someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.
911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada1,343 posts
I dont think you can be fully "in love" with 2 people at the same time. You can admire both for different qualities but being in love??? I think you friend is highly confused and needs therapy stat.
I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.
Damo2009: I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.
Now thats better
possible yes! depends how you love two people
I love my daughter and i loved my ex wife, but there is two different loves so it is possible and it can be normal its how you define the word love.
Damo2009: I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.
Good point Damo. Personally I don't think it's possible but it does bring back memories of this song.
rainlucy: someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.
Am I wrong in assuming that you were one of these 2??
Damo2009: I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.
hi vanillathis is chocolat du think we coul make sweet icecream
Damo2009: I think the question is posed wrong. Is it "normal" to love 2 people at once is similar to saying is it normal to like vanilla and chocolate icecream. It should be asking is it POSSIBLE to love 2 people at once.
rainlucy: someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.
Yes, possible and very normal as well as very frustrating yet awesome in some ways.
rainlucy: someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.
Why sure you can, even more if you choose to!
Example: I'm in love with EVERY woman here on CS in one way or another, but they don't know it!!!!
rainlucy: someone told me that he loved 2 persons in same time.I thought his love was not real for both of them and not strong enough.but he said no.his love was very strong for both of them, it drove him crazy and tore him apart.he is 34 years old.had been married with 2 kids.I didnot see he is an immature person.so,do you think it's normal to love 2 at once?for me,love is only for one..of course not family or friend type of love but lovers.
If youre talking about romantic love which I presume you are then I would have to say "normal" no , "Possible" unlikely. To love two people at the same time as youve seen above tears one apart and there arent many people in the world that are prepared to share someones love with somebody else although why that should be is probably just a socio/cultural thing there are cultures where this is acceptable.
Yes my friend this is a beautiful song ... But in it she does sing ... Loving both of you is breaking all the rules. Personaly I want to give all my love to one special person , I dont think you can give of yourself fully to two people
seekndestroy: i love many a woman.... but not at once...... i only love each for about 3 seconds at a time !!!!!then its time to move to the next .....
Is that your attention span or just how long you last?
i think people get confused with the above sittuation. Married men and women love there partner even after years together but ask them if they are In Love with them and you will get a different answer. The other person is probably a new fling and they are probably in love with that person so he believes he loves two people at the same time when in fact he Loves one and is in Love with the other. When you are in Love with someone you Love can and should only ever be directed to them. You reap what you sow guys :0)
seekndestroy: both.... ... id make it shorter but i've not yet been able to cut down on moves in order to shorten the time.....
in.... one second out.... one second sleep... one secondi've been trying to do the in and out as one quick fluid motion but found that it makes it so i dont get mine when i do that !!!!
Practice makes perfect. Be thankful you can still get it up!
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