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Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)? (100)

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#21
Apr 28, 2022 2:33 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Bid64online today!
Bid64online today!Bid64Waterford, Ireland7 Threads 5,465 Posts
Bid64Waterford, Ireland5,465 posts
Name_Taken_Two: Nice one, sure I've pics to prove it you know the craic..
laugh cheers
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#22
Apr 28, 2022 2:37 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
jac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK5,363 posts
Didi7: Yes, you are right Jac. I was referring to white boys chatting with black girls in a similar manner to what SecretAgent has described.
It's all part of the privilege hierarchy, eh?
Didi7: Nice...you may be one of the fortunate few, I think:-)
Yes, it has it advantages.

I think my mistake has often been the assumption people who don't have white, male privilege will understand something of the challenges/privileges of my 'place' in the hierarchy, but not everyone is that self-, or other-aware.

I don't see how any of us can learn and grow, can empower ourselves by eradicating our challenges and privileges (because both are self-destructive), unless we pick this stuff apart and reconstruct ourselves.

If we can't learn and grow together in an equally balanced relationship, it's not going to be healthy. dunno
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#23
Apr 28, 2022 2:43 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Track16online now!
Track16online now!Track16Eastern, Newfoundland Canada1,006 Threads 11,196 Posts
Track16Eastern, Newfoundland Canada11,196 posts
I never had the opportunity but I would.
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#24
Apr 28, 2022 3:30 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
irish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland6,274 posts
Name_Taken_Two: My Jamaican girlfriend used to ask me when I was giving her pleasure "Hey Irish!" she called me Irish "Do I taste sweeter than those while gals?" I remember the accent as I type , I would say "yes dear." but she never did, she was sweet but I think all women are sweet..
rolling on the floor laughing
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#25
Apr 28, 2022 3:31 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
irish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland6,274 posts
No I haven't but I heard there are diferences in a good way blushing
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#26
Apr 28, 2022 3:49 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Mrroscoe03online today!
Mrroscoe03online today!Mrroscoe03Jerome, Florida USA5 Threads 10,256 Posts
Mrroscoe03Jerome, Florida USA10,256 posts
Another DH saga. roll eyes ..
There was a so so 1st " date". She didn't feel good, but wanted to meet up again. I thought ok, she deserves another chance. I made the about 50 mile trip to Providence & she.never showed up or called or texted.

I'm not sure how much, if any had to do with race... Buts that's my only experience.
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#27
Apr 28, 2022 7:06 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
Mrroscoe03: Another DH saga. ..
There was a so so 1st " date". She didn't feel good, but wanted to meet up again. I thought ok, she deserves another chance. I made the about 50 mile trip to Providence & she.never showed up or called or texted.

I'm not sure how much, if any had to do with race... Buts that's my only experience.
Thanks for sharing Mthumbs up
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#28
Apr 28, 2022 7:10 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
Name_Taken_Two: My Jamaican girlfriend used to ask me when I was giving her pleasure "Hey Irish!" she called me Irish "Do I taste sweeter than those while gals?" I remember the accent as I type , I would say "yes dear." but she never did, she was sweet but I think all women are sweet..
You're a wise man Dino...wink thumbs up applause
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#29
Apr 28, 2022 7:15 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,444 Posts
Miss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK2,444 posts
Name_Taken_Two: 'Tis a mans world after all..
You keep thinking that mate and dragging on that toke grin How boring.............rolling on the floor laughing

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#30
Apr 28, 2022 8:34 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,444 Posts
Miss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK2,444 posts
secretagent09: Up to the age of 20 I lived in a black neighborhood with my parents. We were the only white family in that neighborhood. We got along well with the neighbors and I walked to school with a black girl. One day I was sitting on the steps talking to a neighbor across the street. I guess I was around 10 or 12 years old. The man was probably 10 years older. We just talked and laughed. We were in perfect view of everybody. When I walked across the street to go home as I got inside my house my father took a belt to me and beat me so badly that I was hanging onto my dresser. He was furious that I was sitting with a black man......a man from the neighborhood....a man that he waved too and chatted with sometimes.

As I grew up to adulthood it never entered my mind to date a black man.
Sending you lots of love heart beating bouquet teddybear
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#31
Apr 29, 2022 1:23 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
Name_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland2,322 posts
Didi7: You're a wise man Dino...
grin tip hat
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#32
Apr 29, 2022 2:49 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,479 Posts
Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20,479 posts
No I haven't but in saying that the colour of someones skin wouldn't bother as we all bleed red
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#33
Apr 29, 2022 3:01 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
YoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK3,523 posts
Mercedes_00: No I haven't but in saying that the colour of someones skin wouldn't bother as we all bleed red
Who mentioned colour ?
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#34
Apr 29, 2022 3:08 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,479 Posts
Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20,479 posts
Youcannow: Who mentioned colour ?
I thought I saw the OP mention colour to another member..If I'm wrong so be it as I'm sure the OP can tell me if I had it wrong..If I'm wrong I will still live to see another day
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#35
Apr 29, 2022 3:13 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
YoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK3,523 posts
Mercedes_00: I thought I saw the OP mention colour to another member..If I'm wrong so be it as I'm sure the OP can tell me if I had it wrong..If I'm wrong I will still live to see another day
I don’t see colour mentioned in the title .
Race doesn’t mean colour , it means someone from another culture or country . Ie Spanish, Russian , African, Indian etc .
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#36
Apr 29, 2022 3:19 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 posts
I've had some very fiery, very passionate, very intense relationships with latina women - but now I'd quite like a normal one.
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#37
Apr 29, 2022 3:25 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,479 Posts
Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20,479 posts
Youcannow: I don’t see colour mentioned in the title .
Race doesn’t mean colour , it means someone from another culture or country . Ie Spanish, Russian , African, Indian etc .
I'm sure I saw a post where the OP was talking to a member about colour

