amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia327 posts
BlainX: Tiger Woods makes me wonder more about women?
It depends. If he has said he is single, that doesn't mean he hasn't been out on dates with others women. I wouldn't have an expectation we were monogamous by the 2nd date or even that we planned to see each other again. It's generally something you'd talk about after a few dates & perhaps agree you'd see each other exclusively then, if you had hit it off.
i would go on a 3rd date to see if there is any inkling it might turn into something more. If not then i would tell him to call me sometime to chat and just remain friends. no since in getting all bent out of shape just cause he has dated another lady. who knows if the other lady will work out either.
wildkitty: i would go on a 3rd date to see if there is any inkling it might turn into something more. If not then i would tell him to call me sometime to chat and just remain friends. no since in getting all bent out of shape just cause he has dated another lady. who knows if the other lady will work out either.
well.... if he can manage to get em both together for a lil 3's company i'd tell him he's my hero and ask to shake his hand.... maybe some will rub off !!!!
euroladyFredericton, New Brunswick Canada228 posts
amelie13: It depends. If he has said he is single, that doesn't mean he hasn't been out on dates with others women. I wouldn't have an expectation we were monogamous by the 2nd date or even that we planned to see each other again. It's generally something you'd talk about after a few dates & perhaps agree you'd see each other exclusively then, if you had hit it off.
Isn't it acceptable to see more than one person until you've established that the relationship is exclusive though? & Second dates are usually not a time when two people decide to become exclusive in my experience, have to get to know them before you make any commitments right? I don't really see anything wrong with this as long as you aren't trying to hide it. Any time I would date someone I'll always assume they aren't putting all their eggs into one basket so quickly, and the onus would be on the person to ask them before they would be rightly upset by it..
LostLocal: Isn't it acceptable to see more than one person until you've established that the relationship is exclusive though? & Second dates are usually not a time when two people decide to become exclusive in my experience, have to get to know them before you make any commitments right? I don't really see anything wrong with this as long as you aren't trying to hide it. Any time I would date someone I'll always assume they aren't putting all their eggs into one basket so quickly, and the onus would be on the person to ask them before they would be rightly upset by it..
My humble opinion.
In my understanding it is immoral. But I am old. so who knows
Maybe it is different in a young World of Courtesy.
LostLocal: Isn't it acceptable to see more than one person until you've established that the relationship is exclusive though? & Second dates are usually not a time when two people decide to become exclusive in my experience, have to get to know them before you make any commitments right? I don't really see anything wrong with this as long as you aren't trying to hide it. Any time I would date someone I'll always assume they aren't putting all their eggs into one basket so quickly, and the onus would be on the person to ask them before they would be rightly upset by it..
LostLocal: Isn't it acceptable to see more than one person until you've established that the relationship is exclusive though? & Second dates are usually not a time when two people decide to become exclusive in my experience, have to get to know them before you make any commitments right? I don't really see anything wrong with this as long as you aren't trying to hide it. Any time I would date someone I'll always assume they aren't putting all their eggs into one basket so quickly, and the onus would be on the person to ask them before they would be rightly upset by it..
My humble opinion.
I agree with you, a second date is just that, not a relationship. If a guy thought that we were in a serious relationship by date 2 I would run for the hills lol.
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