What would you do if others made you feel this way? (155)
mindfful: is there stuff that goes on in the middle of the night that i just dont know about?
i mean im sure there are but
seriously whats w/ 'the fun people' saying
people want them off the site?
ive not seen anyone be unkind to any of you in a long time
but yes-for whatever reason you do choose to in your words
jump out of nowhere and torture people
im one of them and i never say boo to any of you
seems we are in another round of the bullies
acting like they are the victims
its just different names and faces
the day we are struck blind maybe that will fly
until then its all to be seen in print
just like the scapegoating (-me) regarding people fighting/leaving
and i wasnt even here for like 2-3 days when it happened
its hilarious
it can be seen i wasnt here yet so much is my fault
do i care?
NOPE.
besides zoolander is coming on
*giggle*
i mean im sure there are but
seriously whats w/ 'the fun people' saying
people want them off the site?
ive not seen anyone be unkind to any of you in a long time
but yes-for whatever reason you do choose to in your words
jump out of nowhere and torture people
im one of them and i never say boo to any of you
seems we are in another round of the bullies
acting like they are the victims
its just different names and faces
the day we are struck blind maybe that will fly
until then its all to be seen in print
just like the scapegoating (-me) regarding people fighting/leaving
and i wasnt even here for like 2-3 days when it happened
its hilarious
it can be seen i wasnt here yet so much is my fault
do i care?
NOPE.
besides zoolander is coming on
*giggle*
I'm sure things go on in the middle of the night. I never said anyone was being unkind to me mindfful. I just asked a question. I've seen others getting targeted. Am I torturing others? I didn't realize that I was. Sorry if I am. I don't mean to. Are you calling me a bully?
mindfful: is there stuff that goes on in the middle of the night that i just dont know about?
i mean im sure there are but
seriously whats w/ 'the fun people' saying
people want them off the site?
ive not seen anyone be unkind to any of you in a long time
but yes-for whatever reason you do choose to in your words
jump out of nowhere and torture people
im one of them and i never say boo to any of you
seems we are in another round of the bullies
acting like they are the victims
its just different names and faces
the day we are struck blind maybe that will fly
until then its all to be seen in print
just like the scapegoating (-me) regarding people fighting/leaving
and i wasnt even here for like 2-3 days when it happened
its hilarious
it can be seen i wasnt here yet so much is my fault
do i care?
NOPE.
besides zoolander is coming on
*giggle*
i mean im sure there are but
seriously whats w/ 'the fun people' saying
people want them off the site?
ive not seen anyone be unkind to any of you in a long time
but yes-for whatever reason you do choose to in your words
jump out of nowhere and torture people
im one of them and i never say boo to any of you
seems we are in another round of the bullies
acting like they are the victims
its just different names and faces
the day we are struck blind maybe that will fly
until then its all to be seen in print
just like the scapegoating (-me) regarding people fighting/leaving
and i wasnt even here for like 2-3 days when it happened
its hilarious
it can be seen i wasnt here yet so much is my fault
do i care?
NOPE.
besides zoolander is coming on
*giggle*
Mine was just a dramatic re-enactment for effect....
I'd stick around long enough to figure out if I could do something to change their minds about me, if not- I'd go where people had better attitudes and weren't so judgemental!
If everybody made me feel that way, I'd try to figure out why.sensitive: How would you prank them?
Well...assuming that I'm still 'hanging out' with the people who 'hate' me...I would have access to various areas of their homes. I would just play it off like I didn't realize they were trying to ostracize me. That way...I could have some fun at their expense.
I'd put saran-wrap across their toilets, under both the lid and the seat (of course this would be done immediately before leaving).
If I could think of an excuse to shut off their main breaker...I'd turn their electricity off and switch the breakers. So that when they turned on the kitchen light....a light in a bedroom came on, etc. (I doubt if I could pull this off...since they do 'hate' me and probably wouldn't consend to let me mess with their electricity),
I'd put cans on tuna all around their house....in the air ducts, back corners of pantries and closets, etc. It would take them weeks to get the smell out of the house.
