a stay at home mother bringing up her children and teaching them right from wrong, good from bad...while her man is out earning a living for the family...

women slaving away in a crappy job, spending very little time with their children and husband...can't be a healthy way to live and not a happy one either....

Nothing will ever be better, than traditionalism and the feminist agenda has been to destroy the family unit for at least half a century..

when feminism is dead and women are free from the indoctrination, then they will return to their traditional roles and wonder, why they ever wanted anything elseprofessor
Mar 4, 2019 5:52 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand2,109 Posts
LeeCharming: I rarely waste words on serious subjects and I have talked about traditional women for a very long time, cause I think a woman is truly empowered, when she is a homemaker, a stay at home mother bringing up her children and teaching them right from wrong, good from bad...while her man is out earning a living for the family...

women slaving away in a crappy job, spending very little time with their children and husband...can't be a healthy way to live and not a happy one either....

Nothing will ever be better, than traditionalism and the feminist agenda has been to destroy the family unit for at least half a century..

when feminism is dead and women are free from the indoctrination, then they will return to their traditional roles and wonder, why they ever wanted anything else
Agreed 100%
Mar 4, 2019 5:54 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
charles_nz: Agreed 100%
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Mar 13, 2019 4:56 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
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Track16online today!Track16Little Hearts Ease, Newfoundland Canada692 Threads 8,248 Posts
I don't do anything for a living so why would I care what if anything she done?
Mar 14, 2019 6:24 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand2,109 Posts
Track16: I don't do anything for a living so why would I care what if anything she done?
I thought you smoke dope for a living?
Mar 14, 2019 6:48 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Well, you haven't met this woman. What do I do all day, now that I'm retired? Or when I had kids, I did all the work, cut the grass, trim the trees, fixed the plumbing, restored old houses, cooked, cleaned, did the sewing, painted/wall papered, repaired things, entertained he and the kids friends, gardened, canned what I grew, took care of the animals, and more! When my hubby got home, all he had to do was take out the trash, if asked, (rarely) and pop a beer and cook on the grill! Who had time for soap operas and bon-bons? Wait! I still do those things, even with no husband and kids any more! I hope, when I am 90+ I will have a chance to do the things I would like to do. daydream
Mar 14, 2019 6:49 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Oh, one more thing, I also brought money into the home, sometimes working three jobs, (when the kids were in high school), the year he decided to stay home and drink!beer
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