rasgumby: I always have, If it gets to the yelling stage, it is just time to stop for a bit and cool down.. then finish the discussion. When I was married, she often lost control and yelled. I would try to go to another room to give it time to cool down, but she would follow anywhere I went so she could continue screaming at me. Then when things were cool.. I sat her down many times and told her to get some help..that the yelling had to stop. Instead it just got worse and worse.. finally one day as she was screaming.. I went out to mow the yard...she actually followed ever step as I mowed, screaming over the mower. That night, I told her that was it. I filed for divorce the next day.
i feel you there bro. the way i see it if you can't talk to me in a decent tone don't talk to me . my ex was the same way .
And the saying is 'men are pigs' eh?? ...my my these videos just show that it doesn't matter if your an "inny" or an "outy" bad behaviors come in all kinds of different people.
I would have to say a mixture of the choices given, Bad breath is number one followed by laziness. Bad manners is high on my turn off list too, but then I would not be turned on to a woman who has bad breath and bad manners, unless she is lying naked across the kitchen table after having ate garlic filled food and ordering me to satisfy her , although giving orders is bad manners, I would let it go this time
jmichelinNorth West River, Newfoundland Canada11 posts
For me the turn off is if i look into your eyes and dont see a sparkle there, to me that means your just going out / going thru with the hook up it to put up with someone who you like.
The first thing i look at is into the eyes they are the best way to tell what the other is thinking
solitare: Wearing week old underwear also! (read a couple of times on some threads that many North American men do this, so I presume that the women do also...)
We do not sir lol. Most of us have fairly good hygiene. Makes me want to wretch just thinking about that.
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When I was married, she often lost control and yelled.
I would try to go to another room to give it time to cool down, but she would follow anywhere I went so she could continue screaming at me.
Then when things were cool.. I sat her down many times and told her to get some help..that the yelling had to stop.
Instead it just got worse and worse..
finally one day as she was screaming.. I went out to mow the yard...she actually followed ever step as I mowed, screaming over the mower.
That night, I told her that was it.
I filed for divorce the next day.
i feel you there bro. the way i see it if you can't talk to me in a decent tone don't talk to me . my ex was the same way .