I'd post a sign for 'Estate Sale' with their address at the end of their street. Just the people stopping by to inquire about the 'sale' would drive them insane.
That's all I can think of....for now.
Maryyyyyyy, Here is a hug for you for me if I felt this way, this is what I would do............
continue to show my impish side yeppers.......and just be who I am. I'm not hurting anybody and if someone has a problem with me they can surely avoid me as well. I have way to many other things to think about than to waste my energy on who likes me and who doesn't. blahhhhhh. Girl, that would make my hair go gray!!!! No thanks. Chin up and walk proud
for me if I felt this way, this is what I would do............ continue to show my impish side yeppers.......and just be who I am. I'm not hurting anybody and if someone has a problem with me they can surely avoid me as well. I have way to many other things to think about than to waste my energy on who likes me and who doesn't. blahhhhhh. Girl, that would make my hair go gray!!!! No thanks. Chin up and walk proud
FishingMTgirlsensitive: You felt like you didn't belong.
You felt like you was hated.
No one liked you.
You felt like you was hated.
No one liked you.
I could always read a book instead
Oo I love your new pic Uli 
sensitive: You felt like you didn't belong.
You felt like you was hated.
No one liked you.
You felt like you was hated.
No one liked you.
I guess I would feel the fear and do it anyway
Dont let the bas***ds get you down is what i say - believe in yourself and the rest of the world has no options other than to see this working for you - sometimes its more difficult than others of course but i simply say 'never give up and nevr give in'
Consider others' opinions of course but they are usually subjective ones anyway - whats right for one person isnt necessarily right for another - we are on out own in most things - go out there and show the world you are good at this living stuff - its the only way
One of the most important things I ever taught my girls was to see things from all sides and not to judge whats right for other people from what's right for themselves, we all have different life experiences and I reckon one of the biggest lessons is not to let it get you onto that downward spiral - having said that though, there is a lot to be learned from all of our experiences............
trish123: I guess I would feel the fear and do it anyway
Dont let the bas***ds get you down is what i say - believe in yourself and the rest of the world has no options other than to see this working for you - sometimes its more difficult than others of course but i simply say 'never give up and nevr give in'
Consider others' opinions of course but they are usually subjective ones anyway - whats right for one person isnt necessarily right for another - we are on out own in most things - go out there and show the world you are good at this living stuff - its the only way
One of the most important things I ever taught my girls was to see things from all sides and not to judge whats right for other people from what's right for themselves, we all have different life experiences and I reckon one of the biggest lessons is not to let it get you onto that downward spiral - having said that though, there is a lot to be learned from all of our experiences............
Dont let the bas***ds get you down is what i say - believe in yourself and the rest of the world has no options other than to see this working for you - sometimes its more difficult than others of course but i simply say 'never give up and nevr give in'
Consider others' opinions of course but they are usually subjective ones anyway - whats right for one person isnt necessarily right for another - we are on out own in most things - go out there and show the world you are good at this living stuff - its the only way
One of the most important things I ever taught my girls was to see things from all sides and not to judge whats right for other people from what's right for themselves, we all have different life experiences and I reckon one of the biggest lessons is not to let it get you onto that downward spiral - having said that though, there is a lot to be learned from all of our experiences............
Excellent post Trish.. I totally agree
Claayer: Excellent post Trish.. I totally agree
Thanks Hun
For a few of my younger years I went through the hellish nightmare of self doubt and it was horrible - I was confident around my children but that was about it and I know it takes some working through..............
but, somewhere along the line, I turned a massive corner and I think it was about just getting out there and getting on with things instead of letting fear paralyse me - as it so often does with people
Life is one heck of an adventure and its all the better for grabbing it by the bal*s and getting on with it.
trish123: Thanks Hun
For a few of my younger years I went through the hellish nightmare of self doubt and it was horrible - I was confident around my children but that was about it and I know it takes some working through..............but, somewhere along the line, I turned a massive corner and I think it was about just getting out there and getting on with things instead of letting fear paralyse me - as it so often does with people Life is one heck of an adventure and its all the better for grabbing it by the bal*s and getting on with it.
