Do you guys here really believe in marriage? (87)
friends4now: I'm curious...
I actually don't believe in marriage except in the sense that it ruins relationships
tell me why you believe in marriage or don't...I know people here have been married and divorced and looking back would you not marry that person if you had to do it again?
I actually don't believe in marriage except in the sense that it ruins relationships
tell me why you believe in marriage or don't...I know people here have been married and divorced and looking back would you not marry that person if you had to do it again?
Marriage is like getting a bad rash. Can be very frustrating and annoying, and will always leave a scar in your hart and wallet for the rest of your life.
I believe in hooking up with a good girl and make it work.
Marriage is a custom, not a must, it's something I do to celebrate a confirmation of this partnership.
I will marry only once, that's my only "rule" but it is a personal opinion not related to religious hocus-pocus.
This bringing in the accountant into the equation - it makes me sick.
Marriage is a custom, not a must, it's something I do to celebrate a confirmation of this partnership.
I will marry only once, that's my only "rule" but it is a personal opinion not related to religious hocus-pocus.
This bringing in the accountant into the equation - it makes me sick.
if you love eachother? who needs a church?
scon1916: if you love eachother? who needs a church?
Well said
scon1916: if you love eachother? who needs a church?
Who said anything about a church
mike69spain: Who said anything about a church
Hi Mike
It might be a cultural thing, but here it is generally understood that a wedding is something you have in a registy office and a marriage in church. Just the terms in language give to different understandings of words in cultures.
gingerb: Hi Mike
It might be a cultural thing, but here it is generally understood that a wedding is something you have in a registy office and a marriage in church. Just the terms in language give to different understandings of words in cultures.
It might be a cultural thing, but here it is generally understood that a wedding is something you have in a registy office and a marriage in church. Just the terms in language give to different understandings of words in cultures.
Neither Marriage nor Wedding us part of the Romanian or Swedish vocabulary, you are right again -
It's called registering when doing the civil bit and poisoning (!) for the church bit in Swedish.
I am not really accepted into a religious building for a ceremony, btw...
But... I feel good being married (or wed then...
)Just that if this for some reason would not work out, then I would not do it again, that is how make it sacred in my own little world of imagination.
Then what is *******ex and his ********* *****??
Th only reason I should get married is if I want to have kids... Ahhh... So she can have kids... Ahhh... So we can have kids... Or should I???
cameraman: Th only reason I should get married is if I want to have kids... Ahhh... So she can have kids... Ahhh... So we can have kids... Or should I???
You can't have them without a certificate???
Good we did it then
HJFinAZ: Then what is *******ex and his ********* *****??
I was being a brat
Ya know me lol
I don't hold any bitterness. Much better to let it go and start afresh
SummerUK: I was being a brat
Ya know me lol
I don't hold any bitterness. Much better to let it go and start afresh
Ya know me lol
I don't hold any bitterness. Much better to let it go and start afresh
Yes, I do..
BTW, have I mentioned I am a brat also?
I like brats..
mike69spain: You can't have them without a certificate???
Good we did it then
Good we did it then
What I'm saying is...I don't want them without a certificate... And for a religious reason as well... Or should I???HJFinAZ: Yes, I do..
BTW, have I mentioned I am a brat also?
I like brats..
BTW, have I mentioned I am a brat also?
I like brats..
Haha! I know you are and thats why we get on so well
Well i quess i do becos i am Married
friends4now: I'm curious...
I actually don't believe in marriage except in the sense that it ruins relationships
tell me why you believe in marriage or don't...I know people here have been married and divorced and looking back would you not marry that person if you had to do it again?
I actually don't believe in marriage except in the sense that it ruins relationships
tell me why you believe in marriage or don't...I know people here have been married and divorced and looking back would you not marry that person if you had to do it again?
Marriage does not ruin a relationship
Its the 2 people involve who does
marrage is not something I need....but it is something I desire..
kissmedeeply: Marriage does not ruin a relationship
Its the 2 people involve who does
Its the 2 people involve who does
and sometimes its only one
SummerUK: Haha! I know you are and thats why we get on so well
Have we "gotten it on"??
Old & senile ya know..
SummerUK: and sometimes its only one
That is so true
jessejess47: marrage is not something I need....but it is something I desire..
Hello stranger
How you doin?
HJFinAZ: Have we "gotten it on"??
Old & senile ya know..
Old & senile ya know..
Yeah Pat
On the phone the other night
Sheesh how could you forget?
SummerUK: Hello stranger
How you doin?
Good and you...but back on subject.....I think there is something to be said for standing up and declaring your commentment to someone....I know I know it does not take a paper to do this ...but as I said it is not needed ...but wanted by both that take this stepHow you doin?
Well I've been married for 33 years now.
Still dont believe in it though.
Still dont believe in it though.
SummerUK: Yeah Pat
On the phone the other nightSheesh how could you forget?
On the phone the other nightSheesh how could you forget?
Sorry............
Was it as good for me as it was for you??
To me, marriage is the ultimate way for a man and a woman to say "I love you" to themselves and to the world. It´s a beautiful ritual and I would love to get married and make people around me happy and thrilled.
I also think
that one of the reasons marriages fail is because before you get married, or while you are still looking for a partnet, the man puts in a lot of effort to "look good" and "be cool" (see world of animals: females choose the strongest male) but then after getting married it´s like they say that, "hey, I am married now, I got me a woman, now it´s okay for me to drink beer in front of the tv, grow a big stomach, don´t help out at home, and snore loudly at night!"
(Okay, I am excaggerating, but you get the point)
To me is seems like a lot of marriages fail because the people involved stop working on it and take things for granted.
But then again, if I knew better I wouldn´t be on this site...
I also think
that one of the reasons marriages fail is because before you get married, or while you are still looking for a partnet, the man puts in a lot of effort to "look good" and "be cool" (see world of animals: females choose the strongest male) but then after getting married it´s like they say that, "hey, I am married now, I got me a woman, now it´s okay for me to drink beer in front of the tv, grow a big stomach, don´t help out at home, and snore loudly at night!"(Okay, I am excaggerating, but you get the point)
To me is seems like a lot of marriages fail because the people involved stop working on it and take things for granted.
But then again, if I knew better I wouldn´t be on this site...
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I'll certainly do it if it's important for the ONE i will find, but
I don't need it to give my word to "God" that I will take care of my companion.
It's for me more serious and important that saying yes in a church.
I agree why do we feel it's necessary to confirm what we should already know in the presence of a minister/God? I am not a christian but I understand the belief behind God and marriage...I thank everyone for their wonderful replies and wish you all the best of luck