I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.
What would you do in this situation?
Talk to the wife before messing with the friend's feelings!
I go the movies all the time with woman who aren't my partner (and who are in a relationship), doesn't mean a thing.
If you suspect foul play, ask her about it first, give her the chance to deal with it without any interference from you. Suppose she is cheating, her knowing that you know will make her think about comming clean. If she isn't cheating, you'll look the fool for mistaking a friendship for a fling, and you'll cause unneeded troubles by telling him without knowing for sure.
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.
What would you do in this situation?
Leave it alone.
Unless both, or the three of them are asked, then no one knows the true circumstances.
No point telling him and having him lose consentration and getting himself shot.
There are million scenarios that could be happening.
leostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa1,685 posts
invinciblemuse: Talk to the wife before messing with the friend's feelings!
Yes ditto. Even if they were fogging up the room with their snogging! It would be such an awful thing to tell your friend and chances are he'd be mad at you too... I'd first try to talk to the wife and find out what exactly is going on then try to persuade her to work it out with her husband.
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.
What would you do in this situation?
i would do nothing,,and u need stoip being a busy body
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.
What would you do in this situation?
wow..well that would be a tough one for me..i would want to tell him but i probably wouldnt because i would feel devestated if he got killed in the war after finding out such horrible news about his wife..might wait untill he was home safely and for good before i could lay that news on him..it isnt right he was cheated on but on the other hand, timing might be important? kind of a tough call i guess.
wordsmith99: It's not your onions, as they say in France. Nothing to do with you, so don't mess.
(It's probably just her brother/father/old school pal/co-worker/fellow film buff anyway.)
I am not sure what I would do but you certainly need all the facts seiing some one together at a movie can be alot of things
I also find it interesting how so many say to mind your own business. yet most likely are the first to rip into a friend for not informing them if this was going on behind thier back
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.
What would you do in this situation?
If he was my best friend of course I'd let him know about it but only if it looked suspicious and to confirm this I'd try to find out more about this guy. By this I don’t mean I’d stalk him or them and of course I certainly wouldn't let him know about it unless I was absolutely sure something wrong was taking place.
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