What is expected on a first date? ( Archived) (34)

Jan 25, 2008 6:49 PM CSTWhat is expected on a first date?
pam1947
pam1947pam1947norco, California, USA2 Threads 1 Polls 3 Posts

What is expected on a first date?(Vote Below)

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Kissing without tongue?
26
19%
Kissing with tongue
15
11%
Makeout session at your car ,before saying good ?
13
9%
Both paying for the date?
20
14%
Holding hands,maybe a little more touching?/
64
46%
Total Votes
138
Kissing with ,or out tongue,makeout session at you car before saying good by or just saying so long.and not look back. What do you think is the right one. I think It depends on what you think of the one you are with,none are wrong
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Jan 29, 2008 9:13 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
pam1947
pam1947pam1947norco, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 3 Posts
Kissing with ,or out tongue,makeout session at you car before saying good by or just saying so long.and not look back. What do you think is the right one. I think It depends on what you think of the one you are with,none are wrong
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Jan 29, 2008 10:29 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
evie_girl_fl
evie_girl_flevie_girl_flFayetteville, North Carolina USA9 Threads 967 Posts
pam1947: Kissing with ,or out tongue,makeout session at you car before saying good by or just saying so long.and not look back. What do you think is the right one. I think It depends on what you think of the one you are with,none are wrong


I think none of the above should be happening on a first date... I guess im old fashion...

just my 2cents..wave
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Jan 29, 2008 10:41 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
girlnextdormouse
girlnextdormousegirlnextdormouseMarietta, Ohio USA34 Threads 544 Posts
evie_girl_fl: I think none of the above should be happening on a first date... I guess im old fashion...
just my 2cents..



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Jan 29, 2008 10:43 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
Well take note all you women over forty five if you agree with the standards of dating of a 16 year old ...

PLEASE TAKE ME OFF YOUR LIST

I's one thing to be cautious, its another thing entirely to be a mature adult and maintain a parental atittude to the aspect s of dating at our age.

To those that believe sharing physical intimacy is something that has a set or mandatory time restriction ..again..PLEASE TAKE ME OFF YOUR LIST.

if you are of the thinking that you do not have the ability or intelligence to know someone by the question you choose to ask and feel its a safer more reliable and secure way to wait the set # of dates before acting,It only shows your lack of maturity and lack of faith in the knowledge you've acquired thru these many years

however I wish you all a long life... it is only then will you willingly accept your mistake and inform your daughters and friends you where wrong in your decision not to follow the implusive acts that love many times envoke on us all.
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Jan 29, 2008 10:43 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
evie_girl_fl
evie_girl_flevie_girl_flFayetteville, North Carolina USA9 Threads 967 Posts
Thanks....

Sometimes I think we should step back from the intimacy and let logic rule our thoughts...I find it easier that way to get to date and know men...wave
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Jan 29, 2008 10:45 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
pam1947: Kissing with ,or out tongue,makeout session at you car before saying good by or just saying so long.and not look back. What do you think is the right one. I think It depends on what you think of the one you are with,none are wrong


Your poll holds not near enough options.

So I will quite simply answer with, the world has possibilities and your mind holds no limits
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Jan 29, 2008 11:07 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
pam1947: Kissing with ,or out tongue,makeout session at you car before saying good by or just saying so long.and not look back. What do you think is the right one. I think It depends on what you think of the one you are with,none are wrong

Absolutely None of the above
A first date should be free from all this hen pecking
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Jan 29, 2008 11:10 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
fireliter: Well take note all you women over forty five if you agree with the standards of dating of a 16 year old ...

PLEASE TAKE ME OFF YOUR LIST

I's one thing to be cautious, its another thing entirely to be a mature adult and maintain a parental atittude to the aspect s of dating at our age.

To those that believe sharing physical intimacy is something that has a set or mandatory time restriction ..again..PLEASE TAKE ME OFF YOUR LIST.

if you are of the thinking that you do not have the ability or intelligence to know someone by the question you choose to ask and feel its a safer more reliable and secure way to wait the set # of dates before acting,It only shows your lack of maturity and lack of faith in the knowledge you've acquired thru these many years

however I wish you all a long life... it is only then will you willingly accept your mistake and inform your daughters and friends you where wrong in your decision not to follow the implusive acts that love many times envoke on us all.

What did you say?
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Jan 29, 2008 11:12 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
girlnextdormouse: I simply don't need to start suck facing or putting out with someone I barely know (and if it's a FIRST date, then we really barely know them). I'm simply not into ingesting the body fluids of strangers I've been out with for all of 2-3 hours.


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If we meet and do feel the chemistry, then there's just a lot to look forward to while we take things slowly. If we meet and see that there's no chemistry between us, then it's a handshake and maybe meeting again in the capacity of just friends, if we're both still interested in talking with each other.
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Jan 29, 2008 11:21 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
fireliter: it is only then will you willingly accept your mistake and inform your daughters and friends you where wrong in your decision not to follow the implusive acts that love many times envoke on us all.


I wouldn't think it's love, it sounds more like lust to me, and I always keep in mind this: "Don't hold something in your arms that you could never hold in your heart." (whoever said this) And honestly, it's not like we would like each other but still part without that kiss on the first date and I would lose the person forever and ever because of that. If we're so not-in-tune, then probably it wouldn't have worked out anyway down the line.
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Jan 29, 2008 11:27 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
What happened to : All of the above.... choice?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 29, 2008 11:30 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Good old fashioned manners and propriety; ok, maybe a lil harmless flirtation from afar. wink
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Jan 29, 2008 11:31 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
THIS thread is something I WOULD have started in highschool.

