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Dec 8, 2009 4:44 PM CSTLadies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio, USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts

Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?(Vote Below)

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get angry, and tell him to get lost!
29
35%
ask him if she's pretty?
5
6%
plan to consume all of his time & winning ?
2
2%
plan to date other people?
23
27%
platonic relationship, ONLY!
9
11%
other?
16
19%
Total Votes
84
Tiger Woods makes me wonder more about women? drinking
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Dec 8, 2009 4:47 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
BlainX: Tiger Woods makes me wonder more about women?


Leave her have him!!
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Dec 8, 2009 4:51 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
LaVerdad
LaVerdadLaVerdadBaghdad, Iraq1 Threads 1,897 Posts
LusciousLibra: Leave her have him!!


Exactly, give him the eff off tablet!thumbs up
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Dec 8, 2009 4:52 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
DrkRose
DrkRoseDrkRoseSioux Lookout, Ontario Canada16 Threads 466 Posts
LaVerdad: Exactly, give him the eff off tablet!
thumbs up
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Dec 8, 2009 4:54 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
crystal100
crystal100crystal100wexford, Wexford Ireland2 Threads 251 Posts
Say good luck to him doh
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Dec 8, 2009 4:55 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
BlainX: Tiger Woods makes me wonder more about women?
Its only the second date not that attached ,I am out of there with a quickness super motorcycle
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Dec 8, 2009 5:13 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
eiko09
eiko09eiko09Quito, Pichincha Ecuador6 Posts
If was not honest from the very beginning, he probably won't be honest at all... so he is not worth the effort! professor
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Dec 8, 2009 5:25 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
bapsineurope
bapsineuropebapsineuropeKansas City, Missouri USA4 Threads 166 Posts
lovely4u7da: Its only the second date not that attached ,I am out of there with a quickness


thumbs up totally agree I'm outta there....
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Dec 8, 2009 9:18 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
envyu
envyuenvyumelbourne, Victoria Australia78 Posts
eiko09: If was not honest from the very beginning, he probably won't be honest at all... so he is not worth the effort!

thumbs up 1 question tho i been on 2 dates with me man but nothing has been said about our relationship so should i continued or uhm...4get about it?
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Dec 8, 2009 11:56 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
omega1036
omega1036omega1036spearfish, South Dakota USA1 Threads 481 Posts
eiko09: If was not honest from the very beginning, he probably won't be honest at all... so he is not worth the effort!



dittoheart wings
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Dec 9, 2009 12:00 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
what about if he was honest from the begining.
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Dec 9, 2009 12:22 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
amelie13
amelie13amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia16 Threads 3 Polls 327 Posts
BlainX: Tiger Woods makes me wonder more about women?



It depends. If he has said he is single, that doesn't mean he hasn't been out on dates with others women. I wouldn't have an expectation we were monogamous by the 2nd date or even that we planned to see each other again. It's generally something you'd talk about after a few dates & perhaps agree you'd see each other exclusively then, if you had hit it off.
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Dec 9, 2009 1:03 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
i would go on a 3rd date to see if there is any inkling it might turn into something more. If not then i would tell him to call me sometime to chat and just remain friends. no since in getting all bent out of shape just cause he has dated another lady. who knows if the other lady will work out either. cheers
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Dec 9, 2009 4:02 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
sassysexy
sassysexysassysexyWarsaw, Mazovia Poland6 Threads 1 Polls 62 Posts
eiko09: If was not honest from the very beginning, he probably won't be honest at all... so he is not worth the effort!


I agree...he is soooooo not worth my time
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Dec 9, 2009 4:14 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
BlainX: Tiger Woods makes me wonder more about women?


And what kind of a Man dates only one woman at the time ???...grin
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Dec 9, 2009 5:02 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Just leave him to her.....better things to be doing....conversing
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Dec 9, 2009 5:03 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
wildkitty: i would go on a 3rd date to see if there is any inkling it might turn into something more. If not then i would tell him to call me sometime to chat and just remain friends. no since in getting all bent out of shape just cause he has dated another lady. who knows if the other lady will work out either.



