Would you tell your best friend? ( Archived) (24)

Sep 17, 2010 5:30 AM CSTWould you tell your best friend?
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire, USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts

Would you tell your best friend?(Vote Below)

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Yes
20
39%
No
5
10%
Confront Her
9
18%
Leave it alone
17
33%
Total Votes
51
I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.

What would you do in this situation?
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Sep 17, 2010 5:35 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
knowme77
knowme77knowme77Vienna, Austria1 Threads 11 Posts
Hm... going to the mivies with another man... is it a big deal? He could be one of her friends!!
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Sep 17, 2010 5:38 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.

What would you do in this situation?


Talk to the wife before messing with the friend's feelings! doh
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Sep 17, 2010 5:39 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
tarcandor
tarcandortarcandorZonhoven, Limburg Belgium27 Posts
I go the movies all the time with woman who aren't my partner (and who are in a relationship), doesn't mean a thing.

If you suspect foul play, ask her about it first, give her the chance to deal with it without any interference from you. Suppose she is cheating, her knowing that you know will make her think about comming clean. If she isn't cheating, you'll look the fool for mistaking a friendship for a fling, and you'll cause unneeded troubles by telling him without knowing for sure.
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Sep 17, 2010 5:40 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.

What would you do in this situation?


Leave it alone.

Unless both, or the three of them are asked, then no one knows the true circumstances.

No point telling him and having him lose consentration and getting himself shot.

There are million scenarios that could be happening.

No one's business but theirs.doh
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Sep 17, 2010 5:41 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
GingerBe: Leave it alone.

Unless both, or the three of them are asked, then no one knows the true circumstances.

No point telling him and having him lose consentration and getting himself shot.

There are million scenarios that could be happening.

No one's business but theirs.



thumbs up


Ginger wave
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Sep 17, 2010 5:42 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
invinciblemuse: Talk to the wife before messing with the friend's feelings!


Yes ditto. Even if they were fogging up the room with their snogging! It would be such an awful thing to tell your friend and chances are he'd be mad at you too... I'd first try to talk to the wife and find out what exactly is going on then try to persuade her to work it out with her husband.
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Sep 17, 2010 5:49 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
zdeathangelz
zdeathangelzzdeathangelzjacksonville, Florida USA22 Threads 3,743 Posts
i would wait until he got home,see what kind of frame of mine he is in,than think about telling him.help
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Sep 17, 2010 7:43 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
GingerBe: Leave it alone.

Unless both, or the three of them are asked, then no one knows the true circumstances.

No point telling him and having him lose consentration and getting himself shot.

There are million scenarios that could be happening.

No one's business but theirs.


thumbs up
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Sep 17, 2010 7:46 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.

What would you do in this situation?


I would blackmail her....devil
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Sep 17, 2010 1:11 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
serene56: Ginger


Sorry for not saying HI. wave Had to go out for a bit. Trying to get ticket sorted for going to Barca on Sun. All done now.

Hope you had a good day so far.bouquet
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Sep 17, 2010 1:12 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
magsx
magsxmagsxLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland6 Threads 431 Posts
I mind my own business.......... wine
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Sep 17, 2010 1:18 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
irishrebel75
irishrebel75irishrebel75Fairfax, Missouri USA123 Threads 5 Polls 1,755 Posts
knowme77: Hm... going to the mivies with another man... is it a big deal? He could be one of her friends!!
or brother cousin or other family...hell he might even be gay...i'd get all the facts straight before i made a fool of myself
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Sep 17, 2010 2:34 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
justadawg
justadawgjustadawgsomewhere, Texas USA2 Threads 328 Posts
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.

What would you do in this situation?
i would do nothing,,and u need stoip being a busy bodyrolling on the floor laughing frustrated frustrated drinking drinking
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Sep 17, 2010 2:36 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
GingerBe: Leave it alone.

Unless both, or the three of them are asked, then no one knows the true circumstances.

No point telling him and having him lose consentration and getting himself shot.

There are million scenarios that could be happening.

No one's business but theirs.


yep... leave it alone, enough said.thumbs up
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Sep 17, 2010 2:45 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
My thoughts exactly.
GingerBe: Leave it alone.

Unless both, or the three of them are asked, then no one knows the true circumstances.

No point telling him and having him lose consentration and getting himself shot.

There are million scenarios that could be happening.

No one's business but theirs.
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Sep 17, 2010 2:57 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.

What would you do in this situation?
wow..well that would be a tough one for me..i would want to tell him but i probably wouldnt because i would feel devestated if he got killed in the war after finding out such horrible news about his wife..might wait untill he was home safely and for good before i could lay that news on him..it isnt right he was cheated on but on the other hand, timing might be important? kind of a tough call i guess.
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Sep 17, 2010 3:33 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
wordsmith99
wordsmith99wordsmith99Lyon, Rhone-Alpes France2 Threads 399 Posts
It's not your onions, as they say in France. Nothing to do with you, so don't mess.

(It's probably just her brother/father/old school pal/co-worker/fellow film buff anyway.)
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Sep 17, 2010 4:06 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
just_wondering
just_wonderingjust_wonderingSaskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada2 Threads 1 Polls 37 Posts
wordsmith99: It's not your onions, as they say in France. Nothing to do with you, so don't mess.

(It's probably just her brother/father/old school pal/co-worker/fellow film buff anyway.)


I am not sure what I would do but you certainly need all the facts seiing some one together at a movie can be alot of things

I also find it interesting how so many say to mind your own business. yet most likely are the first to rip into a friend for not informing them if this was going on behind thier back
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Sep 17, 2010 4:08 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
What was the movie?
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Sep 17, 2010 4:16 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
Raynew1959: I was listening to the radio the other morning and they were talking about how a guy had gone to the movies and saw his best friends wife there with another guy. His best friend is in the military and is on his third tour in Afghanistan.

What would you do in this situation?



If he was my best friend of course I'd let him know about it but only if it looked suspicious and to confirm this I'd try to find out more about this guy. By this I don’t mean I’d stalk him or them and of course I certainly wouldn't let him know about it unless I was absolutely sure something wrong was taking place.
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Sep 18, 2010 4:37 AM CST Would you tell your best friend?
moe110
moe110moe110Waterloo, Ontario Canada2 Threads 1 Polls 24 Posts
Boban1: I would blackmail her....

rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Sep 25, 2010 5:44 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
knowme77
knowme77knowme77Vienna, Austria1 Threads 11 Posts
irishrebel75: or brother cousin or other family...hell he might even be gay...i'd get all the facts straight before i made a fool of myself


thumbs up thumbs up
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Sep 25, 2010 5:47 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
GingerBe: Leave it alone.

Unless both, or the three of them are asked, then no one knows the true circumstances.

No point telling him and having him lose consentration and getting himself shot.

There are million scenarios that could be happening.

No one's business but theirs.



good advice, right now the guy's survival should be the first thing on his mind.
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Sep 25, 2010 5:49 PM CST Would you tell your best friend?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
Boban1: I would blackmail her....
laugh
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