Make OUT SESSION AT THE CAR?

Like in highschools,when I WOULD GET out a pack of DENTYNE,before going in for the passionate smooch.

This is silly..........I'm out of here.



p.s.......just an observation,but I ALWAYS FOUND AROUND VALENTINE'S DAY,EVERYBODY STARTS ACTING SO ANGELIC.
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Jan 29, 2008 11:37 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
UnluckyGuyinpa
UnluckyGuyinpaUnluckyGuyinpaTrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 137 Posts
Wish there would have been a "none of the above" choice, that's where my vote would be. I must be living in the stone ages. A kiss would never cross my mind let alone anything more. I just don't understand why everyone now a days is off to jump in the sack right off. I mean really. What happened to the days when a man would actually court a woman? Treat her like a lady and with respect?

I guess I'm going to be single for quite sometime. I refuse to bend or throw away my values,morals and standards. If that means being alone then so be it.




**This is MY opinion. I am in no position to judge ANYONE and would never do so. Everyone is an idividual with individual opinions.
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Jan 29, 2008 11:43 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
I don't expect anything, I take it as it comes, depending on how I feel.
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Jan 30, 2008 11:04 AM CST What is expected on a first date?
girlnextdormouse
girlnextdormousegirlnextdormouseMarietta, Ohio USA34 Threads 544 Posts
fireliter: To those many with those standards hows your dating life?


My dating life is actually pretty darn good, thanks for asking.
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Jan 30, 2008 11:16 AM CST What is expected on a first date?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
evie_girl_fl: I think none of the above should be happening on a first date... I guess im old fashion...

just my 2cents..


Guess its what the person feels comfortable with... but I must say... waiting really does add to the anticipation and make it all the more special when you do finally kiss smitten
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Jan 30, 2008 11:35 AM CST What is expected on a first date?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
UnluckyGuyinpa: Wish there would have been a "none of the above" choice, that's where my vote would be. I must be living in the stone ages. A kiss would never cross my mind let alone anything more. I just don't understand why everyone now a days is off to jump in the sack right off. I mean really. What happened to the days when a man would actually court a woman? Treat her like a lady and with respect?

I guess I'm going to be single for quite sometime. I refuse to bend or throw away my values,morals and standards. If that means being alone then so be it.

**This is MY opinion. I am in no position to judge ANYONE and would never do so. Everyone is an idividual with individual opinions.
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Jan 30, 2008 1:47 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
In response to: its one thing when the feelings of attraction does not exist its another altogether to deny the impulse because of some standard.


But it's not "some" standard, it's how the person feels about the whole thing... In my case, the "standard" is inseparable from my views and feelings about it all - it's not just something my Grandma always told me not to do... It's what makes me most comfortable... And if the other person's "standards" are so completely different, then they probably will be in other areas also, so why even date if we're not compatible even at the beginning...
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Jan 30, 2008 9:32 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
pam1947
pam1947pam1947norco, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 3 Posts
Just because this was posted doesn,t mean that i dont have high standards or can not control my own hormones it was posted to get your anger up and it worked. Im 61 and been with 3 men in my entire life can you say the same all you guys who think you are beon doing any of the mentioned. What happened when someone got his tongue in there before you knew it/ bet you bit it off right
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Jan 30, 2008 9:34 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I'm just grateful if she shows up...dancing
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Jan 30, 2008 9:35 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
pam1947: Kissing with ,or out tongue,makeout session at you car before saying good by or just saying so long.and not look back. What do you think is the right one. I think It depends on what you think of the one you are with,none are wrong


None of the above.

How about some eye contact, smile just because we all have one.

If electricity and passion are in the air, then poll becomes void.
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Jan 30, 2008 9:37 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
girlnextdormouse
girlnextdormousegirlnextdormouseMarietta, Ohio USA34 Threads 544 Posts
pam1947: What happened when someone got his tongue in there before you knew it/ bet you bit it off right


What? rolling on the floor laughing
No man has ever gotten his tongue "in there" before I knew it.
Wherever "there" happens to be.

Priceless.
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Jan 30, 2008 9:40 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
No ecpectations... just see what happens and what feels right.lips
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Jan 30, 2008 9:55 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
rhime
rhimerhimevegreville, Alberta Canada35 Posts
this is a silly question. there is no one right answer for everyone. everyone is different
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Jan 30, 2008 9:57 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
desmond
desmonddesmondkissimmee, Florida USA375 Threads 10,888 Posts
I think I would have made a better girl than a guy.
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Jan 30, 2008 10:00 PM CST What is expected on a first date?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
desmond: I think I would have made a better girl than a guy.


?????? Why's that?
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Feb 11, 2008 12:32 AM CST What is expected on a first date?
ranger2005
ranger2005ranger2005kamloops, British Columbia Canada8 Threads 27 Posts
I think a hug and kiss should occur on either the 2nd or 3rd date providing you make it that far, but it all depends on the two people.
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Feb 11, 2008 12:34 AM CST What is expected on a first date?
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
evie_girl_fl: I think none of the above should be happening on a first date... I guess im old fashion...

just my 2cents..


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Feb 11, 2008 12:57 AM CST What is expected on a first date?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
mychelle: Not particularly sure that the women has a self esteem problem, more like she is assertive, going after what she wants.



That's my point....if this is what she wants...she needs to raise her standards!!
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