If it's not there it's just not there.....wave
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Dec 9, 2009 7:01 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
BaabyBabe
BaabyBabeBaabyBabeManama, Bahrain28 Posts
eiko09: If was not honest from the very beginning, he probably won't be honest at all... so he is not worth the effort!
thumbs up

I totally agree. "Hit the road Jack!" Next!
peace
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Dec 9, 2009 7:05 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
well.... if he can manage to get em both together for a lil 3's company i'd tell him he's my hero and ask to shake his hand.... maybe some will rub off !!!!

grin


Tiger.... you da man !!!!!
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Dec 9, 2009 7:22 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
There wouldn't be a third.
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Dec 9, 2009 7:25 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
crystal100: Say good luck to him
and find an other one?rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 9, 2009 7:59 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
stefonline: Just leave him to her.....better things to be doing....
thumbs up say good bye to him wave laugh
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Dec 9, 2009 8:00 AM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
ali110: and find an other one?
right laugh Hi Ali wave
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Dec 18, 2009 1:34 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
eurolady
euroladyeuroladyFredericton, New Brunswick Canada1 Threads 228 Posts
amelie13: It depends. If he has said he is single, that doesn't mean he hasn't been out on dates with others women. I wouldn't have an expectation we were monogamous by the 2nd date or even that we planned to see each other again. It's generally something you'd talk about after a few dates & perhaps agree you'd see each other exclusively then, if you had hit it off.


thumbs up
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Dec 18, 2009 2:11 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
LostLocal
LostLocalLostLocalpittsburgh, Pennsylvania USA15 Threads 1 Polls 104 Posts
Isn't it acceptable to see more than one person until you've established that the relationship is exclusive though? & Second dates are usually not a time when two people decide to become exclusive in my experience, have to get to know them before you make any commitments right? I don't really see anything wrong with this as long as you aren't trying to hide it. Any time I would date someone I'll always assume they aren't putting all their eggs into one basket so quickly, and the onus would be on the person to ask them before they would be rightly upset by it..

My humble opinion.
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Dec 18, 2009 3:26 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
LostLocal: Isn't it acceptable to see more than one person until you've established that the relationship is exclusive though? & Second dates are usually not a time when two people decide to become exclusive in my experience, have to get to know them before you make any commitments right? I don't really see anything wrong with this as long as you aren't trying to hide it. Any time I would date someone I'll always assume they aren't putting all their eggs into one basket so quickly, and the onus would be on the person to ask them before they would be rightly upset by it..

My humble opinion.


In my understanding it is immoral. But I am old. so who knows dunno

Maybe it is different in a young World of Courtesy. blues
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Dec 18, 2009 3:33 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
LostLocal: Isn't it acceptable to see more than one person until you've established that the relationship is exclusive though? & Second dates are usually not a time when two people decide to become exclusive in my experience, have to get to know them before you make any commitments right? I don't really see anything wrong with this as long as you aren't trying to hide it. Any time I would date someone I'll always assume they aren't putting all their eggs into one basket so quickly, and the onus would be on the person to ask them before they would be rightly upset by it..

My humble opinion.


I agree with your opinion on this.
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Dec 18, 2009 3:38 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
Definitely would not get angry if they are dating others if their honest? cheering
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Dec 18, 2009 3:59 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
tsarskoyeselo
tsarskoyeselotsarskoyeselozurich, Zurich Switzerland18 Threads 7 Polls 112 Posts
Boban1: And what kind of a Man dates only one woman at the time ???...
_phesimist!
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Dec 18, 2009 4:38 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
ScaryScorpio
ScaryScorpioScaryScorpioDublin, Ireland1 Threads 21 Posts
LostLocal: Isn't it acceptable to see more than one person until you've established that the relationship is exclusive though? & Second dates are usually not a time when two people decide to become exclusive in my experience, have to get to know them before you make any commitments right? I don't really see anything wrong with this as long as you aren't trying to hide it. Any time I would date someone I'll always assume they aren't putting all their eggs into one basket so quickly, and the onus would be on the person to ask them before they would be rightly upset by it..

My humble opinion.




I agree with you, a second date is just that, not a relationship. If a guy thought that we were in a serious relationship by date 2 I would run for the hills lol.
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Dec 18, 2009 5:22 PM CST Ladies- After 2nd date you discover he has another women, he's dating... You?
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
stefonline: If it's not there it's just not there.....
exactly thumbs up
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