For a few of my younger years I went through the hellish nightmare of self doubt and it was horrible - I was confident around my children but that was about it and I know it takes some working through..............but, somewhere along the line, I turned a massive corner and I think it was about just getting out there and getting on with things instead of letting fear paralyse me - as it so often does with people Life is one heck of an adventure and its all the better for grabbing it by the bal*s and getting on with it.
Absolutely! I totally agree (again!)
I chose other. I am responsible for my feelings.
I live and breathe and have my being, what is there to belong to? I am already a member of the human race.
Feelings are not facts. It is entirely possible that there are people who feel I hate them. They would be wrong. So I do not assume I know what other people feel about me.
The world is full of people who do not even know I exist. How can they like me? They are busy worrying what other people think of them.
I live and breathe and have my being, what is there to belong to? I am already a member of the human race.
Feelings are not facts. It is entirely possible that there are people who feel I hate them. They would be wrong. So I do not assume I know what other people feel about me.
The world is full of people who do not even know I exist. How can they like me? They are busy worrying what other people think of them.
trish123: I guess I would feel the fear and do it anyway
Dont let the bas***ds get you down is what i say - believe in yourself and the rest of the world has no options other than to see this working for you - sometimes its more difficult than others of course but i simply say 'never give up and nevr give in'
Consider others' opinions of course but they are usually subjective ones anyway - whats right for one person isnt necessarily right for another - we are on out own in most things - go out there and show the world you are good at this living stuff - its the only way
One of the most important things I ever taught my girls was to see things from all sides and not to judge whats right for other people from what's right for themselves, we all have different life experiences and I reckon one of the biggest lessons is not to let it get you onto that downward spiral - having said that though, there is a lot to be learned from all of our experiences............
Dont let the bas***ds get you down is what i say - believe in yourself and the rest of the world has no options other than to see this working for you - sometimes its more difficult than others of course but i simply say 'never give up and nevr give in'
Consider others' opinions of course but they are usually subjective ones anyway - whats right for one person isnt necessarily right for another - we are on out own in most things - go out there and show the world you are good at this living stuff - its the only way
One of the most important things I ever taught my girls was to see things from all sides and not to judge whats right for other people from what's right for themselves, we all have different life experiences and I reckon one of the biggest lessons is not to let it get you onto that downward spiral - having said that though, there is a lot to be learned from all of our experiences............
Well said Trish!
I just re read my response and it gives no hint of the work that went into getting to that point of not giving my power away! Years of meditation, self examination and just plain cussedness. Work in radio and TV and you get letters in the press that tell the whole island what people feel about you. They never seem to publish the friendly ones!
bajanblue: Well said Trish!
I just re read my response and it gives no hint of the work that went into getting to that point of not giving my power away! Years of meditation, self examination and just plain cussedness. Work in radio and TV and you get letters in the press that tell the whole island what people feel about you. They never seem to publish the friendly ones!
I just re read my response and it gives no hint of the work that went into getting to that point of not giving my power away! Years of meditation, self examination and just plain cussedness. Work in radio and TV and you get letters in the press that tell the whole island what people feel about you. They never seem to publish the friendly ones!
I know you know Dorielle - your insight into people and your self too is always evident
trish123: I know you know Dorielle - your insight into people and your self too is always evident
Kudos to you, Trish
Hugs to you Dorielle
You are both extra special ladies
Probably stay and i wouldn't give a flying ....
arabella: Kudos to you, Trish
Hugs to you Dorielle
You are both extra special ladies
Hugs to you Dorielle
You are both extra special ladies
Thanks Arabella - it takes one to know one they say
OTHER....
