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I've kind of been anticipating it for the past few

Hi African

Hi Yazz

Thanks girls. No harm done.

Yazz, I've been known to leave a machine behind and walk away if need be

I've kind of been anticipating it for the past few

Aswina
Sleep Well

RE: needed or wanted

I can't remember ever saying either "Ï want you" or "I need you" to someone.
I "want" to be with someone and I "want" someone special in my life...
but I "need" food, water, and my God. Can't quite think of anything or anyone else that I need that badly
and of course I "need" to know that my family is safe.

I've kind of been anticipating it for the past few

Sorry duckie, I deleted it . . . "some people" thought the blog was about them . . .

I've kind of been anticipating it for the past few

duckie, thank you . I am good .
clairvoyant no I'm not. However I do get "feelings" which preceed events but I never have an idea of what to anticipate. I wrote a blog about this last week.

RE: SING A SONG TO YOURSELF

Goodlucktoall it is always refreshing to read your blogs. You give love so freely and it always brings a smile to my face. thank you

I've kind of been anticipating it for the past few

Thanks for caring Aswina

Let's just say that he was a kind soul shall we

I've kind of been anticipating it for the past few

Aswina, I KNEW a lady would understand what I was up against.


I nearly broke a heel AND MY BAG What don't men understand about that

I've kind of been anticipating it for the past few

Jim, I would agree, except thatwhen the contents of my bag are at risk, I don't feel to come-hitherish

RE: dating goals

Steve

Have you ever watched a dog chase a car ? ?


He is all excited and enthusiastic and running aroung chasing his tail, and salivating all over the show . . .
the moment the car stops, he might bark for a little while longer, sometimes he stops quite abruptly . . .

Why ? ? ??

He has no IDEA what to do with it once he has caught


Relevance ??

Pretty much the same thing happens in the dating game . . .it seems that mostly the men (but not excluding women) . . . have NO IDEA what to do next, after they have captured the lady's attention.

Maybe you are right maybe there should be a set of guidelines set up to offer all the poor sods a clue on how to progress with a relationship AFTER the initial meet (ladies and gents).

RE: confident or arrogant

We're in agreement

RE: confident or arrogant

Well put Baltus

RE: Earthquake

To everybody out in that zone, I hope you are all okay.

RE: confident or arrogant

Brip I know you are waiting the the ladies take on this, but confidence is an admirable quality. The line between the two???? ATTITUDE

A man walks into a exclusive car showroom, in shorts, sandals and a t-shirt. The young sales rep watches him for a while as he peers at the various models on the floor. Eventually he walks up to him and informs him that he would have to leave the showroom as he is creating a bad impression, and these vehicles would not be in his price range.
As the older gentleman walks away, another rep sees him and aprroaches to ask if he could help.
A shortwhile later, the older gentleman leaves the showroom, the proud new owner of one of the top models on the showroom floor. It turned out that he was a multi-millionaire.

Because the older gentleman was confident enough in who he was, he felt no reason to pander to other peoples image of what he should be or should look like. The young man's arrogance and preconceived ideas, cost him a hefty commission.




Steve, if I had to define the two, I would probably put it pretty much the same way you have. Arrogance, is not a pretty sight, I tend to avoid people who exhibit that trait.
While I welcome confidence in any body, and encourage it in those around me.

RE: im having trouble

Steve, that trick has been working for me, after a while they even disappear off my mail list
A few are persistent ( or very dense) but generally, they back off

Good Luck

RE: im having trouble

Steve, like you I also tend to respond to all my mail, (I thought I was the only crazy person here ) and sometimes it becomes tedious when the same type of mails are received. Some come across as sincere until the follow-up mail is received. I politely insist on using the cs mail inbox, and this weeds most of them out.

Those who are genuine, will and do respond. Don't give up . . just keep on trying . .. you will find her

RE: im having trouble

all i can say is . . . WELCOME TO THE WORLD OF . . . .

RE: why!!

Feeling, haven't heard that one in ages

RE: Smoking

Aswina, well put . . . I love mine too and for the same reasons

RE: MY INNER PRISON...

I'm trying to post, but there are restrictions in place

RE: MY INNER PRISON...

Zweety, I'd love to send it, but you need to be available

RE: MY INNER PRISON...

Zweet, joking aside, we all feel like that on occassion, and its OKAY to feel that way, for a LITTLE while, you are a wonderful person, from what I've encountered here, and I think you are deserving of ALL the good things in life . . . you just have to avail yourself to receive it.

I received a lovely mail in the week, I'd like to forward it to you if I may????

RE: why!!

Country, if they are lying to you, then they don't deserve to be part of your life, lift your head up high, slap on a bit of blush, a slash of lipstick, put a smile on that face, and head on out the door. there is someone out there who will care. But you won't find him, and he wont find you, if you are hiding away.

SO GET OUT THERE ! ! ! !

RE: why!!

But isn't the kitchen where all the action takes place ? ? ? ?

Shucks I've been hanging out in the wrong area at parties

Thanks feelings, you just burst my bubble again

RE: MY INNER PRISON...

Zweety, I told you all this in confidence , I could you go proclaim it to the world

OOooppps, SORREEE

You weren't talking about me were you ? ? ?

Were you?????

RE: Smoking

I'm a reformed smoker. smoked heavily for many years, then stopped cold turkey.

For a few years I was okay around smokers, my only request was that they did not smoke in my house or in my car, which they respected.
But then I developed Asthma and smoking proved to be one of the biggest triggers for me. It left me out on the perimeter when we had socials, because I couldn't afford to be where everybody was smoking, which is normally the more lively group.

What about those left behind ?

Latin: I think that if more people took the time to "listen"like you just did, and offer a hug or a word of support, then MAYBE it would make a difference for some of those people who are suffering like that.
than you

RE: One photo of 53

Jim, once again some brilliant pics.

I tried to kiss him and he hopped away ???

Are you sure there's a prince in there????

What about those left behind ?

Yazz, I get the feeling we were posting comments at the same time, so my comments before and after yors might clarify my position a bit more.

You also have to understand that not only did I experience the desire to do this myself, but the worst for me was to watch my daughter go through that struggle with the desire for two years. For TWO YEARS I would sit at night and listen for any unusual sounds coming from her room , or make an excuse to go into her room, (twice I got there just in time). I remember what it was like waking up in the morning and dreading going into her room, not knowing what I would find.

Do I understand ? ? ? ?

Ohh I think I do . . .

What about those left behind ?

Jim, I wish I could stop it. . . but in order to do that I would have to have the ability to take away all the pain everybody suffers . . .

Care to tell me how to get that right?