should i stay or should i go ? ( Archived) (58)

Instead of complaining about allthe ones that didn't reply, why aren't you chasing up the one that did?

You areonly here for one woman, right?

Stay and enjoy the forums, they can be fun. Who knows, when you least expect it, and when people know you better here, your dream woman may just appear.

Come on now G, what are the chances that she was a babe .....

Well she had a kind heart, and that is worth uch more than a pair of legs to her armpits........or am I reading you men wrong again?

Hi R.

GO....!!!!
That way more wimmins for meeeeeeeeee...
winners NEVER quit,
and quitters NEVER win..!!
---SoldierByte---

They say nothing in life is easy,it takes time.You will go threw 100's of profiles and woman,remember you are only looking for one,it's like a needle in a hat stack.Good luck,hang in there

hay stack

You should stay you have nothing to lose by staying and having some fun play the games get involved in the forums it is a great place to meet and see where people hearts are really at and you get to learn somethings about yourself 50 is not a lot so dont leave

hi cutie

Try not to give up. It's the frustrating thing about being a man. You try your hardest and women are pretty unresponsive all around. I am not sure about the numbers on this website it may not be as bad because it's free but a lot of dating websites have up to 10x as many males as females, so basically the guys sit there for hours or days waiting for one message or 1 response and the women are flooded with them. I usualy go months without an message and that was even when I lived in a more populated area like vancouver (not it makes sense since I live on a small island)

It's very frustrating. Kind of like going to a bar, a guy can go for a month and have maybe one girl approach him, and a girl goes there one night and will have a dozen guys wanting to approach.

if i may say

and its intended in kindness


you seem to, from the posts you have made, you seem to seem to feel some sense of urgency and for me this feeling has caused me to get into things- jobs or relationships, prematurely and end up with regret and even less time to accomplish my 'goal'

i was here 4 years and had some really weird starts to what would have been terrible relationships

im married now and happy. i can truly see how it was all at a perfect pace.

what can really block life unfolding i think is having a very formed picture of what it must look like and when.

maybe you could be of service somewhere as it keeps our eyes off of ourselves and basically obsessing about manipulating things into place.


food for thought perhaps


best to you

And here I was upset because I sent out flowers and gifts to over 50 women and 1 of them didn't respond to me

She sounded like a scammer to me ......

If you stay or go is up to you. Your post made me think of the many men in my life time I have smiled at and still no one beside me I know it had to of been fifty. Maybe I would get a hello. And sometimes a how are you. In a voice that said they did not even see me So you never know when or where ms or mr right will be. I stay here on the forums. Not looking but hoping to find.And if anyone should be in a rush it should be me. Just ask my family.

Cynic

I didn't get one.

I feel a song coming on.