I'm in full agreement with the common consensus posted here.
Stressing over others opinions of you is an exercise in futility.
I'm in full agreement with the common consensus posted here.
Stressing over others opinions of you is an exercise in futility.
Bottom line?? I don't want to be where I'm not wanted!
Want proof?? I've been married four times......and never again!!
Hell at my age...what would be the sense of getting married again
Want proof?? I've been married four times......and never again!!
Hell at my age...what would be the sense of getting married again
Claayer: Oo I love your new pic Uli
Thanks Claayer,
took 40 to look 20
nomindgames: You are liked.I picked other.I would keep doing whatever it is and ignore any naysayers.Not everone in this world you meet will like you.Nor will you like everyone.Don't let someone bring you done.
Your beautiful
your intelligent
your cared about by people here on cs
Your probably cared about by people in r/l
your opinion counts
your as good or better in whatever way here on cs.
You make mistakes and learn from them
your humanDon't know if we can say that about all on here
Your beautiful
your intelligent
your cared about by people here on cs
Your probably cared about by people in r/l
your opinion counts
your as good or better in whatever way here on cs.
You make mistakes and learn from them
your humanDon't know if we can say that about all on here
Very well put, even a bit too "optimistic" , but it is something that many of us forget as it seems to go against what has been unfortunately instilled into many from childhood on.
Having said that, I find the choices somewhat limited in that your feelings as whether to go or stay is not limited to how you simply react to others, but also how you feel towards these others.
Would you ignore how you feel about them; do you like them regardless of how they may feel about you, if one does actually like some or all of those who want you gone, do you accommodate them and grovel til they do like you...is it worth it ...do you, in fact find any humiliation in becoming "likable"??? Are THEY worth it?
For myself, I came at a very early age to the altitude of "let the world linger on my middle finger", it is my choice, not someone else's as to stay around and either grovel or assert one's self or leave. Try and balance out the pros and cons of those around you it is again the question of Are they worth it? (and if so, why...?) %)
For myself, I came at a very early age to the altitude of "let the world linger on my middle finger", quote]
Hilarious attitude Solitare I love it
Hilarious attitude Solitare
I love it I would leave and I have left. Honey, there is no reason to let another person have that kind of power over you. You look like a beautiful person, of course I don't know your personality, but just from looking at your photo, you look beautiful. If it is a man that is making you feel this way, then he is not worth the time of day. Someone can take your self esteme and destroy it, but you have to fight back and let them know you are worth something. If you can't make a difference in the way you are treated, then by all means leave as fast as you can and forget it. Start all over somewhere else.
voldoll: I would leave and I have left. Honey, there is no reason to let another person have that kind of power over you. You look like a beautiful person, of course I don't know your personality, but just from looking at your photo, you look beautiful. If it is a man that is making you feel this way, then he is not worth the time of day. Someone can take your self esteme and destroy it, but you have to fight back and let them know you are worth something. If you can't make a difference in the way you are treated, then by all means leave as fast as you can and forget it. Start all over somewhere else.
Thank you for your compliments. Your input is greatly appreciated.
You look beautiful yourself. Just go away now
gangel: Just go away now
You want me to go away? 
But but but gangel. 
sensitive: You want me to go away? But but but gangel.
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i mean im sure there are but
seriously whats w/ 'the fun people' saying
people want them off the site?
ive not seen anyone be unkind to any of you in a long time
but yes-for whatever reason you do choose to in your words
jump out of nowhere and torture people
im one of them and i never say boo to any of you
seems we are in another round of the bullies
acting like they are the victims
its just different names and faces
the day we are struck blind maybe that will fly
until then its all to be seen in print
just like the scapegoating (-me) regarding people fighting/leaving
and i wasnt even here for like 2-3 days when it happened
its hilarious
it can be seen i wasnt here yet so much is my fault
do i care?
NOPE.
besides zoolander is coming on
*giggle*