is it normal to love 2 persons at once? ( Archived) (57)

Jan 13, 2010 12:19 AM CSTis it normal to love 2 persons at once?
rainlucy
rainlucyrainlucyLeuven, Flemish Brabant, Belgium5 Threads 1 Polls 16 Posts

is it normal to love 2 persons at once?(Vote Below)

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someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.
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Jan 13, 2010 1:32 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada17 Threads 1,343 Posts
I dont think you can be fully "in love" with 2 people at the same time. You can admire both for different qualities but being in love???confused I think you friend is highly confused and needs therapy stat.
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Jan 13, 2010 1:48 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
Damo2009
Damo2009Damo2009Bendigo, Victoria Australia1 Posts
I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.
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Jan 13, 2010 1:51 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
Damo2009: I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.


Now thats better

possible yes! depends how you love two people

I love my daughter and i loved my ex wife, but there is two different loves so it is possible and it can be normal its how you define the word love.
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Jan 13, 2010 1:54 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
lakelander
lakelanderlakelanderLarnaca, Cyprus2 Threads 200 Posts
Damo2009: I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.


Good point Damo. Personally I don't think it's possible but it does bring back memories of this song.

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Jan 13, 2010 2:02 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
IT MAY BE POSSIBLE, BUT S0 IS MANY OTHER THINGS THAT ARE NOT BEST FOR LIFE.
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Jan 13, 2010 2:08 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
yes its possible,to love two men/women at the same time,but most people try to avoid this situation.so i dont think its normal.

in some circumstances its necessary tho,for example when you can not be with one person that you love.
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Jan 13, 2010 7:41 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
munching
munchingmunchingsan jose, San Jose Costa Rica217 Posts
No definately not.
You cant give 100% to someone when your thinking about someone else.
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Jan 13, 2010 7:42 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
heart beating
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Jan 16, 2010 5:07 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
whitec
whitecwhitecNowra, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 265 Posts
I agree with munchinthumbs up
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Jan 16, 2010 5:09 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Someone asked me if the right hand and the left hand count as two persons. rolling on the floor laughing
uh oh Hey ! Don't look at me like that. scold
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Jan 16, 2010 5:09 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
whitec
whitecwhitecNowra, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 265 Posts
Hay Munching ever thought of visiting Australia lollips blushing laugh
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Jan 16, 2010 5:10 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
rainlucy: someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.



Am I wrong in assuming that you were one of these 2??


confused
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Jan 16, 2010 5:12 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
texasgirl8585
texasgirl8585texasgirl8585Fort Worth, Texas USA12 Threads 409 Posts
lakelander: Good point Damo. Personally I don't think it's possible but it does bring back memories of this song.


And this song.

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Jan 16, 2010 5:12 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
sarha888
sarha888sarha888saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada110 Posts
Damo2009: I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.
hi vanillathis is chocolat du think we coul make sweet icecream flirty flirty
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Jan 16, 2010 5:24 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Damo2009: I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.


thumbs up Correct. Exactly what I was thinking.wave
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Jan 16, 2010 5:32 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
texasgirl8585: And this song.



Ah, not quite the same.scold wave
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Jan 16, 2010 7:28 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
rainlucy: someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.


Yes, possible and very normal as well as very frustrating yet awesome in some ways.laugh
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Jan 16, 2010 7:29 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
lee001
lee001lee001manahawkin, New Jersey USA10 Threads 682 Posts
hmmm I did last nightwow
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Jan 16, 2010 7:43 PM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
lee001: I did last night


pics?

/sarcasm
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Jan 17, 2010 3:27 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
idea interesting hmmm
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Jan 17, 2010 3:38 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
rainlucy: someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.


Why sure you can, even more if you choose to!

Example:
I'm in love with EVERY woman here on CS in one way or another, smitten
but they don't know it!!!!


cheers hug
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Jan 17, 2010 3:39 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
inseef
inseefinseefGuernsey, , UK6 Threads 44 Posts
i love 4 :D
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Jan 17, 2010 3:50 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
campoqueen
campoqueencampoqueenmalaga, Andalusia Spain4 Threads 1 Polls 481 Posts
rainlucy: someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.


If youre talking about romantic love which I presume you are then I would have to say "normal" no , "Possible" unlikely. To love two people at the same time as youve seen above tears one apart and there arent many people in the world that are prepared to share someones love with somebody else although why that should be is probably just a socio/cultural thing there are cultures where this is acceptable.
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Jan 17, 2010 3:54 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
lakelander: Good point Damo. Personally I don't think it's possible but it does bring back memories of this song.


Yes my friend this is a beautiful song ... But in it she does sing ... Loving both of you is breaking all the rules. Personaly I want to give all my love to one special person , I dont think you can give of yourself fully to two people wine peace
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Jan 17, 2010 3:54 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
i love many a woman....


but not at once......



i only love each for about 3 seconds at a time !!!!!


then its time to move to the next .....


grin grin
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Jan 17, 2010 4:01 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
seekndestroy: i love many a woman.... but not at once......
i only love each for about 3 seconds at a time !!!!!then its time to move to the next .....


Is that your attention span or just how long you last? confused
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Jan 17, 2010 4:05 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
langleygirl: Is that your attention span or just how long you last?



both....


... id make it shorter but i've not yet been able to cut down on moves in order to shorten the time.....

in.... one second
out.... one second
sleep... one second


i've been trying to do the in and out as one quick fluid motion but found that it makes it so i dont get mine when i do that !!!!


doh
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Jan 17, 2010 4:11 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
markella
markellamarkellarijeka, Istria and Kvarner Croatia1 Posts
i think people get confused with the above sittuation. Married men and women love there partner even after years together but ask them if they are In Love with them and you will get a different answer. The other person is probably a new fling and they are probably in love with that person so he believes he loves two people at the same time when in fact he Loves one and is in Love with the other.
When you are in Love with someone you Love can and should only ever be directed to them. You reap what you sow guys :0)

mark
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Jan 17, 2010 4:11 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
seekndestroy: both.... ... id make it shorter but i've not yet been able to cut down on moves in order to shorten the time.....

in.... one second
out.... one second
sleep... one secondi've been trying to do the in and out as one quick fluid motion but found that it makes it so i dont get mine when i do that !!!!


Practice makes perfect. Be thankful you can still get it up! laugh
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Jan 17, 2010 4:22 AM CST is it normal to love 2 persons at once?
langleygirl: Practice makes perfect. Be thankful you can still get it up!


With such a "quick trigger", lets hope he don't shoot himself!

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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