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Oct 7, 2009 11:23 AM CSTIf you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
RoeDeVinna
RoeDeVinnaRoeDeVinnaDublin, Ireland27 Threads 9 Polls 913 Posts

If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?(Vote Below)

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yes
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no
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not sure
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just wondering what everything thinks ??
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Oct 7, 2009 11:24 AM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
RoeDeVinna
RoeDeVinnaRoeDeVinnaDublin, Ireland27 Threads 9 Polls 913 Posts
should say what everyone thinks sorry.. doh
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Oct 7, 2009 11:37 AM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
pretty79
pretty79pretty79Frederiksberg, Capital Region Denmark8 Threads 1 Polls 312 Posts
RoeDeVinna: just wondering what everything thinks ??

Yes, it will be a perfect relationship, banana
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Oct 7, 2009 11:39 AM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
RoeDeVinna: just wondering what everything thinks ??


nope i wouldn't take the risk
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Oct 7, 2009 11:45 AM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
I believe in taking risks but not when it could mean loosing a good friend.So no I wouldn't go for it.
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Oct 7, 2009 11:45 AM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
RoeDeVinna: should say what everyone thinks sorry..


Only if my best friend is a woman ....grin
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Oct 7, 2009 11:48 AM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Boban1: Only if my best friend is a woman ....


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing 10 ...thumbs up grin
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Oct 7, 2009 11:52 AM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
ziggysdad
ziggysdadziggysdadglen burnie, Maryland USA8 Threads 176 Posts
It should make a much better relationship if you can be best friends first. Much less to contend with laater !!!
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Oct 7, 2009 11:56 AM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
it depends on how you and specially your friend have defined the relationship.for us,men,if ignore the negative signals and go,it may cause a ruined trust for the lady which affects her.
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Oct 7, 2009 12:02 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
Yes i would take the risk..wave
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Oct 7, 2009 12:05 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
Boban1: I was posting the same thing, some time ago ...

but who knows ... we could both be wrong


yes we could be wrong, but personally i have tried so many times to have pure friendship with a guy but never worked, they ususally ended up wanting more than just friendship.

handshake
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Oct 7, 2009 12:06 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
goodfriend: Yes i would take the risk..


blues blues rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing damnit who cares these days rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Oct 7, 2009 12:07 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
Good for u strict, it worked, wish i could say the same
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Oct 7, 2009 1:07 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
justdave11
justdave11justdave11Tamworth, New South Wales Australia10 Threads 10 Polls 98 Posts
RoeDeVinna: just wondering what everything thinks ??

hell ya, life is for living. id go for it.
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Oct 7, 2009 6:03 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
HDALE
HDALEHDALEINDIANAPOLIS, Indiana USA8 Threads 1 Polls 97 Posts
I am fortunate that my female friends are not what I'm interested in and vice-versa.A couple of times we tried and decided friends are better than someone you dont want as a lover.It was worth it dancing .Not that I am not good enough uh oh
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Oct 7, 2009 9:25 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
bamma882
bamma882bamma882baltimore, Maryland USA10 Threads 270 Posts
I would but she is married and I don't get down like that lol.
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Oct 7, 2009 9:55 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
sweet_saucy2008
sweet_saucy2008sweet_saucy2008Northwest, Tennessee USA506 Posts
I have always had more guy friends than female friends. Never had the problems that occur with female friends. Even now I still have more guy friends. peace
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Oct 7, 2009 10:24 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Yup, can think of one already .. and it wouldnt spoil anything

cool
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Oct 7, 2009 10:26 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
sweet_saucy2008: I have always had more guy friends than female friends. Never had the problems that occur with female friends. Even now I still have more guy friends.



cheers same here ..
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Dec 5, 2009 5:57 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
amelie13
amelie13amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia16 Threads 3 Polls 327 Posts
RoeDeVinna: just wondering what everything thinks ??


I'd be very hesitant. I know people who have slept with friends and it made no difference to their relationship at all, but that hasn't been the case for me. There are a couple of really good male friendships I wish I still had; I acted on lust and curiosity & in hindsight, I'm regretful because it was never the same afterwards.

I guess if you end up falling in love with them, no matter how hard you try not to, that's a different thing. And a bummer too - every time they meet someone new you have to pretend to be happy for them, suffer through meeting their new girlfriends. In some situations like this, just being friends may be too painful.
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Dec 5, 2009 6:04 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
golden_eyes71
golden_eyes71golden_eyes71Schofield, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 126 Posts
RoeDeVinna: should say what everyone thinks sorry..


Hard lesson learned. Loved him as a friend, married him even and in the end it didnt work out, now we dont even speak. I would say NO NO NO. Its not worth it after learning that one.
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Dec 5, 2009 6:09 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
RoeDeVinna: just wondering what everything thinks ??


How could you be best friends with someone you didn't like? confused

Seriously, of course you should. Your desire's already there - trying to suppress or hide that is likely going to negatively effect your friendship anyway. If you're rejected romantically, there's no reason why your friendship can't resume - unless you don't allow it to. After all, the only difference between the two scenarios is that in one case your best friend knows the truth. How can you live a lie with your best friend without severely compromising your relationship?
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Dec 5, 2009 6:28 PM CST If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?
HavinFuninTx
HavinFuninTxHavinFuninTxNorth of Houston, Texas USA2 Threads 226 Posts
RoeDeVinna: If you liked one of your best friends would you go 4 it ? an risk your friendship if it didnt work?

just wondering what everything thinks ??


It would depend entirely on who it was. Some epople if it did not work out, it could be easy to resoume friendship with. Some, not so easy. Both because of my reactions to them AND their reactions to me.

I have a friend right now I surely would like to and vice versa. But he is too far from me and too busy and I am an impatient person. If I started something, I would want to see him more often than he has time for me right now. So, it is easier to be friends only.
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