If I'm wrong that's ok because I'm on a free forum..I'm not in bloody 10 Downing Street
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#38
Apr 29, 2022 3:31 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
YoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK3,523 posts
Mercedes_00: I'm sure I saw a post where the OP was talking to a member about colour

If I'm wrong that's ok because I'm on a free forum..I'm not in bloody 10 Downing Street
I will ask for an official enquiry into your comment & if found guilty, will be sentenced to a passionate night at no 10 with Boris Johnson.
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#39
Apr 29, 2022 3:35 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
DedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia5,492 posts
Didi7: Sorry, yes I did miss that word.
the humorous aspect of my posts went straight over your head...okay maybe next time uh oh
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#40
Apr 29, 2022 3:42 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 posts
And I do mean normal as in happy medium. Date a girl from the middle east and it's all shall she sit here, shall she sit there, do I look ok? Do I sound ok? Please tell me how to think and how to feel. In stark contrast to the latin woman who makes you feel like an escaped convict, dating a muslima is a day in the life of a prison warden.
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#41
Apr 29, 2022 3:51 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
MysteriousGirl80online today!
MysteriousGirl80online today!MysteriousGirl80Waterford, Ireland15 Threads 5 Polls 2,119 Posts
MysteriousGirl80Waterford, Ireland2,119 posts
Yes, he was from wexford.
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#42
Apr 29, 2022 3:56 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 posts
And if I go back far enough then a Jewish girl who to be quite honest I never had a date feel quite so eugenic as that. That small nose I had was because I was 16, not that I have a big nose now but making me the father does not necessarily equal offspring with a small nose.
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#43
Apr 29, 2022 3:58 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
irish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland6,274 posts
MysteriousGirl80: Yes, he was from wexford.
rolling on the floor laughing
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#44
Apr 29, 2022 4:26 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 posts
And about ten years ago in the mid-twenties came a Ukrainian girl - Macha Dubrovsky if that's the correct spelling - who was the most down to earth conservative woman I've ever been out with, but unfortunately she was a bit lazy. I don't think zest for life translates into Ukrainian.

And then a Russian girl from Arkhangelsk who was remarkably the same.
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#45
Apr 29, 2022 5:11 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Ten_of_cupss
Ten_of_cupssTen_of_cupssShumen, Bulgaria2 Threads 1,375 Posts
Ten_of_cupssShumen, Bulgaria1,375 posts
Yes, I have.
And to be honest it's the cultural differences followed by the way of upbringing that matter more.
Dating is quite easier than actually living with someone.
And this is when it all comes to the surface.
The closest I've been to my ideal match was and still is with a Portuguese man.
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#46
Apr 29, 2022 5:18 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
"Dating is quite easier than actually living with someone.
And this is when it all comes to the surface."

So very true Ten....In my country the saying goes something like "See meh and live wid meh...? two different things".
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#47
Apr 29, 2022 5:24 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Ten_of_cupss
Ten_of_cupssTen_of_cupssShumen, Bulgaria2 Threads 1,375 Posts
Ten_of_cupssShumen, Bulgaria1,375 posts
Didi7: "Dating is quite easier than actually living with someone.
And this is when it all comes to the surface."

So very true Ten....In my country the saying goes something like "See meh and live wid meh...? two different things".
Indeed.
That's why many prefer dating or should we call it with its true name No strings attached ...
laugh
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#48
Apr 29, 2022 5:40 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 posts
At least from my perspective black skin is much like poverty - a situation where the women are better than the men. A black woman from a poor country is first into heaven. The last shall be first.

And I've always argued the opposite amongst the wealthy classes and the feminine races - the men are better than the women. The wealthy oriental woman will burn in eternal damnation. The first shall be last.
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#49
Apr 29, 2022 5:59 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 posts
As for white folks we are neither masculine nor feminine and we do have a big middle class relatively speaking. We are very average and that's one of the reasons why diversity is fashionable amongst the white bourgeoisie. Because it's so normal. African men are simply more masculine, oriental women simply more feminine but we are never chalk and cheese with either they're just chalk and cheese with one another. Like a black man in China stands out but not in a good way.
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#50
Apr 29, 2022 6:18 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 posts
A black guy will clash most of all with China. Think of COVID zero. More than anyone he would stand in the way of what an effeminate hivemind seeks to achieve. And this is what I mean by the rich feminine oriental being the root of all evil. If and when the Chinese become as wealthy as Australians then everything great and good in this world will be gone.
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