I must admit that I have found that people respond to the way you present yourself, rather than the way you feel inside. Sometimes I might be feeling really down, but I maintain a friendly smile and people would respond to that. there times I might be feeling frivolous and in a teasing mood, but have a stern outward appearance, and people would pick up on my appearance rather than my feelings.
So basically, what you project into the world is what people respond to.
Stand up and BE COUNTED ! ! ! !
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